Weight of Manhood

About Weight of Manhood

Weight of Manhood is hosted by Adam Smith and Ethan Ross. Two guys that met at church and realized they had a lot in common. They're both men who work hard for their families, they each served in the military, and most of all they love Jesus with all they have. This podcast is designed to be raw, up front about today's issues, funny, but most of all, unapologetically about Jesus - the true example of Biblical Manhood.

Publisher

Weight of Manhood

Category

education · religion & spirituality

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

18 Sept 2025

Latest episode

23 Dec 2025

Latest episodes

14 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   23 Dec 2025

   Special Christmas Episode! | Ep 13

   In this episode, Adam Smith and Ethan Ross dive into their favorite Christmas memories, traditions, and what makes the holiday special for their families. [Ethan Ross] shares how his family's Christmases center around creating "magic" and why his wife goes all out decorating—despite being nine months pregnant. [Adam Smith] explains how his family shifted to celebrating together the weekend before Christmas to ease the holiday rush, complete with gingerbread contests and big breakfasts. Together, they reflect on the true meaning of Christmas, emphasizing hope, family, and the importance of giving—whether it's thoughtful gift-giving, service projects, or simply tipping well. Timestamps: 00:00 – Why Christmas Feels Magical (& How Our Wives Keep It That Way) 04:10 – Family Holiday Decorating: Stress, Schedules & Traditions 07:01 – When Is It Okay to Start Christmas Music? 09:01 – Christmas Traditions: Who We Visit (and How Many Christmases We Have) 12:46 – How to Simplify the Holiday for Your Kids 17:02 – The Push-Pull of Kids’ Activities vs. Family Time 20:23 – Do We Even Remember Our Childhood Christmases? 23:07 – Why We Make Christmas Special for Our Kids 26:15 – Favorite Local Holiday Events (Lights, Parades & More) 29:30 – When Holiday Plans Get Derailed (By Kids, Work, or Coyotes…) 32:35 – What Does Christmas Mean to You? (Faith, Family & Hope) 37:33 – Favorite Christmas Movies: The Ultimate Showdown 44:42 – Outlandish Family Traditions & Must-Have Holiday Treats 52:46 – Dirty Santa, Gift Giving, and Tipping: Rants & Reflections 57:08 – Wrapping Up: Christmas Cookies, The Real Reason & A Hopeful Prayer

2. 

   15 Dec 2025

   How To Deal With Stress as a Man | Ep 12

   In this episode, Ethan Ross and Adam dig into the theme of stress and the weight of manhood. They discuss how stress manifests differently for men, from financial and work pressures to the challenge of leading their families with both strength and vulnerability. The conversation shifts from everyday etiquette—like airplane manners—to deeper reflections on faith, purpose, and sharing burdens with God and one another. Timestamps: 00:00 Airplane Etiquette Frustration 14:05 "Men's Podcast with Christian Hosts" 21:30 "Weight Bearer Tier Details" 24:26 "Don't Let Them See Worry" 33:27 "Family Leadership Structure Explained" 34:49 "Balancing Protection and Vulnerability" 43:53 Stress Relief Through Prayer & Creativity 46:41 "Seeking Guidance Through Prayer" 54:37 "Hidden Truths Revealed to Babes" 59:53 "Faith Over Worry" 01:02:15 "Family Eases My Stress" 01:08:09 Prayer for Fellowship and Support

3. 

   8 Dec 2025

   Recliners Make Men Lazy Boys! | How Men Should Help Around the House - Ep 11

   In this episode, Ethan Ross and Adam Smith dive into the topic of sharing household responsibilities and how men can better support their families. Ethan emphasizes the importance of men being proactive at home, rejecting the stereotypical idea of relaxing in a recliner right after work. Adam Smith shares stories about teamwork with his wife, illustrating how dividing chores and staying involved benefits the entire family. Timestamps: 00:00 "Leadership Reflection and Consequences" 04:18 "Respectful Parenting Through Disputes" 07:48 "Messy Parent, Surprise Inspections" 13:50 "Sharing Family Responsibilities Pregnant" 15:52 "Pregnancy Struggles and Parenthood" 19:08 "Smacking Fly Stealthily" 26:28 Cyclone Rake Sponsorship Pitch 28:36 "Men's Work Isn't Over" 31:55 "Home Isn't Always Comfortable" 37:41 "Love for Seasons and Hygge" 41:35 "Sunday Morning Family Delays" 42:02 "Misjudging Readiness and Responsibilities" 47:44 "Use the Bluetooth Speaker!" 49:03 "Maximizing Time Effectively" 52:41 Elite Conspiracies and Collapse 57:17 "Podcast Seeking Sponsors"

4. 

   1 Dec 2025

   Money Is Important!!...But It's Not Worth Your Marriage | Ep 10

   In this episode, Ethan Ross and Adam Smith dive into the impact of personal finances on marriage, highlighting that 36.7% of divorces are caused by money issues. They share practical advice from their own experiences—including the importance of budgeting together and communicating financial goals as a couple. They also discuss the value of generosity and tithing, emphasizing how being a good steward leads to blessings. Timestamps: 00:00 Money Disputes and Divorce 06:19 "Financial Peace for Families" 07:41 Struggling With Outdated Payments 12:43 Shared Finances Explanation 16:25 "Rewards for Generous Giving" 17:58 "Struggles and Future Determination" 22:08 Living for Now, Not Later 26:06 Utility Billing Error Revealed 27:22 "Utility Refund Covers Braces" 31:50 "Finding Purpose in Struggles" 34:21 "Honest Tithing, No Exceptions" 40:14 "Separate Checking Accounts Debate" 43:11 Fixers vs. Time Seekers 45:09 "Collaborative Problem Solving" 47:23 "Syncing Calendars for Coordination"

5. 

   24 Nov 2025

   Why You NEED a Morning Routine | Ep 9

   In this episode, Adam Smith and Ethan Ross dive into the importance of morning routines and how planning the night before can set the tone for a successful day. They talk about challenges with consistency, but say their personal mission statements and creeds help them stay focused and motivated. They also discuss C. S. Lewis’s "Abolition of Man," unpacking the dangers of abandoning moral objectivism and the need for a strong guiding principle in society. Timestamps: 00:00 "Prepping Habits and Flaws" 10:14 "Finding Faith and Moving Forward" 11:53 "Push-Up Challenge and Batman" 18:05 "Splinter Cell's Sneaky Protagonist" 23:45 "Sleepy Eyes and Positivity" 30:16 "Morning Routine and Adjustments" 36:21 "Morning Mobility and Yoga" 43:05 "Multi-Purpose Notebook Use" 48:42 "Men Without Chests Overview" 51:24 "Rejecting Truth: A Slippery Slope" 55:04 "Embrace Open-Minded Moral Dialogue" 01:00:28 "Limitations of Men"

6. 

   17 Nov 2025

   Have YOU Missed Your Calling? | Ep 8

   In this episode, Adam Smith and Ethan Ross talk about purpose, calling, vocation and whether or not they feel they've "missed" their calling. Ethan opens up and shares several stories from his time in the Army and on the police force and why he left both roles. Then, it becomes a bit of a therapy session when Adam admits he feels he missed his calling, only to discover, with help from Ethan, that he’s right where he’s meant to be. Timestamps: 00:00 Carrying the Weight of Manhood 03:24 Aligned Hobbies Benefit Professions 07:18 Rejecting People, Embracing Events 11:32 "Showing Up as Your Best" 14:49 "Reflections on Loss and Time" 20:17 Preparing for Four-Star Visit 22:57 "Finding Purpose in Faith" 25:41 "Push-Up Punishment in Training" 31:03 Military vs. Law Enforcement Dynamics 32:48 "Final Episode Reflections" 36:28 Law Enforcement Struggles Shared 39:29 "Reflections on Law Enforcement" 44:50 Legacy of Sacrifice 47:44 Skeletons in My Closet 51:35 "Declining Reenlistment Reflection" 53:10 "Finding Perspective and Purpose"

7. 

   10 Nov 2025

   Special Veterans Day Episode! Ep 7

   In this special Veterans Day episode, Ethan Ross and Adam Smith bring on a range of guests including Dan Rodenbar, Matt Gribble, and James to share their personal stories and reflections on military service. The conversation explores what Veterans Day means to those who served, the lasting impact of military experiences including the challenges of readjustment, and the meaning of brotherhood both during and after service. Timestamps: 00:00 "Veterans Day Reflections" 06:09 "Slick Sleeve Deployment Reflections" 15:56 "Gym Helped Me Overcome Anxiety" 18:45 "Larger Than Life Hero" 25:10 "Know Your Why" 27:25 Family, Leadership, Fitness Purpose 37:41 Veterans' Sacrifice and Reflection 41:46 "Military Bonds and Friendship" 48:34 "Facing Potential and Responsibility" 51:04 "Seize Opportunities Every Day" 59:28 Veteran Reflections and Gratitude 01:05:16 Americans' Role in WWII Italy 01:07:37 From EMT to Paramedic Journey 01:11:44 "Grateful for Life's Journey" 01:17:54 Mental Health Stigma Fading 01:22:42 Military Dedication and Resilience 01:29:56 "Lessons Learned, Carried Forward"

8. 

   3 Nov 2025

   What We Learned From Our 4-Day Fast | Ep 6

   In this episode, Adam and Ethan reflect on the 4-day fast they did last week. Adam had a family emergency that kept him from joining the group's celebratory meal, describing how caring for his injured grandson fostered deeper spiritual dependence and empathy. They also dig into C.S. Lewis's "Abolition of Man," discussing how modern education shapes moral character and emphasizing the importance of reading and critical thinking in personal growth. Timestamps: 00:00 The "Rundown" Segment is NO MORE! 05:23 Thursday Struggles and Fast Reflections 08:33 Hospital Chat About Restaurants 16:25 "Reading Sparks Deeper Thinking" 17:34 Book Moving Struggles 21:23 "Shared Struggles and Spiritual Growth" 27:22 Sleepless Night and Cast Issues 29:44 "Overthinking and Apologizing Thoughts" 33:06 "Faith Beyond Understanding" 37:06 "Being There for Others" 39:41 Objectivism vs. Subjectivism Debate 42:57 "The Inklings: Tolkien & Lewis" 47:18 "Threat to Traditional Values" 48:01 "Heartfelt Truth vs Individualism" 52:37 "Green Book Philosophy Critique" 55:43 "Men Without Chests"

9. 

   27 Oct 2025

   Pros and Cons of a 4-Day Fast | Ep 5

   In this episode, Adan and Ethan talk about being in the middle of their 4-day fast. Hunger does odd things to you. There are also many strong positives that they've learned about and encourage you in if you're considering doing a fast as well. They also connect the discipline of fasting to the broader theme of manhood, emphasizing its role in strengthening both mental toughness and spiritual growth. Timestamps: 00:00 "Antibiotics Caused Unexpected Reaction" 08:36 "Hunger or Habit?" 11:32 "Avoiding Afternoon Energy Crash" 14:37 Fasting Journey and Self-Deprivation 17:58 "Ketosis Explained Briefly" 23:26 "Discipline and Parenthood Challenges" 24:48 "Fasting and Food Obsession" 27:47 Stress Affecting Weight Loss 31:51 "Fasting Intent and Reflection" 37:25 "Fasting for Clarity" 39:50 Youth Trip Hurricane Cleanup 42:23 "Diving In: Overcoming Doubts" 47:07 "Understanding Dense Texts Tips" 50:40 Subjective Nature of Value Judgments 51:19 "Sublimity Inspires Imperfection" 55:06 "Read This Book's Introduction"

10. 

    20 Oct 2025

    Manhood's 3 Most Important Battles | Ep 4

    Today, Adam Smith and Ethan Ross dig deep into common challenges and responsibilities they see in modern manhood. They break down the importance of spiritual, mental, and physical preparation for life's battles, emphasizing routines like devotion, prayer, and physical conditioning. Adam and Ethan also explore the shifting societal attitudes toward masculinity, the impact of coddling on young men, and the significance of accountability and resilience. Timestamps: 00:00 "Public Phone Etiquette Issues" 05:07 "Working from Home Challenges" 08:01 "Son's Football Bruises" 10:17 "Supporting Family and Others" 15:13 "Struggling to Meet Weight Limits" 18:44 Ephesians: Learning Biblical Context 20:35 Scripture and Literature Reflection 26:37 "Praying During the Commute" 28:07 Balancing Work and Family Life 31:10 "Business Mindset and Discipline" 35:19 Anger, Chains, and Regret 37:30 Mindful Reading and Meditation 43:27 "Bridge Encounter Turns Violent" 47:07 UFC Fighter vs Bigger Guy 48:06 "Stop Coddling Your Sons" 52:20 "Abolition of Man: Men Without Chests"

11. 

    13 Oct 2025

    When a Boy Becomes a Man | Ep 3

    In this episode, Adam and Ethan share personal experiences and thoughts on what it means to truly become a man. Adam brings up how becoming a father marked a major turning point in his own journey, while Ethan points out that manhood is a daily, conscious choice rather than a one-time milestone. They also talk about the importance of building oneself mentally, physically, and spiritually, and announce the launch of their new book club featuring "The Abolition of Man" by C.S. Lewis. If you're interested in becoming a sponsor of the show, email us at weightofmanhood@gmail.com Timestamps: 00:00 "Early Riser Adjusting Routine" 05:47 "Overview and Podcast Structure" 07:40 "Daughter's Weekend Call" 11:58 "Defender of Free Speech" 14:03 Balancing Business and Family Life 17:59 "Early Mornings and Childhood Weight" 22:03 "First Feeling of Manhood" 25:07 "Fatherhood Defines Manhood" 29:48 "This Is Not A Joke" 32:03 Reflections on Tough Decisions 35:44 "Struggling with Manhood" 37:22 "Journey to Faith and Identity" 42:15 "Boy vs. Man's Inner Struggle" 45:48 "Praying for Future Spouses" 49:27 "Praying Together Transforms Marriage" 52:04 "Checking Boxes, Seeking Meaning" 55:10 "Delaying Book Club Start" 57:26 "One Chance Per Day"

12. 

    6 Oct 2025

    Heavy is the "Weight" of Manhood | Episode 2

    It's episode 2!! Can't believe we've come this far....HA! In this episode, Adam and Ethan dive deep into the responsibility men have to provide for their families. Ethan is feeling the pressures of this in his life more than ever right now...since he just quit his full-time job! He opens about what the added anxiety and pressure this decision has caused. They also cover the importance of self-reflection, building strong habits, and supporting each other through challenges. Hope you enjoy! Timestamps: 00:00 "Defining Manhood's Weight" 08:08 Financial Stress and Family Responsibilities 12:41 "Expecting Another Boy" 14:36 Family Planning and Future Limits 17:22 Taking the Leap into Uncertainty 21:46 "Finding Motivation and Inspiration" 25:33 Eventful Week with Eric 29:44 Perception of Southerners' Cognitive Decline 32:56 "Abs Made in Kitchen" 34:43 Embracing Fasting Over Feasting 40:15 Embrace Trials for Growth 42:13 "Reflections on Growth Amid Busyness" 45:05 Military Sacrifices and Family Regrets 48:21 "Revisiting Key Topic"

13. 

    29 Sept 2025

    What Happened to Masculinity?? | Episode 1

    THIS is our first episode!!!!! To say we are excited to begin this journey with you would be a COMPLETE understatement. Just to let you know, we have NO IDEA what we are doing. But that's what this journey of life is all about. Figuring stuff out together, and not being ashamed or afraid of what it takes to grow. Will you join us? In this episode, Adam Smith and Ethan Ross start episode one with an honest look at what it means to carry the weight of being a man today. They reflect on their journeys as veterans, fathers, and gym enthusiasts, exploring how physical and mental strength are both challenged by the comforts and conveniences of modern life. They also forecast what their goals and dreams are for the show. To cover things like fasting, overcoming struggles, and building meaningful relationships in their community. Hope you enjoy! PLEASE Like, rate, comment, review the show - that helps us reach more men! Timestamps: 00:00 Bodybuilding Beginnings 04:21 Decline of Traditional Masculinity 07:53 Accountability and Health Awareness 11:06 Four-Day Fast Experience 15:04 Carrying the Weight of Manhood 18:57 Mark Wahlberg Update Needed?? 20:34 Unexpected Personal Growth Reflections 26:37 Influence of Fathers on Children 30:13 Surround Kids with Positive Men 33:10 Struggle with Challenges Ahead 34:48 Air Conditioning Debate - Is It Necessary? 38:40 Military Service Eligibility Concerns 42:47 Amish Dust Study 46:26 Commitment to Helping Struggling Men

14. 

    18 Sept 2025

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