Wait, You Guys Are Getting Paid?

About Wait, You Guys Are Getting Paid?

Wait… You Guys Are Getting Paid? is a podcast about the conversations women are long overdue to have, the ones that challenge us, stretch us, and reveal who we’re becoming. Hosted by founders Michelle Lang and Kayla Pattle, this show unpacks the inner world behind modern womanhood: the pressure to succeed, the fear of falling behind, the unseen emotional labor, the expectations we inherited, the identities we outgrow, the money we avoid talking about, and the courage it takes to build a life that feels like your own. We explore business, motherhood, relationships, purpose, and self-worth with honesty, curiosity, and zero performative perfection. Not from a pedestal, from the middle of our own becoming. This podcast is an invitation: to think differently, to question the stories you’ve been handed, and to rebuild your life with more intention and less guilt. If you’re looking for depth, connection, and the kind of truth that wakes you up… you’re in the right place.

Publisher

Kayla Pattle & Michelle Lang

Category

society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

6 Jan 2026

Latest episode

3 Feb 2026

Latest episodes

9 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   3 Feb 2026

   Decision Fatigue: Why Everything Feels So Hard Lately

   Why does even the smallest decision feel exhausting sometimes? In this episode of Wait… You Guys Are Getting Paid?, we talk about decision fatigue, what it is, why it hits women so hard, and how it shows up when you’re balancing business, motherhood, relationships, and life logistics. This conversation explores mental load, overwhelm, and how to simplify without shutting down or giving up. In this episode, we unpack: What decision fatigue actually is Why women carry so much unseen mental load The cost of constant decision-making Reducing friction without lowering your standards Creating systems and boundaries that protect energy This episode is for anyone feeling mentally tired and craving clarity, simplicity, and breathing room. New episodes every Tuesday If this conversation resonated, follow the show so you don’t miss what’s next. 💬 Have a topic you want us to unpack or a question you’re sitting with? Message us on Instagram, we read every one and love connecting with you. Kayla Pattle: @kaylapattle (www.instagram.com/kaylapattle) Michelle Lang: @michellelang (www.instagram.com/michellelang)

2. 

   27 Jan 2026

   Old Habits vs New Standards: Outgrowing the Old You

   Why does growth feel uncomfortable, even when it’s good? In this episode of Wait… You Guys Are Getting Paid?, we talk about the tension between old habits and new standards. From relationships and routines to boundaries, work, and self-trust, this conversation explores what it looks like to outgrow familiar patterns and choose alignment over comfort, without guilt or self-abandonment. In this episode, we unpack: Letting go of versions of yourself that no longer fit Boundaries as a form of self-respect Choosing alignment over familiarity This episode is for women navigating growth, identity shifts, and the discomfort of becoming someone new. New episodes every Tuesday If this conversation resonated, follow the show so you don’t miss what’s next. 💬 Have a topic you want us to unpack or a question you’re sitting with? Message us on Instagram, we read every one and love connecting with you. Kayla Pattle: @kaylapattle (www.instagram.com/kaylapattle) Michelle Lang: @michellelang (www.instagram.com/michellelang)

3. 

   20 Jan 2026

   Nourishing Your Business and Your Body at the Same Time

   What if growth didn’t require depletion? In this episode of Wait… You Guys Are Getting Paid?, we talk about what it really means to nourish both your business and your body, especially in seasons of motherhood, ambition, and constant output. This conversation explores energy, capacity, and letting go of productivity norms that reward burnout over sustainability. In this episode, we talk about: Listening to your body while building something meaningful Food, rest, movement, and energy as business tools Redefining discipline without self-punishment Creating rhythms that support both ambition and health This episode is for women who want to grow, without abandoning their bodies in the process. New episodes every Tuesday If this conversation resonated, follow the show so you don’t miss what’s next. 💬 Have a topic you want us to unpack or a question you’re sitting with? Message us on Instagram, we read every one and love connecting with you. Kayla Pattle: @kaylapattle (www.instagram.com/kaylapattle) Michelle Lang: @michellelang (www.instagram.com/michellelang)

4. 

   13 Jan 2026

   Networking Without the Ick: Building Connections That Actually Feel Good

   Why does networking feel so uncomfortable, and does it have to? In this episode of Wait… You Guys Are Getting Paid?, we talk about building genuine connections without the pressure, performance, or transactional energy. We unpack why traditional networking feels misaligned, how to connect without sounding salesy, and what it looks like to build relationships that actually feel human, supportive, and mutually beneficial. In this episode, we unpack: Why networking gives so many women “the ick” The difference between connection and transaction Making relationships without an agenda Building community instead of collecting contacts Showing up authentically without self-abandoning Creating connections that feel good and last This episode is for women building businesses, communities, and careers who want relationships rooted in trust, not pressure. New episodes every Tuesday If this conversation resonated, follow the show so you don’t miss what’s next! 💬 Have a topic you want us to unpack or a question you’re sitting with? Message us on Instagram, we read every one and love connecting with you. Kayla Pattle: @kaylapattle (www.instagram.com/kaylapattle) Michelle Lang: @michellelang (www.instagram.com/michellelang)

5. 

   6 Jan 2026

   The Silent Resentments That Build While You’re Trying to Do It All

   What happens when resentment builds quietly — while you’re holding everything together? In this episode of Wait… You Guys Are Getting Paid?, we talk about the unspoken resentments that form in marriage, partnerships, and relationships when ambition, business, motherhood, and responsibility collide. We unpack emotional labor, unmet expectations, communication gaps, and the cost of carrying too much without saying anything — and what it looks like to address resentment before it erodes connection. In this episode, we unpack: How silent resentment forms in relationships Balancing ambition, partnership, and family life Communicating needs without blame or shutdown This episode is for anyone navigating relationships while building a life, a business, and an identity that keeps evolving. New episodes every Tuesday 📌 If this conversation resonated, follow the show so you don’t miss what’s next. 💬 Have a topic you want us to unpack or a question you’re sitting with? Message us on Instagram, we read every one and love connecting with you. Kayla Pattle: @kaylapattle (http://www.instagram.com/kaylapattle) Michelle Lang: @michellelang (http://www.instagram.com/michellelang)

6. 

   6 Jan 2026

   Navigating Adult Friendships When Everyone Is in a Different Season

   Why do friendships feel harder as adults? In this episode of Wait… You Guys Are Getting Paid?, we talk about the quiet grief, shifting dynamics, and unspoken expectations that come with adult friendships. From growing apart to setting boundaries, we unpack how life transitions, motherhood, ambition, and personal growth change the way we connect — and how to navigate it without guilt or resentment. In this episode, we unpack: Growing in different directions without villainizing each other Friendships through motherhood, business, and life transitions The grief of outgrowing relationships Redefining connection in adulthood This episode is for anyone navigating evolving friendships and learning how to honor growth — theirs and your own. New episodes every Tuesday If this conversation resonated, follow the show so you don’t miss what’s next. 💬 Have a topic you want us to unpack or a question you’re sitting with? Message us on Instagram, we read every one and love connecting with you. Kayla Pattle: @kaylapattle (www.instagram.com/kaylapattle) Michelle Lang: @michellelang (www.instagram.com/michellelang)

7. 

   6 Jan 2026

   Motherhood, Ambition, and Building a Business at the Same Time

   How do you build a business without losing yourself in motherhood — or feeling guilty for wanting more? In this episode of Wait… You Guys Are Getting Paid?, we talk about the reality of pursuing ambition while raising children, navigating identity shifts, time scarcity, pressure, and the constant pull between being present and building something meaningful. This conversation is about redefining success in motherhood and business — on your own terms. In this episode, we talk about: The identity shift that comes with motherhood Wanting a business and a connected family life The emotional tug-of-war between ambition and presence Letting go of unrealistic expectations Building a business that fits this season of life Permission to want more without guilt This episode is for mothers building businesses, dreaming bigger, and learning how to hold both without burning out. New episodes every Tuesday If this conversation resonated, follow the show so you don’t miss what’s next. 💬 Have a topic you want us to unpack or a question you’re sitting with? Message us on Instagram, we read every one and love connecting with you. Kayla Pattle: @kaylapattle (www.instagram.com/kaylapattle) Michelle Lang: @michellelang (www.instagram.com/michellelang)

8. 

   6 Jan 2026

   Building a Business While Your Toddler Touches You 24/7

   Trying to build a business while your toddler needs you every five seconds? Same. In this episode of Wait… You Guys Are Getting Paid?, we talk about the invisible tension of ambition and motherhood — running a business while being touched, needed, interrupted, and emotionally stretched 24/7. This is an honest conversation about boundaries, guilt, identity, and what productivity really looks like in this season. In this episode, we unpack: What it’s really like building a business with young kids Being “touched out” while still needing to show up The guilt of wanting more and loving your life Redefining success in seasons of constant interruption Giving yourself permission to build differently This episode is for mothers navigating ambition, creativity, and self-worth while raising little humans who need them constantly. If this conversation resonated, follow the show so you don’t miss what’s next. 💬 Have a topic you want us to unpack or a question you’re sitting with? Message us on Instagram, we read every one and love connecting with you. Kayla Pattle: @kaylapattle (https://riverside.com/dashboard/studios/michelles-studio-Ohnug/www.instagram.com/kaylapattle) Michelle Lang: @michellelang (https://riverside.com/dashboard/studios/michelles-studio-Ohnug/www.instagram.com/michellelang)

9. 

   6 Jan 2026

   Wait… You Guys Are Getting Paid? — Why We’re Having the Conversations Women Avoid

   In our very first episode of Wait… You Guys Are Getting Paid?, hosts Michelle Lang and Kayla Pattle introduce the heart behind the podcast, and why these conversations are long overdue. We unpack modern womanhood, money, identity shifts, emotional labor, and the pressure to have it all figured out. If you’ve ever felt behind or unsure how to build a life that feels like yours, start here. In this episode, we talk about: Why Wait… You Guys Are Getting Paid? exists The conversations women are conditioned to avoid Money, identity, and emotional labor Outgrowing old versions of yourself What to expect from future episodes If this conversation resonated, follow the show so you don’t miss what’s next. 💬 Have a topic you want us to unpack or a question you’re sitting with? Message us on Instagram, we read every one and love connecting with you. Kayla Pattle: @kaylapattle (http://www.instagram.com/kaylapattle)Michelle Lang: @michellelang (http://www.instagram.com/michellelang)

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