We Don't Deserve Men

About We Don't Deserve Men

We Don't Deserve Men is a show dedicated to shifting the dynamic between men and women from competition to cooperation.

Publisher

Kayla Yoder

Category

education · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

11 Jun 2024

Latest episode

18 Dec 2025

Latest episodes

42 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   18 Dec 2025

   40. Are Dating Coaches Making Things Worse? with Justin Leff

   *]:pointer-events-auto scroll-mt-(--header-height)" dir="auto" tabindex="-1" data-turn-id= "d499a4f8-304a-4b1a-92b8-4049b0bbcef9" data-testid= "conversation-turn-111" data-scroll-anchor="false" data-turn= "user"> In this episode, Kayla & Justin delve into the phenomenon of dating coaches, discussing its impacts on the dating landscape. They explore the challenges of data collection in the dating industry, the unregulated nature of dating coaching, and its performative aspects. The conversation shifts towards broader societal influences, such as the effects of birth control, shifting gender dynamics, and the rise of polyamory. They also address the role of the internet in exacerbating confusion and inauthenticity in modern relationships. Finally, they touch upon potential solutions, emphasizing the need for curiosity, personal responsibility, and fostering meaningful conversations. 00:00 Welcome Back, Justin! 00:34 Diving into the World of Dating Coaches 03:05 The Unregulated Realm of Dating Coaches 04:09 The Complexity of Human Interaction in Dating 13:51 The Role of Men and Women in Dating Dynamics 19:07 The Impact of Birth Control on Dating and Relationships 33:19 The Rise of Dating Coaches and Sex Work 48:16 The Disconnect Between Men and Women 53:15 The Importance of Romantic Relationships 54:37 The Rise of Non-Monogamy and Its Implications 55:47 Conflict Management and Relationship Challenges 57:15 Polyamory as a Band-Aid Solution 01:03:12 The Role of Dating Coaches and Performative Dating 01:11:21 The Impact of the Internet on Dating and Relationships 01:20:57 Behavioral Awareness Coaching and Individual Solutions 01:22:58 The Complexity of Modern Relationships 01:35:00 Optimism and Solutions for the Future *]:pointer-events-auto scroll-mt-[calc(var(--header-height)+min(200px,max(70px,20svh)))]" dir="auto" tabindex="-1" data-turn-id= "22d808c6-0adf-47c9-a3d3-18edfe3cd7eb" data-testid= "conversation-turn-112" data-scroll-anchor="false" data-turn= "assistant"> Get in touch with Justin: Website: https://www.soliliumcoaching.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/soliliumthoughts/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SoliliumThoughts/ Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global (mailto:hello@fxm.global) IG: @wedontdeservemen (https://www.instagram.com/wedontdeservemen) Website: https://fxm.global/ (https://fxm.global/)

2. 

   10 Dec 2025

   39. The Stay-at-Home Dad Era: Redefining Fatherhood with Laurence Chinery from The Dad Dialogue

   In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' host Kayla Yoder welcomes Laurence, the creator of The Dad Dialogue Podcast, for an in-depth conversation about his experiences as a stay-at-home dad. Laurence shares insights from his podcast, discussing its origins, purpose, and the invaluable lessons learned from engaging in deep conversations with other fathers. He reflects on the different challenges and rewards that dads face compared to moms and emphasizes the importance of meaningful dialogue in parenting. Laurence also delves into his personal journey, including the dynamics of his relationship with his wife, the impact of their faith on their family, and the societal perceptions of non-traditional gender roles. Additionally, the episode touches on strategies for maintaining relationship polarity and the significance of communication and respect in a marriage. Through Laurence's narrative, listeners gain a comprehensive understanding of modern fatherhood, the importance of adapting roles in a partnership, and the benefits of living authentically and cooperatively. 00:00 Welcome to 'We Don't Deserve Men' 00:38 Introducing The Dad Dialogue Podcast 02:01 The Challenges and Rewards of Deep Conversations 03:24 Differences in Parenting: Dads vs. Moms 03:50 Advice for New Dads 10:51 The Stay-at-Home Dad Journey 13:32 Adapting to New Roles and Responsibilities 16:36 Balancing Family and Personal Fulfillment 26:21 Maintaining a Strong Marriage 38:51 Respect and Boundaries in Parenting 42:58 Understanding Children's Comprehension 43:18 The Importance of Respect in Relationships 44:02 Egalitarian Relationships: 50/50 or 80/80? 46:34 Honoring Differences in Marriage 51:42 Leading the Family with Faith 01:09:02 Boundaries and Communication in Marriage 01:18:39 Challenges and Joys of Being a Man 01:24:58 Final Thoughts and Reflections Dad Dialigue: Website: https://www.daddialogue.co.uk/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/daddialogue/ Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global (mailto:hello@fxm.global) IG: @wedontdeservemen (https://www.instagram.com/wedontdeservemen) Website: https://fxm.global/ (https://fxm.global/)

3. 

   3 Dec 2025

   38. Real Men Feel: Rethinking Masculinity with Andy Grant

   In this episode, the host welcomes Andy Grant, an author, coach, healer, and host of the Real Man Feel podcast. Andy shares his journey of personal growth, discussing how he transitioned from traditional male stoicism to embracing emotions. He emphasizes the importance of men acknowledging their feelings and the societal challenges that hinder this process, such as cultural expectations and gender norms. The conversation covers men's emotional health, the role of supportive relationships, and the benefits of men's groups. Additionally, Andy explores the impact of women's empowerment on men's identities and relationships. Practical tips for improving communication and fostering emotional intelligence are shared, along with the significance of balance and harmony in personal development. This episode provides valuable insights into how men and women can better understand and support each other in their emotional journeys. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Background 01:19 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Service 02:52 Challenges Men Face Today 04:24 Impact of Women's Empowerment on Men 08:33 The Importance of Emotional Expression 16:34 Men's Groups and Safe Spaces 36:17 Navigating Relationships and Self-Love 40:49 The Nature of Men's Problem-Solving 41:14 Challenges in Women's Groups 41:49 Building Trust and Communication 43:27 Men's Emotional Vulnerability 45:30 Supporting Men in Emotional Expression 47:11 Communication Differences Between Genders 52:27 The Importance of Clear Communication 58:54 Men's Emotional Expression and Solitude 01:06:45 Encouraging Men to Seek Help 01:08:23 Resources for Men's Emotional Health 01:09:51 Final Thoughts and Reflections 01:11:25 Guest's Personal Insights Get in touch with Andy: Website: https://theandygrant.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/theandygrant/ Find Men's Groups: https://mensgroup.com/ Get in touch: Email: hello@fxm.global (mailto:hello@fxm.global) IG: @wedontdeservemen (https://www.instagram.com/wedontdeservemen) Website: https://fxm.global/ (https://fxm.global/)

Who has been a guest on We Don't Deserve Men

Names identified in recent episode analyses. Showing up to five guests.

• Giancarlo Bessa
• Franco
• David
• Ryan
• Katie

Reach and audience

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YouTube views

137

Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025

Apple Podcasts (US)

3.0 / 5

4 ratings

Spotify

4.7 / 5

6 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 56 / 100

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Quality

73

Social presence

0

YouTube

64

Engagement

31

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