What About Me

About What About Me

What About Me (WAM) is a space for healing the inner child, finding your voice, and reclaiming your power. Join host Emma as she shares her journey of self-discovery and invites others to speak up, stand up, and heal from the inside out.

Publisher

Emma Milne

Category

education · health & fitness

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

20 Nov 2025

Latest episode

15 Sept 2026

Latest episodes

14 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   15 Sept 2026

   Ep.13 - From Abandonment and Family Trauma to Self-Discovery Part II

   What About Me Podcast By Emma BIG QUOTE: “This is What About Me, and yes, it is finally about you” In this episode, Emma’s topic: “--------------” With Emma Milne What to listen for: QUOTE 3-4 “Key Reflections from this episode” QUOTES 3-4 “In this episode we discussed” • QUOTE 3-4 About: Emma Milne's life was profoundly changed by family estrangement. Four years ago, she experienced what she describes as “the unthinkable”—the sudden loss of the three most important relationships in her life. What makes Emma’s story especially powerful is that she endured this devastation without the support of family, friends, or community. She began the slow and painful work of rebuilding her life with only professional support and her own determination. Emma shares her journey from devastation to resilience. She brings raw honesty, hard-won wisdom, and genuine hope to others facing this uniquely isolating form of grief. Thank you for listening! Please subscribe on any platform where you listen to podcasts and give us a 5-star review! To listen to other episodes, we invite you to visit us at https://whataboutmepodcast.com/ (https://whataboutmepodcast.com/) There you'll find: Full episode show notes Guest resources (when applicable) Transcripts All listening platforms links Social media links Bonus content Watch clips and highlights : https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UC6CJzyxjvEFyXh9_Qm90Jrw (https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UC6CJzyxjvEFyXh9_Qm90Jrw)

2. 

   4 Aug 2026

   From Abandonment and Family Trauma to Self-Discovery Part I

   What About Me Podcast By Emma BIG QUOTE: “This is What About Me, and yes, it is finally about you” In this episode, Emma’s topic: “From Abandonment and Family Trauma to Self-Discovery Part I” With Emma Milne What to listen for: In Part 1 of this deeply personal three-part series, I explore the hidden lessons childhood teaches us about love, belonging, and emotional safety. I share memories of growing up feeling isolated despite living in a large family, the confusing experience of being prevented from forming friendships, and how books became both my escape and my lifeline. “In this episode we discussed” "Did my mother love me?" was the real question How children learn whether love is unconditional—or something they must earn The connection between childhood emotional neglect and memory gaps Growing up isolated despite having a large family “Key Reflections from this episode” Children don't naturally question whether they're lovable—they learn it from their earliest relationships. Emotional neglect isn't always obvious. Sometimes it's found in what's missing rather than what happened. Childhood isolation can leave lasting feelings of loneliness that continue into adulthood. About: Emma Milne's life was profoundly changed by family estrangement. Four years ago, she experienced what she describes as “the unthinkable”—the sudden loss of the three most important relationships in her life. What makes Emma’s story especially powerful is that she endured this devastation without the support of family, friends, or community. She began the slow and painful work of rebuilding her life with only professional support and her own determination. Emma shares her journey from devastation to resilience. She brings raw honesty, hard-won wisdom, and genuine hope to others facing this uniquely isolating form of grief. Thank you for listening! Please subscribe on any platform where you listen to podcasts and give us a 5-star review! To listen to other episodes, we invite you to visit us at https://whataboutmepodcast.com/ (https://whataboutmepodcast.com/) There you'll find: Full episode show notes Helpful resources include: Running on Empty – A foundational book on childhood emotional neglect and its lifelong effects. The Body Keeps the Score – Explores how early trauma and emotional experiences shape the brain, memory, and body. Transcripts All listening platforms links Social media links Bonus content Watch clips and highlights : https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UC6CJzyxjvEFyXh9_Qm90Jrw (https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UC6CJzyxjvEFyXh9_Qm90Jrw)

3. 

   21 Jul 2026

   How Relational Trauma Messes Up Your New Relationships

   What About Me Podcast By Emma BIG QUOTE: “This is What About Me, and yes, it is finally about you” In this episode, Emma’s topic: “How Relational Trauma Messes Up Your New Relationships” With Emma. What to listen for:   Emma opens up about surviving emotional abuse, gaslighting, profound betrayal, and the devastating impact those experiences had on her sense of identity. She also shares how learning to love herself—not as a slogan, but as a daily practice—became the foundation of her healing. In this episode, you'll hear about: Why childhood relationships can influence our adult partners. The hidden cost of seeking validation from others. How emotional manipulation and gaslighting distort reality. What relational trauma actually feels like. Why self-love is more than positive affirmations. Practical ways Emma rebuilt her life after emotional devastation. Learning to choose yourself instead of waiting to be chosen. “Key Reflections from this episode" You are not defined by the people who failed to love you well. Healing is a lifelong practice—not a destination. Putting yourself first isn't selfish; it's necessary. Trauma changes us, but it doesn't have to define our future. Your greatest investment will always be the one you make in yourself. About: Emma Milne's life was profoundly changed by family estrangement. Four years ago, she experienced what she describes as “the unthinkable”—the sudden loss of the three most important relationships in her life. What makes Emma’s story especially powerful is that she endured this devastation without the support of family, friends, or community. She began the slow and painful work of rebuilding her life with only professional support and her own determination. Emma shares her journey from devastation to resilience. She brings raw honesty, hard-won wisdom, and genuine hope to others facing this uniquely isolating form of grief. Thank you for listening! Please subscribe on any platform where you listen to podcasts and give us a 5-star review! To listen to other episodes, we invite you to visit us at https://whataboutmepodcast.com/ (https://whataboutmepodcast.com/) There you'll find: Full episode show notes Guest resources (when applicable) Transcripts All listening platforms links Social media links Bonus content Watch clips and highlights : https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UC6CJzyxjvEFyXh9_Qm90Jrw (https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UC6CJzyxjvEFyXh9_Qm90Jrw)

4. 

   7 Jul 2026

   Balancing Estrangement and Profound Grief

   What About Me Podcast By Emma BIG QUOTE: “This is What About Me, and yes, it is finally about you” In this episode, the topic: “Balancing Estrangement and Profound Grief ” With Emma Milne What to listen for: • Why I chose to become a mother at a young age • Surviving domestic violence and rebuilding my life in America • The hopes I carried into motherhood • The painful reality of adult-child estrangement “Key Reflections from this episode” • What I learned from research on estrangement and healthy boundaries • Processing grief without chasing or begging for reconciliation • The difference between loving someone and abandoning yourself “In this episode we discussed” • Why healing sometimes means accepting what you cannot change • Creating relationships today that are reciprocal, healthy, and peaceful About: Emma Milne's life was profoundly changed by family estrangement. Four years ago, she experienced what she describes as “the unthinkable”—the sudden loss of the three most important relationships in her life. What makes Emma’s story especially powerful is that she endured this devastation without the support of family, friends, or community. She began the slow and painful work of rebuilding her life with only professional support and her own determination. Emma shares her journey from devastation to resilience. She brings raw honesty, hard-won wisdom, and genuine hope to others facing this uniquely isolating form of grief. Thank you for listening! Please subscribe on any platform where you listen to podcasts and give us a 5-star review! To listen to other episodes, we invite you to visit us at https://whataboutmepodcast.com/ (https://whataboutmepodcast.com/) There you'll find: Full episode show notes Guest resources (when applicable) Transcripts All listening platforms links Social media links Bonus content Watch clips and highlights : https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UC6CJzyxjvEFyXh9_Qm90Jrw (https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UC6CJzyxjvEFyXh9_Qm90Jrw)

5. 

   23 Jun 2026

   From Abandonment and Family Trauma to Self Discovery

   What About Me Podcast By Emma BIG QUOTE: “This is What About Me, and yes, it is finally about you” In this episode, Emma’s topic: “Speaking From The Heart About Reclaiming My Life” With Emma Milne What to listen for: There are episodes that come easily... and then there are the ones you almost don't record. In this deeply personal episode, Emma shares the fear, self-doubt, and emotional weight of creating a podcast built on life's most painful experiences. She reflects on why healing doesn't erase the past, why perfection can keep us stuck, and how choosing courage over comfort is often the first step toward growth. If you've ever struggled to show up, questioned yourself, or wondered whether your story matters, this conversation is for yo I talk openly about the emotional weight of creating a podcast centered around trauma, abandonment, grief, estrangement, and healing. I’ve realized that every episode asks me to revisit places in my life I worked incredibly hard to survive. It’s about sharing the lessons I learned from surviving some of the darkest seasons of my life and helping others realize they can rebuild too. “Key Reflections from this episode” "I am terrified, nervous, and I critique myself more than anyone else ever could." "It is not my hope to become someone else. It is my hope to become the best Emma I can be." "I survived what I was going through, and now I want to share the path that brought me here." “In this episode we discussed” • The emotional challenge of creating personal content • Revisiting painful experiences after healing • Finding courage as a new podcaster • Learning to embrace imperfection • The value of mentorship and constructive feedback • Authenticity versus trying to become someone else • Turning survival into a message of hope About: Emma Milne's life was profoundly changed by family estrangement. Four years ago, she experienced what she describes as “the unthinkable”—the sudden loss of the three most important relationships in her life. What makes Emma’s story especially powerful is that she endured this devastation without the support of family, friends, or community. She began the slow and painful work of rebuilding her life with only professional support and her own determination. Emma shares her journey from devastation to resilience. She brings raw honesty, hard-won wisdom, and genuine hope to others facing this uniquely isolating form of grief. Thank you for listening! Please subscribe on any platform that you listen to podcast and give us a 5-star review! To listen to other episodes, we invite you to visit us at https://whataboutmepodcast.com/ (https://whataboutmepodcast.com/) There you'll find: Full episode show notes Guest resources (when applicable) Transcripts All listening platforms links Social media links Bonus content Watch clips and highlights : https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UC6CJzyxjvEFyXh9_Qm90Jrw (https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UC6CJzyxjvEFyXh9_Qm90Jrw) (https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UC6CJzyxjvEFyXh9_Qm90Jrw)

6. 

   23 Jun 2026

   Trailer: Welcome to What About Me With Emma

   Thank you for listening! BIO: Emma Milne's life was profoundly changed by family estrangement. Four years ago, she experienced what she describes as “the unthinkable”—the sudden loss of the three most important relationships in her life. What makes Emma’s story especially powerful is that she endured this devastation without the support of family, friends, or community. She began the slow and painful work of rebuilding her life with only professional support and her own determination. Emma shares her journey from devastation to resilience. She brings raw honesty, hard-won wisdom, and genuine hope to others facing this uniquely isolating form of grief. Please subscribe on any platform that you listen to podcast and give us a 5-star review! To listen to other episodes, we invite you to visit us at https://whataboutmepodcast.com/ (https://whataboutmepodcast.com/) There you'll find: Full episode show notes Guest resources (when applicable) Transcripts All listening platforms links Social media links Bonus content Watch clips and highlights : https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UC6CJzyxjvEFyXh9_Qm90Jrw (https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UC6CJzyxjvEFyXh9_Qm90Jrw)

7. 

   25 Dec 2025

   I have moved on, what about my children?

   Episode Description In this deeply personal and thought-provoking episode, I respond to a listener question that cuts to the core of parenting after separation: Should a parent ever choose a romantic relationship over their child? Through lived experience, reflection, and emotional honesty, this episode explores the critical distinction between minor children and adult children, the necessity of healthy boundaries, and the often-unspoken damage caused by emotional enmeshment when adult children are placed inside a marriage. This conversation is not about choosing one relationship over another—it is about honoring the appropriate role, responsibility, and hierarchy of each relationship so that no one is harmed in the process. Key Themes & Takeaways 1. Children Must Never Compete With a Partner Minor children require unconditional presence, protection, and priority. Their emotional and developmental needs are non-negotiable. No romantic relationship should ever displace a parent’s responsibility to their minor child. This aligns with decades of attachment research showing that children require consistent emotional availability from caregivers to develop secure attachment (Bowlby, Ainsworth). 2. Minor Children vs. Adult Children: A Necessary Distinction A central message of this episode is that adult children and minor children have fundamentally different needs. Minor children require guidance, structure, and parental prioritization. Adult children deserve love, respect, and continued emotional support—but not authority over a parent’s marriage or life decisions. Family systems theory emphasizes that failure to recalibrate roles as children mature often leads to boundary confusion and relational dysfunction. Referenced Framework: Dr. Murray Bowen – Family Systems Theory Differentiation of self Healthy generational boundaries Avoiding emotional triangles 3. Emotional Enmeshment Is Not Healthy Parenting This episode names a rarely discussed dynamic: when adult children are given access, influence, and authority that belongs exclusively to the marital relationship. Examples discussed include: Oversharing marital details with adult children Allowing adult children to regulate a marriage Requiring a spouse to compete for emotional legitimacy Clinical psychologist Dr. Ken Adams, a leading authority on enmeshment, describes this dynamic as emotionally damaging to all parties involved, often masquerading as “closeness” or “loyalty.” 4. Marriage Requires Protection, Privacy, and Partnership Healthy marriages require: Emotional safety Privacy Mutual decision-making A unified “we” identity According to Dr. John Gottman, one of the strongest predictors of marital success is whether partners: Prioritize each other emotionally Set boundaries with outside relationships (including adult children) Present a united front When marriages lack these protections, resentment, emotional exhaustion, and psychological distress often follow. 5. Boundaries Are Not Rejection—They Are Love This episode challenges the belief that boundaries equal abandonment. Boundaries: Protect relationships Clarify roles Prevent resentment Support long-term connection As therapist Nedra Glover Tawwab teaches, boundaries are not about control—they are about self-respect and relational clarity. Research & Expert Voices That Corroborate This Episode John Bowlby & Mary Ainsworth – Attachment Theory Dr. Murray Bowen – Family Systems Theory Dr. John Gottman – Marital stability and emotional prioritization Dr. Ken Adams – Emotional enmeshment in families Nedra Glover Tawwab – Healthy boundaries in adult relationships These frameworks collectively support the episode’s core position: 👉 Loving your children does not require sacrificing your marriage. 👉 Honoring your marriage does not require abandoning your children. Final Reflection This episode is a reminder that love without boundaries can become harmful, even when intentions are good. Children—minor or adult—thrive best when parents model healthy relationships, emotional responsibility, and self-respect. Parenthood is not about choosing who matters more. It is about choosing what is appropriate, healthy, and sustainable for everyone involved.

8. 

   11 Dec 2025

   Estrangement, healing and self love

   Today we’re stepping into a conversation that so many people carry quietly: estrangement. It’s a subject filled with complexity, grief, unanswered questions, and deeply human longing. This episode was sparked by a recent Oprah conversation with mental-health professionals and families navigating estrangement, along with an article by Patty Slo Munson, LCPC, titled “Estrangement: The New Epidemic for Parents of Adult Children.” Both reveal a painful trend—more adult children are cutting contact without explanation, leaving parents in a fog of confusion and heartbreak. In this episode, I open my heart and share my own experience. For the past three years, I have been estranged from my adult son—a reality I never imagined. I talk through: the moment he told me he didn’t feel loved, despite my unwavering devotion the confusion and shock that came after I helped him and his wife during the birth of their baby the abrupt shift that led to silence, distance, and unanswered questions the pain of replaying years of parenting, searching for where things went wrong and the deep ache of loving someone so fiercely while being shut out of their life I also share a second layer of this journey—my estrangement from my mom, and how that experience unfolded during the most fragile and painful season of my life. It is honest, raw, and deeply vulnerable. But this episode is not just about heartbreak. It is also about healing, self-love, and rebuilding from the inside out. Over the last three years, I have walked through therapy, grief, self-reflection, and the painful but necessary decision to choose myself. I talk about: learning to stop begging for love recognizing emotional patterns that were harming me listening to my own inner voice for the first time rebuilding self-worth after years of shrinking creating a safer, stronger, more grounded version of myself If you are navigating estrangement—whether from a parent, a child, or someone you love—please know you are not alone. This episode offers understanding, compassion, and hope for anyone who feels the ache of distance. You deserve to feel loved, supported, and whole. Your life is not over. There is light ahead. Thank you for being here with me today. If this episode speaks to you, please like, subscribe, or share it with someone who might need comfort and connection. At the bottom of this episode, you’ll find a short summary and additional resources

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   4 Dec 2025

   “The Cost of Losing Yourself: Love, Boundaries & the Journey Back Home”

   Episode Summary In this deeply personal and vulnerable episode, our host examines a familiar yet rarely spoken truth: how easily we can lose ourselves inside a relationship. From the early excitement of online dating to the whirlwind romance, marriage, blended families, and silent sacrifices — this story unfolds as a powerful reminder of the consequences of abandoning your own needs for the sake of harmony. The episode explores what happens when a partner prioritizes their family’s expectations over marital unity, when privacy dissolves, and when self-worth begins to erode. But woven through the heartbreak is a message of resilience, self-reclamation, and the slow, patient work of rebuilding a life that centers your own value. Listeners will walk away with insight, affirmation, and an invitation to ask themselves the hard question: “What have I done for me lately?” 🔑 Key Topics Covered The silent act of “boxing yourself away” in relationships The evolution of dating from traditional encounters to online platforms How societal pressure to marry shapes dating choices Early stages of love: chemistry, compatibility, and fast-tracked relationships Red flags hidden beneath harmony The danger of becoming the “giver” who asks for nothing Family enmeshment and blurred boundaries The emotional consequences of having no privacy in a marriage Realizing when you’ve been taken for granted The moment a marriage shifts from partnership to misalignment Rebuilding after emotional depletion How tending to yourself becomes an act of survival The slow, courageous process of healing from the inside out 📝 Episode Highlights & Insights “We enter relationships and place ourselves on a shelf… hoping one day someone will notice we’re missing.” Meeting a partner online sparked a fast, passionate connection — but harmony without honesty eventually cracks. The honeymoon phase masked deeper issues: people-pleasing, self-abandonment, and unequal treatment within a blended family. As property was divided and decisions were made, discrepancies and favoritism surfaced. Speaking up about boundaries was met with silence, ridicule, and family allegiance — leaving the host emotionally isolated within her own marriage. Relearning how to breathe, move, and reclaim life became an act of courage. Self-care isn’t indulgence — it’s survival. Healing begins with the tiniest shuffle forward, not a leap. ❤️ Powerful Lesson of the Episode Filling everyone else’s cup while leaving yours empty isn’t love — it’s self-erasure. And the path back begins with one tiny act of care for yourself. 📌 Reflection Questions for Listeners Have you ever silenced your own needs to keep peace in a relationship? Do you share your truth, or do you avoid it to stay “easy to love”? Are you filling your own cup, or only pouring into others? What is one gentle thing you can do for yourself today?

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    26 Nov 2025

    Thriving and Healing Through Holiday Isolation

    What do you do when the holidays don’t look the way you imagined? When you're not surrounded by family, when you don't have a village, or when traditions feel more painful than joyful? In this episode, I share a personal story of a holiday spent alone—a season filled with estrangement, confusion, and a deep sense of abandonment. But it also became the season where I learned the power of acceptance, planning ahead, and choosing to create meaning even when no one else invites you to it. We talk about: • When loneliness feels like rejection • Grieving the family or traditions you hoped for • Why planning ahead is emotional self-care • Simple ways to create comfort, even if you’re spending the day alone • The mindset shift from “just surviving” to “learning to thrive” Being alone doesn't mean you're forgotten. Sometimes it means you are in a season of rebuilding, growing, and learning to stand beautifully on your own. You are not alone in your loneliness. If this episode speaks to you, share it with someone who may need a little extra comfort this season.

11. 

    20 Nov 2025

    Reinventing Yourself After Trauma

    In this opening episode, your host shares the honest and vulnerable story behind why this podcast was created. After experiencing a series of traumatic events three years ago — including divorce and a complete identity shift — she turned to online communities, motivational speakers, and podcasts for support. The encouragement she received became the foundation of her healing. Now, she’s here to give that same support back. What this episode covers: How trauma led to a full reinvention rather than returning to an “old self” Choosing a legal name change as part of rebuilding identity The role social media groups and podcasts played in her healing Why sharing stories, research, and resources matters Encouragement for those walking a similar path The central question of this podcast: “What about me?” What listeners will gain: Validation for the emotions that come with trauma Hope from someone who is further along in the healing process Practical encouragement, empathy, and direction A reminder that healing is possible — even when it doesn’t feel like it

12. 

    20 Nov 2025

    Your Story Matters More Than You Know

    In this heartfelt episode, your host shares her vision for Season 1 and why this podcast exists: to remind everyday people — the ones who feel invisible, unheard, or forgotten — that their experiences matter. She opens up about the moments that made her believe she was alone in her pain, and the truth she learned as she stepped into the world of healing and community: Nothing happens to us singularly. Through her own journey of trauma, heartbreak, and rebuilding, she discovered that thousands of others walk similar paths. Now her mission is to give a voice to the people who rarely get the spotlight — the “little man and woman” whose stories deserve to be seen and honored. In this episode, she explores: Why her first season will touch on many different life experiences The power of seeing your story reflected in someone else’s The loneliness that comes from broken relationships and trauma How trauma shapes who we become and why healing feels isolating Why everyday people’s stories matter just as much as experts and influencers The importance of sharing your truth so others feel less alone How knowledge, community, and storytelling help us heal The transformation that comes from choosing self-love Why loving yourself must come before seeking it from anyone else What personal empowerment looks like after deep emotional pain Core Message: You are not alone in your struggle. You are not weak for hurting. You are not “too much” for needing support. Your story has value — and someone else’s healing may depend on hearing it.

13. 

    20 Nov 2025

    Self-Love After Hurt — Breaking Patterns and Choosing Yourself

    In this deeply personal episode, your host opens up about the questions so many of us quietly ask: When do we realize childhood trauma shaped us? How long does it take to identify emotional abuse? Why is gaslighting so hard to recognize until it’s too late? Why do we stay in relationships where we are taken for granted? She shares her honest journey of ruminating over broken relationships, grieving connections that ended without explanation, and trying to understand why patterns repeated. Her life changed drastically three years ago when three of her closest relationships collapsed in the same season — leaving her shattered, spiraling, and forced to rebuild from the ground up. But through the pain came a truth she now lives by: you matter. This episode explores the importance of self-love, self-respect, and no longer accepting less than you deserve. Your host shares how choosing herself, honoring her worth, and treating herself with the same care she once reserved for others finally brought peace, clarity, and healing. What this episode covers: Recognizing emotional abuse, gaslighting, and being taken for granted How unhealed trauma shapes our relationships Why unexplained disconnects hurt so deeply Grieving friendships and relationships that once felt safe The moment everything collapsed — and what it sparked Rebuilding identity after loss How self-love becomes the path back to wholeness Encouragement for listeners who are still hurting

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    20 Nov 2025

    The Road to Self-Worth: Navigating Emotional Turmoil

    In this raw and honest episode, your host shares the moment everything shifted — when confusion, gaslighting, emotional abuse, and broken relationships finally collided with clarity. Once the truth was undeniable, she knew the life she was living could no longer continue. She opens up about walking away from a marriage, grieving multiple relationships at once, and facing the fear of being alone. What followed was the hardest journey of her life: rebuilding herself, choosing peace, and learning to love the person she is today. In this episode: Recognizing emotional abuse and gaslighting How clarity changes everything Choosing peace over chaos Grieving relationships that collapse without warning The reality of healing after divorce Why shortcuts don’t work — you must walk through the pain Rebuilding self-worth and reclaiming your voice Learning to pour love back into yourself

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