In this raw and honest comeback episode ofUnlearned, Jaime and CA open up about their recent divorce and journey of healing. They discuss unlearning old patterns and navigating neurodivergence while finding a balance between intellectualizing pain and truly feeling their emotions. With candid vulnerability and humor, they invite listeners to join them on a path toward new beginnings.
Notes:
Hosts return after a long hiatus following intense personal healing.
They discuss their recent divorce as a transformative, painful step.
The conversation centers on unlearning old relational patterns.
They explore how neurodivergence shapes their need for structure and emotional processing.
A key theme is balancing the urge to intellectualize pain with the need to feel it.
Vulnerability and raw emotion are embraced throughout the episode.
The hosts highlight the importance of setting healthy boundaries.
They share personal anecdotes that reveal layers of trauma and growth.
The dialogue examines the interplay between physical survival and emotional well-being.
They critique oversimplified self-help advice in favor of honest self-discovery.
The episode invites listeners to join them on a journey toward new beginnings.
Future episodes promise a blend of deep introspection and lighter moments.
Links:
Would you like CA to coach you?https://tinyurl.com/ybt3jwat (https://tinyurl.com/ybt3jwat)
Order Jaime’s book “TOXIC RELATIONSHIP RECOVERY,” today! It is available in paperback, as an audiobook (read by Jaime, herself), and as an e-book.https://bit.ly/43Ka8kE (https://bit.ly/43Ka8kE)
Support the podcast by joining our Coffee Fiend club: https://www.patreon.com/unlearned (https://www.patreon.com/unlearned)
FREEBIE! Intention Prompts: (http://tinyurl.com/Intentionprompts)http://tinyurl.com/Intentionprompts (http://tinyurl.com/Intentionprompts%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0)
CA’s Voxer Coaching:http://tinyurl.com/434fs8zd (http://tinyurl.com/434fs8zd)
Jaime’s Coaching:https://recollectedself.com/workwithme (https://recollectedself.com/workwithme)
Follow the podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunlearnedpodcast/ (https://www.instagram.com/theunlearnedpodcast/)
Jaime’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/recollectedself/ (https://www.instagram.com/recollectedself/)
Jaime’s TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@recollectedself (https://www.tiktok.com/@recollectedself%5C)
CA’s Instagram: https://www.secure.instagram.com/embracingdivergence/ (https://www.secure.instagram.com/embracingdivergence/)
CA’s Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingdivergence (https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingdivergence)
Email us topics/suggestions: unlearned@recollectedself.com (mailto:unlearned@recollectedself.com)
International Suicide Hotlines:https://blog.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlines (https://blog.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlines)
National Suicide Hotline: Call:988 Text: 988
Website:https://988lifeline.org/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=onebox (https://988lifeline.org/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=onebox)
Lifeline Options For Deaf + Hard of Hearing For TTY Users: Use your preferred relay service or dial 711 then 988.
Over 50 Club!
Amanda B.
Plamen S.
Rachel S. (Her Petstagram: @mini_carlo_pinscher)
24 Jun 2024
Ep 72: Can People Pleasers Consent?
We hear a lot about consent in a sexual context, but what about the other places it shows up? Jaime and CA explore the nuance of consent and what it means in regards to our relationships and how we show up for our partners, friends, and family.
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Support the podcast by joining our Coffee Fiend club: https://www.patreon.com/unlearned
Order Jaime’s book “TOXIC RELATIONSHIP RECOVERY,” today! It is available in paperback, as an audiobook (read by Jaime, herself), and as an e-book. https://bit.ly/43Ka8kE
Notes:
We’re back!
Our first ever in person retreat!
FRIES in Consent
Where curiosity and enthusiasm come into play
Fuck yes vs yes energy
How our consent is perceived
Why people resist “I guess”
Where people pleasing comes into play
Strategies to consenting properly
Links:
Support the podcast by joining our Coffee Fiend club: https://www.patreon.com/unlearned
FREEBIE! Intention Prompts: http://tinyurl.com/Intentionprompts
CA’s Voxer Coaching: http://tinyurl.com/434fs8zd
Jaime’s Coaching: https://recollectedself.com/workwithme
Follow the podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunlearnedpodcast/
Jaime’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/recollectedself/
Jaime’s TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@recollectedself
CA’s Instagram: https://www.secure.instagram.com/embracingdivergence/
CA’s Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingdivergence
Email us topics/suggestions: unlearned@recollectedself.com
International Suicide Hotlines: https://blog.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlinesNational Suicide Hotline: Call:988Text: 988
Website:https://988lifeline.org/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=onebox
Lifeline Options For Deaf + Hard of Hearing For TTY Users: Use your preferred relay service or dial 711 then 988.
Over 50 Club!
Amanda B.
Plamen S.
Rachel S. (Her Petstagram: @mini_carlo_pinscher)
3 Jun 2024
Ep 71: I Didn't Have a Childhood
Social media is filled with nostalgia and it can be a lot of fun. But what happens when you look at the shared childhood experiences of others and think to yourself, “that wasn’t me?” Join CA and Jaime as they explore what life looks like for those of us who have had to, more or less, raise ourselves. Is being a latchkey kid something we need to heal from? Listen in and find out.
Support the podcast by joining our Coffee Fiend club: https://www.patreon.com/unlearned (https://www.patreon.com/unlearned)
Come to our first-ever in-person retreat: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfrd6U-OtzJdV1OePJLKqnOVYlwuGfwugZs--fSN1UQIi8GIA/viewform (https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfrd6U-OtzJdV1OePJLKqnOVYlwuGfwugZs--fSN1UQIi8GIA/viewform )
Order Jaime’s book “TOXIC RELATIONSHIP RECOVERY,” today! It is available in paperback, as an audiobook (read by Jaime, herself), and as an e-book. https://bit.ly/43Ka8kE (https://bit.ly/43Ka8kE)
Notes:
Jaime’s struggles with memory around her childhood
CA’s struggles with not having a carefree childhood
What happens when you don’t remember your childhood like other people do
Parentification - what it is and what it means
How parentification affects development
Latchkey kids and how they cope
Why we need to connect with ourselves and find our needs
Healing from our childhood trauma
Understanding and embracing your inner child
Using your inner child was a parent
Links:
Support the podcast by joining our Coffee Fiend club: https://www.patreon.com/unlearned (https://www.patreon.com/unlearned)
FREEBIE! Intention Prompts: (http://tinyurl.com/Intentionprompts)http://tinyurl.com/Intentionprompts (http://tinyurl.com/Intentionprompts%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0)
CA’s Voxer Coaching: http://tinyurl.com/434fs8zd (http://tinyurl.com/434fs8zd)
Jaime’s Coaching: https://recollectedself.com/workwithme (https://recollectedself.com/workwithme)
Follow the podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunlearnedpodcast/ (https://www.instagram.com/theunlearnedpodcast/)
Jaime’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/recollectedself/ (https://www.instagram.com/recollectedself/)
Jaime’s TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@recollectedself (https://www.tiktok.com/@recollectedself%5C)
CA’s Instagram: https://www.secure.instagram.com/embracingdivergence/ (https://www.secure.instagram.com/embracingdivergence/)
CA’s Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingdivergence (https://www.tiktok.com/@embracingdivergence)
Email us topics/suggestions: unlearned@recollectedself.com (mailto:unlearned@recollectedself.com)
International Suicide Hotlines: https://blog.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlines (https://blog.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlines)National Suicide Hotline: Call:988Text: 988
Website:https://988lifeline.org/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=onebox (https://988lifeline.org/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=onebox)
Lifeline Options For Deaf + Hard of Hearing For TTY Users: Use your preferred relay service or dial 711 then 988.
Over 50 Club!
Amanda B.
Plamen S.
Rachel S. (Her Petstagram: @mini_carlo_pinscher)
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80 ratings
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168 ratings
Podcast Authority Score: 74 / 100
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