Wet Dreamz

About Wet Dreamz

As men we are expected to be a provider, be strong, have it all put together, and know all there is to know about sex. In this podcast we will discuss all the taboo topics surrounding men's sexuality and empower men to improve themselves and their sexual health.

Publisher

Jose Gonzalez

Category

health & fitness

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

18 Jun 2023

Latest episode

25 Sept 2026

Latest episodes

45 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   25 Sept 2026

   44. The Invisible Relationship Killer: Keeping Score

   About the Hosts: Jose Gonzalez is a renowned sex therapist and mental health counselor known for his engaging and insightful approach to therapy. His work focuses on helping individuals and couples navigate complex emotional landscapes, improving their relationship health and personal well-being. As the host of the "Wet Dreams" podcast, he shares his wealth of knowledge and expertise with a wider audience, impacting many lives through thought-provoking discussions. Dr. Brad Hinman is a licensed professional counselor, and licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialization in sex therapy. He has a distinguished career in counseling, known for his skill in addressing relational dynamics and intimacy concerns. Dr. Hinman's collaborative approach with clients fosters a supportive environment where individuals and couples can explore sensitive issues safely. Episode Summary: In this engaging episode of the "Wet Dreams" podcast, we delve into the intricate dynamics of scorekeeping within relationships. The discussion zeroes in on how seemingly trivial disagreements like chores can unearth deeper issues tied to fairness, communication, and emotional expression. We explore the detrimental effects of maintaining a mental ledger of who did what last, shedding light on how it can erode trust and intimacy between partners. Throughout the episode, we expertly dissect the psychological underpinnings of scorekeeping, pointing out how it often masks larger unresolved emotional conflicts. We provide pragmatic advice on bridging the communication gap through empathy, validation, and changing perspectives. We also emphasize the importance of expressing underlying feelings truthfully and constructively, steering away from competitive dynamics that incite resentment. Overall, the conversation encapsulates the critical need for understanding and exchange as foundational elements for healthy, resilient relationships. Key Takeaways: Scorekeeping in relationships turns interactions into competitions rather than cooperative efforts, impacting emotional intimacy negatively. Individuals often default to "always" and "never" language during arguments, which perpetuates defensiveness and miscommunication. Men and women may track contributions or grievances differently, often leading to mismatched expectations and misunderstandings. Validating and affirming a partner's efforts, even if they're not perfect, can strengthen partnerships and diminish the focus on perceived fairness. Addressing issues early and expressing the underlying emotional needs, rather than allowing grievances to build, increases the potential for resolution. LinkTree⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (https://linktr.ee/wetdreamzpodcasthcs)⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (www.facebook.com/wetdreamzpodcast) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (https://facebook.com/wetdreamzpodcast/)⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (www.tiktok.com/@wet.dreamz.podcast) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (https://www.tiktok.com/@wet.dreamz.podcast) Music from #Uppbeat free for Creators!):⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://uppbeat.io/t/moire/new-life⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠License code: 0SWIN8YAF7EIY6YI

2. 

   4 Sept 2026

   43. Why Do Men Wait Until Rock Bottom? Understanding the Motivations Behind Change

   Episode Summary: In this episode of the Wet Dreams Podcast, we dive into the persistent issue of problematic sexual behaviors, particularly the consumption of pornography and its impact on relationships. Through candid discussion, we explore the common patterns that lead men to hit "rock bottom" before seeking help, analyzing the intersection of laziness, habitual behavior, and emotional coping mechanisms. The conversation sheds light on the reasons why men often wait until their relationships are on the brink of collapse to address their addictions. We discuss the concept of "situational amnesia," where individuals forget their commitment to change in the face of temptation. We also emphasize the need for intrinsic motivation to drive meaningful recovery, urging listeners to recognize the detrimental effects of their actions before reaching the point of no return. Throughout the episode, we challenge the stigma associated with seeking help and highlight the importance of facing uncomfortable emotions head-on to break the cycle of unhealthy sexual behavior. Key Takeaways: Many individuals only address problematic sexual behaviors when hitting rock bottom, often due to the consequences becoming unavoidable. Habitual actions, such as watching pornography, are often used as coping mechanisms to avoid dealing with uncomfortable emotions. True recovery requires intrinsic motivation; relying solely on external pressure or threats won't lead to sustainable change. There's a necessity to confront underlying emotions and patterns rather than just the symptomatic behaviors, in order to achieve genuine healing. It’s critical to recognize and accept that these behaviors can carry over into future relationships if not addressed effectively. About the Hosts: Jose Gonzalez is a mental health counselor and a certified sex therapist with extensive experience helping individuals and couples navigate the intricacies of mental health and sexual wellness. As the host of the Wet Dreams Podcast, Jose leverages his expertise to engage audiences in mindful conversations about relationships and personal growth. Dr. Brad Hinman is a licensed professional counselor, licensed marriage and family therapist, and a certified sex therapist. With a deep commitment to enhancing personal and relational well-being, Dr. Hinman co-hosts the Wet Dreams Podcast, sharing his insights into the psychological and emotional aspects of sexual health. LinkTree⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (https://linktr.ee/wetdreamzpodcasthcs)⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (www.facebook.com/wetdreamzpodcast) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (https://facebook.com/wetdreamzpodcast/)⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (www.tiktok.com/@wet.dreamz.podcast) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (https://www.tiktok.com/@wet.dreamz.podcast) Music from #Uppbeat free for Creators!):⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://uppbeat.io/t/moire/new-life⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠License code: 0SWIN8YAF7EIY6YI

3. 

   31 Jul 2026

   42. God, Sex, and Shame: Unpacking Purity Culture

   About the Hosts: Jose Gonzalez: Jose Gonzalez is a dedicated mental health counselor and sex therapist with a vested interest in addressing sexual shame and purity culture. With personal experience in grappling with these issues, Jose brings a unique and empathetic perspective to his work, helping clients navigate their own challenges with sexual and religious shame. Dr. Brad Hinman: Dr. Brad Hinman is a licensed marriage and family therapist, professional counselor, and sex therapist. Brad has a wealth of experience in helping individuals and couples address sexual dysfunction and relationship challenges, underpinned by religious upbringing and societal expectations. His approach often includes developing healthier attitudes around sexuality in alignment with one's values and beliefs. Episode Summary: Join hosts Jose Gonzalez and Dr. Brad Hinman in an exploration of sexual shame and purity culture. Drawing from their own religiously conservative backgrounds, they discuss the damaging myths surrounding sexuality in religious contexts, including the unrealistic expectations placed on individuals. The conversation touches on the detrimental effects of associating faith with sexual struggles and the importance of open communication and education for healthier sexual relationships. Highlighting real-life narratives and professional insights, this episode offers a candid look at the intersection of faith, shame, and sexuality. Key Takeaways: Sexual Shame in Religious Contexts: Sexual shame often originates from fear-based teachings present in religiously conservative settings, impacting individuals' later life experiences and relationships. Myths of Purity Culture: Common myths such as marriage naturally fostering healthy sexuality and all sexual fulfillment needing to come from a spouse are deconstructed for their unrealistic and often harmful nature. Empowerment Through Knowledge: Redefining sex education away from shame and silence, focusing on open, honest, and ongoing conversations, can prevent many of the dysfunctions seen later in life. Morality and Sexual Desires: There's an emphasis on understanding that sexual desires do not inherently denote moral failings, advocating for a more balanced approach to sexual education that encourages responsibility and personal understanding. Redefining Masculinity: Discussing the false narrative of men as uncontrollable animalistic beings, the importance of teaching personal responsibility and consent is underscored. LinkTree⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (https://linktr.ee/wetdreamzpodcasthcs)⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (www.facebook.com/wetdreamzpodcast) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (https://facebook.com/wetdreamzpodcast/)⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (www.tiktok.com/@wet.dreamz.podcast) ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (https://www.tiktok.com/@wet.dreamz.podcast) Music from #Uppbeat free for Creators!):⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://uppbeat.io/t/moire/new-life⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠License code: 0SWIN8YAF7EIY6YI

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YouTube views

3,451

Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025

Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

5 ratings

Spotify

3.0 / 5

2 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 62 / 100

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Quality

74

Social presence

0

YouTube

68

Engagement

60

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