Weaponized Marriage

About Weaponized Marriage

Our goal with this podcast isn’t to bring to you typical “date night advice”. This podcast is for power couples who are done playing small and ready to master the chaos of family, love, business and lifestyle. We’re talking raw, unfiltered strategies to dominate in communication, sex, money, and parenting while building your kingdom in this crazy busy world. This is about becoming a dynamic force together, a partnership that doesn’t just survive but transforms into a weaponized union capable of taking on anything life throws your way.

Publisher

Ryan and Kendra Hewitt

Category

health & fitness · health & fitness · kids & family

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

5 Feb 2025

Latest episode

17 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

57 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   17 Oct 2026

   Why You Keep Fighting About Money (It's Not About Money)

   In this episode of The Meaningful Marriage, we're getting vulnerable about a real money argument that exposed childhood money beliefs, shame, resentment, and the communication patterns that kept us stuck.

2. 

   17 Sept 2026

   Are You Living Below the Line Without Realizing It?

   What if the problems showing up in your marriage, parenting, money, anger, or relationships aren't really about what's happening today? In this episode of the Weaponized Marriage Podcast, we explore what it means to live "above the line" instead of allowing fear, shame, guilt, scarcity, anger, and old emotional patterns to keep running your life. We talk about emotional healing, marriage, suppressed emotions, courage, forgiveness, parenting, financial scarcity, personal growth, faith, and what happens when you finally stop building your life from fear. After a powerful couples weekend and a series of deeply personal experiences, we began recognizing how much of our lives had been fueled by emotions we hadn't fully confronted. Ryan shares what he's learning about releasing pressure, becoming more present, rediscovering play, and realizing he doesn't have to constantly produce to be enough. We also unpack how healing yourself can change your marriage, your relationship with your children, the way you make financial decisions, and ultimately the story your family carries forward. If you've been repeating the same emotional patterns and wondering why nothing seems to change, this conversation is for you. Highlights: → You'll discover how fear, shame, guilt, and scarcity can influence your decisions without you realizing it. → We explore why suppressed sadness can sometimes show up as anger, especially inside relationships, and why blaming your spouse can prevent you from seeing what an emotional trigger may actually be revealing about you. → We also discuss the difference between creating from fear and creating from courage, including how years of defensive financial decisions can make it difficult to pursue abundance. You'll hear why emotional regulation in parents can influence the emotional environment children experience and why healing your own patterns may help rewrite the story passed through your family. → Finally, we explore the role of safety, belonging, acceptance, forgiveness, faith, connection, play, and honest self-reflection in emotional healing—and the simple question you can ask the next time an uncomfortable emotion shows up: What are you here to show me? Learn more about Kendra Hewitt by visiting the following links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendra.hewitt/ Learn more about Dr. Ryan Hewitt by visiting the following links: Dr. Ryan Hewitt Website: https://www.drryanhewitt.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

3. 

   20 Aug 2026

   Stop Waiting for Someday: The Life Lesson We Needed

   What if the thing your marriage needs most isn’t another strategy, another vacation, or another conversation, but simply more space to be together? After traveling through Italy and Croatia for a wedding and anniversary trip, we came home thinking differently about marriage, health, success, goal setting, and the way we spend our time. Being removed from the normal demands of business, parenting, routines, and constant productivity gave us something we don’t always create enough of at home: stillness. In this episode of The Weaponized Marriage Podcast, we unpack the biggest relationship lessons from our European trip, including why you shouldn’t keep postponing the experiences that matter, how prioritizing your health protects your future freedom, and what Croatian culture taught us about slowing down and actually enjoying your life. We also talk about marriage therapy, personal growth, writing down relationship goals, practicing gratitude with your spouse, creating intentional connection, and learning to receive appreciation without immediately explaining, minimizing, or responding. If you want a stronger marriage, deeper connection with your spouse, more intentional living, and a relationship that continues evolving instead of simply surviving your routine, this conversation is for you. Highlights: → You’ll hear why waiting until retirement, until you have more money, or until life becomes less busy can keep you from ever experiencing what matters most, and how health, time, and money change throughout different seasons of life. → We unpack the Croatian concept of fiacca, the practice of enjoying stillness without feeling guilty for being “unproductive,” and how building even 15 minutes of that space into your day can improve your relationship. → You’ll also hear how a journal entry written years earlier revealed the surprising power of putting marriage goals on paper—and how therapy, healing work, awareness, and intentional action helped turn many of those goals into reality. → Finally, we share a simple couples exercise for building appreciation and emotional safety: acknowledge something you appreciate about your partner, then practice letting them simply receive it without defending, explaining, minimizing, or immediately responding. Learn more about Kendra Hewitt by visiting the following links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendra.hewitt/ Learn more about Dr. Ryan Hewitt by visiting the following links: Dr. Ryan Hewitt Website: https://www.drryanhewitt.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Reach and audience

Public platform figures. Ratings count people who left a rating, not total listeners.

Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

14 ratings

Spotify

4.6 / 5

39 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 46 / 100

A composite of feed quality, social presence, YouTube performance and engagement. Read the methodology.

Quality

71

Social presence

0

YouTube

0

Engagement

51