Unrelating with Kel & Michelle

About Unrelating with Kel & Michelle

Unrelating is an all new podcast that explores relationships, why we do what we do, and what causes people to "un-relate". Join Kelly & Michelle as they talk to real people about the relationship challenges they face and provide an expert to help them sort it all out. Unrelating is hosted by show producer Kelly Beck and relationship expert Michelle Schafer. Michelle is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who has been providing individual and couple’s therapy for two decades. Michelle has her Bachelor’s degree in Biopsychology and Cognitive Science from the University of Michigan and a Master’s in Clinical Psychology, with an emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy, from Pepperdine. Through her practice, she has seen patterns and themes that connect us as people. Her scientific background will help us learn about the brain mechanisms that influence our behavior. And her psychology background will help us figure out if we should continue in the relationships we’re in! Follow us on Instagram @unrelatingpocast and be sure to download us on Apple, iHeart, Spotify, Youtube, or wherever you get your podcasts! And if you have a question, comment or would like to be a guest on the show, email us at theunrelatingpodcast@gmail.com

Publisher

Kel & Michelle

Category

education · health & fitness · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

16 Oct 2024

Latest episode

16 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

39 of 104 episodes have a transcript.

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   16 Oct 2026TRANSCRIPT

   Unrelating With Kel & Michelle Episode 58 Deep Dive: Learn to Listen to Your Partner's LUST Language

   Intimacy expert Susan Bratton joins hosts Kel and Michelle to explore understanding your partner's lust language for a healthier relationship.

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   14 Oct 2026TRANSCRIPT

   Learn To Speak Your Lust Language

   Intimacy expert Susan Bratton joins Kel and Michelle to explore her FLESH framework for couples to enhance sexual connection and communication.

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   19 Sept 2026

   Unrelating With Kel & Michelle Episode 56 Deep Dive: Growing From Our Accountability

   Host Michelle discusses growing from accountability, drawing insights from guest Kirsten Davidson, owner of Mind The Gaps Psychotherapy.

Inside a recent episode

Unrelating With Kel & Michelle Episode 58 Deep Dive: Learn to Listen to Your Partner's LUST Language

Published 16 Oct 2026 · Transcript excerpt

[…] I use this technique frequently with couples. I ask them to be clear and say out loud things like, what does your partner do well that you want them to keep doing or increase? What do you wish your partner would stop doing or even decrease? What are your favorite methods of quick connection? You know, those tiny opportunities during the day to feel loved. Is it a substantial hug as you wind down from the day? A quick squeeze on the shoulder or a peck on the neck when your partner walks by you? Or a quick verbal affirmation like, hey, love you. I know a lot of folks may feel like they're putting a lot or enough effort into their relationships, but it's really worth figuring out if it's wasted effort. […]

Who has been a guest on Unrelating with Kel & Michelle

Names identified in recent episode analyses. Showing up to five guests.

• Susan Bratton
• Kirsten Davidson
• Gary Ras
• Machan Taylor
• David Deane Haskell

Reach and audience

Public platform figures. Ratings count people who left a rating, not total listeners.

Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

11 ratings

Spotify

5.0 / 5

4 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 63 / 100

A composite of feed quality, social presence, YouTube performance and engagement. Read the methodology.

Quality

87

Social presence

90

YouTube

0

Engagement

51

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Guest appearances

Books guests

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