Us & Them

About Us & Them

Opinions, experiences, conspiracies and everything in between. Two blokes discussing it all.

Publisher

Paul Derham

Category

news · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

24 Apr 2026

Latest episode

12 Jul 2026

Latest episodes

5 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   12 Jul 2026

   Domestic Violence

   Domestic violence is far more than physical abuse. It can be emotional, psychological, financial, coercive and controlling, often leaving lasting scars that aren't visible to the outside world. In this powerful and deeply important episode of Us & Them, we sit down with a survivor and advocate Tash Bridgeland, who courageously shares her personal journey through domestic violence. Tash reflects on the warning signs she didn't recognise at the time, the reality of living under coercive control, the moment she knew she had to leave, and the long road to rebuilding her life. Together, we explore the many forms domestic violence can take, the impact it has on individuals, children and families, the barriers that prevent people from leaving, and what friends, family and communities can do when they suspect someone may be experiencing abuse. This conversation is honest, confronting and ultimately hopeful. Whether you've experienced domestic violence yourself, know someone who has, or simply want to better understand how to recognise and respond to abuse, this episode aims to educate, challenge perceptions and remind those affected they are not alone. Content Warning: This episode contains discussions of domestic violence, coercive control, financial abuse and trauma that some listeners may find disturbing. Please listen with care. Help is available. 1800RESPECT

2. 

   31 May 2026

   Episode two - Mental illness and the older generation

   Join hosts Paul and Troy as they sit down with special guest Jacob Mangelsdorf for an open and honest conversation about mental health, generational attitudes, and the journey toward understanding and support. Drawing from both personal experience and professional insight, this episode explores how mental health has been viewed by older generations, the barriers many faced in seeking help, and how those perspectives continue to shape conversations today. Together, they discuss lived experiences with challenges such as anxiety, depression, PTSD and the importance of breaking down stigma to create a culture where people feel safe to speak up. This episode is a thoughtful blend of real stories, reflection, and practical understanding; offering listeners a deeper look at how mental health affects us all, regardless of age, and why meaningful conversations matter more than ever. If you need support please reach out to: Lifeline Australia on 13 11 14 Beyond Blue on 1300 224 636 Mens Line Australia on 1300 789 978 Jacob Mangelsdorf Counselling on 0468 357 034 (available for in person appointments in Hallett Cove or phone appointments available Australia wide.

3. 

   30 Apr 2026

   Episode One

   Episode One dives straight into the conversations many Australians are having; but not always openly. From the controversy at a recent ANZAC Day dawn service, where a man "booed" during a Welcome to Country, the hosts unpack what this moment represents from multiple angles. What does a Welcome to Country mean to Indigenous Australians? Why does it resonate deeply for some, while others question its place in national events. This episode doesn't shy away from tension. It explores the balance between respect, traditions, and freedom of speech, while also giving a voice to differing perspectives; including the often unspoken views held by some white Australians. The discussion then shifts to the highly publicised case of Ben Roberts-Smith, examining what it truly means to serve your country. The hosts question how we define heroism, accountability, and loyalty, and whether Australia adequately supports its servicemen and women; both during their time and after their time in uniform. Raw, thought-provoking, and unfiltered. Episode One sets the tone for a podcast that isn't afraid to sit in the grey areas and ask the hard questions.

4. 

   26 Apr 2026

   Episode One - Teaser

   Enjoy this snippet from the upcoming episode of Us & Them as Paul and Troy give you a brief introduction into who they are, what lead them here and what's to come. Episode One released Thursday 30th April.

5. 

   24 Apr 2026

   Episode One Coming Soon

   Something's been brewing... and it's nearly here. After plenty of anticipation, conversations, and a fair bit of behind-the-scenes chaos, the very first episode of "Us & Them" is about to drop. This isn't just another show, it's real talk, honest opinions, and unfiltered conversations about life, current events and everything in between. If you've been waiting to hear what we've got to say, now's your chance to get in from the very beginning. Make sure you tune in Thursday April 30th for Episode One.

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