VulgHER

About VulgHER

Drag divas Selma Nilla and Vicky Vee's unfiltered, unhinged, and unapologetically queer podcast, VulgHER!

Publisher

Selma Nilla and Vicky Vee

Category

comedy

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

7 Aug 2025

Latest episode

17 Sept 2026

Latest episodes

55 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   17 Sept 2026

   BLOCKED BY THE TRADE?! (Tr*mp’s new hair, Drag Makeovers, and A Chewing Gum Nightmare)

   Selma and Vicky are back, and somehow the hookup research has gotten even more unhinged. 🍑✈️🍬 This week on VulgHER, Selma recounts an absolutely disastrous Atlanta hookup that ends with her getting banged & blocked, while Vicky reveals a hookup involving chewing gum that goes somewhere chewing gum should absolutely never go. Then the girls dig through their phones to uncover their collection of old Grindr and Sniffies hookups - including some truly insane contact names - and discover they may have lived even more lives than previously believed. PLUS: Selma's nightmare experience flying Frontier Airlines, the Drag Race UK entrance lines that are officially doing too much, Plastique Tiara's makeup transformations, the closing of Brooklyn's Rosemont, Cheesecake Factory's legendary Linda's Fudge Cake, Dollywood dreams, state fair food, questionable hookup etiquette, and why nobody should expect a drag queen to remember your entire conversation after she's had a cocktail. Basically: Grindr hookups, Sniffies, drag queens, Drag Race, Frontier Airlines, Cheesecake Factory, gay dating, NYC nightlife, terrible sex and one deeply unfortunate piece of chewing gum. Another educational episode of VulgHER. 💕

2. 

   10 Sept 2026

   AI Boyfriends, Relationships with Robots, and a Very Generous Art Dealer

   This week, Selma and Vicky are asking the important questions: Is hooking up with an art dealer technically supporting the arts? Should ChatGPT be giving relationship advice? And how long until we’re all dating AI robots? Selma recaps a very Sex and the City NYC hookup involving an art dealer, some spontaneous painting, and a finale that can only be described as… a work of art. Meanwhile, a woman asking ChatGPT whether she should divorce her husband sends the girls down a terrifying rabbit hole of AI boyfriends, sex robots, artificial intelligence, and our increasingly Black Mirror-esque future. PLUS: Vicky’s birthday celebrations, Jessie Ware, Princess Poppy’s beefy new era, Cat Cohen, gay dating and top/bottom labels, body confidence, fast-food restaurants rationing napkins like they’re a precious resource, the hellscape that is American health insurance, dentist drama, drinking cocktails on the NYC subway, family boundaries, and the eternal question: why is being an adult so expensive? Basically: NYC hookups, AI sex robots, ChatGPT relationship advice, gay dating, drag queens, Sex and the City, Jessie Ware, Princess Poppy, family drama, health insurance and one VERY generous art dealer. The future is terrifying. The present is horny. Welcome to VulgHER. 💕 #VulgHER #QueerPodcast #LGBTQPodcast #GayPodcast #NYCPodcast #ChatGPT #ArtificialIntelligence #SexAndTheCity

3. 

   3 Sept 2026

   WE’RE BACK…We Have A LOT to Explain

   The girls are BACK from hiatus — and apparently two weeks off was all it took for things to get completely out of control. 🌴🍆 This week on VulgHER, Selma and Vicky catch up on an absolutely unhinged Miami birthday vacation, some very important South Beach “research,” questionable hookups, Cheesecake Factory, NYC nightlife, drag queen adventures and enough sexual oversharing to make up for the hiatus. We also learn why certain people should NEVER be allowed inside a nursing home. PLUS: Meg Stalter in Oh, Mary!, Broadway and NYC drag, a one-year fitness and weight-loss journey, GLP-1s and food noise, the infuriating disappearance of your favorite products, the ethics of tipping drag queens with $2 bills, and some desperately needed airplane etiquette. Miami hookups. Broadway. Drag queens. Cheesecake Factory. Gay nightlife. Terrible travel behavior. Wildly inappropriate stories. Nature is healing. 💕

Reach and audience

Public platform figures. Ratings count people who left a rating, not total listeners.

Apple Podcasts (US)

4.9 / 5

16 ratings

Spotify

5.0 / 5

30 ratings

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