Called & Convicted — where calling gets discovered and conviction gets defended.
I'm Whitney Kay — entrepreneur, content & sales strategist, and discipleship leader. Fifteen-plus years building brands and mentoring founders. Six-plus years leading and discipling women through scripture in small group ministry. I've also rebuilt from the ground up more than once, from the loss of my father, abuse, years chasing worldly influences instead of God's, divorce, a season of homelessness I dug myself out of. I know what it means to lose your footing and find it again on something solid.
I'm not speaking from having arrived. I'm still walking this out daily, and this show is where I'm opening up space for the hard conversations along the way.
This isn't another podcast telling you to follow your dreams. It's real conversations with guests unpacking how they found what they were made for, me breaking down the biblical practices that separate God's conviction from the world's noise, and hard confrontations with the cultural lies muddying your judgment and calling it truth.
I'm not here to make you comfortable, and I'm not here pretending I have it all figured out. I'm here to help you discern your purpose and stand on truth in the space between what the culture's selling and what God's asking of you — because I'm asking those same questions of myself.
Let's go ahead and dive right in...
How to Know a Friendship Is Costing You Your Conviction
You think you can be around anyone and stay unaffected. You can't.
In this episode I'm walking through three friendships I had to let cost me something — the ones built around drugs and alcohol, the ones where I took relationship advice from people who weren't living anything close to a Christian marriage, and the ones that ran on gossip. Same pattern, three different faces: I was being shaped by what I stayed close to, whether I noticed it or not.
We're going to scripture for this one — 1 Corinthians 15:33, Romans 12:2, 2 Corinthians 6:14-17, Proverbs 13:20, 1 Corinthians 5:9-11, and James 4:4 — to make the case for why proximity to compromise isn't neutral, even when it's passive. And I'll show you where the line is between that and what Jesus actually modeled with people who were still in process, so this doesn't turn into permission to write people off.
This isn't a guide to spotting a toxic friend. It's a question: what is closeness costing you that you haven't named yet.
Called out, or still finding out?
About the host: Whitney Kay is a content & sales strategist in brand partnerships with 15+ years as an entrepreneur and 6+ years leading discipleship and small group ministry. Called + Convicted is her show on discerning calling and defending conviction — for anyone caught between what culture's selling and what God's asking.
Listen and follow: Instagram @heywhitneykay (https://instagram.com/brokenbutgrafted) | TikTok @calledandconvicted (https://www.tiktok.com/@calledandconvicted)
13 Aug 2026
Called out with Brenda Joy: Comfortable Isn't the Same as Called
At 55, Brenda Joy sold a chocolate business she'd built over 21 years, moved her husband and four kids from Iowa to Florida, and walked straight into a season she didn't have a plan for. What followed wasn't the clean pivot her online bio makes it sound like — it was a second business that never felt aligned, a job she took for the money and got fired from within days, and a community she had to walk away from with no promise of what would replace it.
In this conversation, Brenda breaks down what it actually cost her to keep listening past the point where the outcome made sense — the friendships that didn't survive the move, the identity she had to let go of as a lifelong "task-oriented, striving" entrepreneur, and the discomfort of being told to just be still when stillness wasn't in her nature. We get into how she learned to tell the difference between fear talking and God directing, why comparison is the thing quietly disqualifying midlife women online before culture ever gets the chance to, and what it actually looks like to stay in your lane when everyone around you is building in someone else's.
This is a conversation about obedience without the finished version of the story — what it looks like while you're still walking it out, not after you've landed on the other side.
About the host: Whitney Kay is a content & sales strategist in brand partnerships with 15+ years as an entrepreneur and 6+ years leading discipleship and small group ministry. Called + Convicted is her show on discerning calling and defending conviction — for anyone caught between what culture's selling and what God's asking.
Listen and follow: Instagram @heywhitneykay (https://instagram.com/brokenbutgrafted) | TikTok @calledandconvicted (https://www.tiktok.com/@calledandconvicted)
6 Aug 2026
Why I Didn't Let My Daughter Watch The Minions & Monsters Movie
Witchcraft in a trailer built for six-year-olds. So I went and watched the whole thing.
My daughter wanted to watch the new Minions movie. I pulled up the trailer to check it first — and less than two minutes in, I felt it. Witchcraft, in a preview for a film rated for six-year-olds.
I could've stopped there. Instead, I sent my daughter to camp and went to see the whole movie myself — phone notes in hand — because I wasn't going to build a public conviction on a 90-second clip.
In this episode: what's actually in Minions & Monsters, the spellbook and summoning imagery I documented frame by frame, the alcohol-soaked "good life" the film keeps selling as happiness, and the scripture that names both of those patterns plainly — Deuteronomy 18:10-12, Isaiah 5:20, 1 John 2:15-16, and more.
This isn't a boycott call. It's a method — how to test a gut reaction instead of either dismissing it or running with it blind. Take it with you to whatever's next on your kid's watch list.
Scripture referenced: Deuteronomy 18:10-12 · 2 Corinthians 11:14 · John 8:44 · Isaiah 5:20 · 1 Peter 5:8 · Ephesians 6:12 · 1 John 2:15-16 · Philippians 4:8 · Psalm 101:3
So let's go ahead and dive right in.
About the host: Whitney Kay is a content & sales strategist in brand partnerships with 15+ years as an entrepreneur and 6+ years leading discipleship and small group ministry. Called + Convicted is her show on discerning calling and defending conviction — for anyone caught between what culture's selling and what God's asking.
Listen and follow: Instagram @heywhitneykay (https://instagram.com/brokenbutgrafted) | TikTok @calledandconvicted (https://www.tiktok.com/@calledandconvicted)
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