Autostraddle.com presents, "Wait, Is This A Date?" a queer dating podcast where hosts Drew Gregory and Christina Tucker are joined by special guests to discuss topics like hooking up with your friends' exes, flirting via Instastories, and, of course, the classic queer conundrum: is this a date?!
Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today to get through this thing called... a season finale! Yes, it's true, today's episode marks the end of the absolute blockbuster that was S2 of Wait, Is This A Date? To celebrate that ending, who better to come on and discuss the joys and successes of a long distance crush than actor and queer person Elise Bauman? Around these parts, she has another title that is nearly as vaunted: Drew's girlfriend! Yes, that's right, this sparkling twosome was birthed from the great queer tradition: the long distance crush.
But what is it about the long distance crush that is so appealing to queers around the world? Is it the relative scarcity of like minded queers around you? Perhaps the ability to flirt long distance takes some of the pressure off? We get into all of it, AND Drew and Elise share some possibly TOO cute details about their relationship!
And of course there is a game! This week, Christina makes Drew play the game that simply took over Twitter and Tiktok for a few fleeting weeks: "They're a 10 but..." It's a good time, all around!
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Theme song: Lauren Klein @laurentaylorklein
Logo: Maanya Dhar @maanya_dhar
Episode Produced, Edited, Mixed: Lauren Klein @laurentaylorklein
31 Aug 2022
2.09 Bottoming
Bottom Culture has become quite a Thing™ Online as of late! But what does it really mean to be a bottom? Why has the culture decided bottoming is synonymous with being afraid to ask for what you want? And how does one go about deciding if they like bottoming?!
With all these questions rattling around our minds, Drew and I knew there was only one person we could go to for conversation on bottoming: The Gay Chingy AKA Chingy Nea, AKA The Bottom Supreme! Chingy helps us tease out what it means to be a bottom, why she hates “smol bean” bottom culture, your body as hole, and your body as whole.
For our game this week, Drew describes a plot and then dares Christina to guess if it is the plot of a movie she watched as a teen or a dream she had as a teen, and yes, it is hard!
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Theme song: Lauren Klein @laurentaylorklein
Logo: Maanya Dhar @maanya_dhar
Episode Produced, Edited, Mixed: Lauren Klein @laurentaylorklein
24 Aug 2022
2.08 When Your Friends Don’t Like Your Partner
Bringing someone home to meet your parents is such a trope it’s an entire genre of movie. But for many queer people there are two families to introduce to a partner: given and chosen. And sometimes the chosen family is scarier.
That’s why this week on the podcast we have Autostraddle’s own Yashwina Canter to talk about what happens when your friends don’t like your partner or your partner doesn’t like your friends. We get into Yash’s own dating history and how she’s navigated being on every side of this equation. And we talk about how all of us have navigated the challenge of our friends dating people. We even venture into some biphobia discourse and Drew tries to stir up some drama by asking if anyone has ever liked a friend’s partner too much. We love some chaos!
We also begin with a truly inspired game of Hayley Kiyoko lyric or Rupi Kaur poem and end with three especially good crushes. To quote Tessa Thompson, Yash is single and ready to pringle so shoot your shot queers — just be prepared to pass the friend vibe test!
Follow us on Instagram and Twitter at @waitisthisadate
SUPPORT INDEPENDENT QUEER MEDIA! Follow @autostraddle and join our membership program, A+!
Follow Yashwina Canter @yashwinacanter
Follow Drew Gregory @draw_gregory
Follow Christina Tucker on Twitter @C_GraceT and Instagram @christina_gracet
Theme song: Lauren Klein @laurentaylorklein
Logo: Maanya Dhar @maanya_dhar
Episode Produced, Edited, Mixed: Lauren Klein @laurentaylorklein
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