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John L. Oliffe and Christina S. E. Han discuss the unseen work-related mental health struggles men face, highlighting the emotional cost of job loss and the stigma around seeking help in this interview.
29 May 2025
Redefining Men's Mental Health Approaches
John Barry discusses his article, "Redefining Men's Mental Health Approaches," arguing that masculinity isn't the core problem and advocating for male-centered approaches in therapy; this is an interview about mental health.
27 May 2025
Understanding the Crisis: Men, Suicidal Ideation & Self-Harm
Industry experts analyze a national study about men entering hospitals with suicidal thoughts or self-harm, highlighting the need for better mental health interventions and community support.
25 May 2025
Supporting Men's Mental Health
This episode explores practical strategies for men to enhance their mental well-being, emphasizing early symptom recognition, physical activity, social connection, and professional support.
22 May 2025
Where Are All the Men?
This episode examines the societal stigmas and systemic barriers that prevent men from accessing mental health support, based on research by Dr. Yair Apter.
12 Dec 2024
Breaking the Silence: A Man’s Journey Through Domestic Abuse
Paul shares his powerful journey of domestic abuse and resilience, offering insight and hope for men facing similar experiences and breaking the silence around this hidden issue.
26 Nov 2024
Breaking Through Trauma: Gregory David’s Story of Healing
Gregory David shares his courageous healing journey from childhood trauma, addiction, and depression, offering valuable insights and inspiration for recovery.
28 Oct 2024
A voice for survivors - Interview with Bob Welch
In this episode of What Happened to Me, Michele Battistioli sits down with Bob Welch to discuss his experience co-writing Boy in the Mirror: An Athletic Director’s Struggle to Survive Sexual Abuse as a Child. Together, they explore the moving story of Jimmy Bartko, former athletic director who in 2017 publicly revealed that a priest had abused him when he was a child, keeping this secret for over 40 years. We asked Bob Welch what the book meant to him, how the connection between him and Jim Bartko developed, and we discussed how the story of a survivor of abuse can be told.
To learn more about Bob’s work, visit bobwelchwriter.com (http://bobwelchwriter.com).
About the Podcast:
What Happened to Me is produced by Hope for Men (https://www.hopeformen.org/), a mental health platform dedicated to supporting male survivors of sexual violence. We connect survivors with therapists who truly understand their experiences. To find the right therapist for you, visit our Therapist Directory (https://www.hopeformen.org/search).
If you’d like to share your story on our podcast, reach out to us at info@hopeformen.org (http://info@hopeformen.org/). We’re here to help you be heard.
Credits:
Host: Michele Battistioli (https://www.linkedin.com/in/michele-battistioli/)
Editing: Tom Garber (https://www.linkedin.com/in/tomnoamgarber/)
Original Music: Ori Alboher (explore more of his work on Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/artist/1RjBm2Uu1hbXps8XUT6LiE?si=11j6Yw5pRVaKbYJ0BXbVDw))
Special Thanks: Ali Pourrahim (https://www.linkedin.com/in/ali-pourrahim/)
Support Us:
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14 Oct 2024
The Strength to Speak: Dylan’s Story
In this episode of What Happened to Me, Dylan St. Gabriel courageously shares his personal story of surviving sexual violence and the journey that followed.
Dylan’s story is one of resilience, healing, and hope.
Tune in to hear his powerful message, and if you’re moved by his story, show your support through these channels -
YouTube: Dylan St. Gabriel (https://www.youtube.com/@dylangabriel13)
Instagram: @_dylanstgabriel (@_dylanstgabriel)
Cashapp: $dylangabriel13 ($dylangabriel13)
About the Podcast:
What Happened to Me is produced by Hope for Men (https://www.hopeformen.org/), a mental health platform dedicated to supporting male survivors of sexual violence. We connect survivors with therapists who truly understand their experiences. To find the right therapist for you, visit our Therapist Directory (https://www.hopeformen.org/search).
If you’d like to share your story on our podcast, reach out to us at info@hopeformen.org (http://info@hopeformen.org). We’re here to help you be heard.
Credits:
Original music for this podcast is by Ori Alboher. Discover more of his work on Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/artist/1RjBm2Uu1hbXps8XUT6LiE?si=n1JSUeA-Q1-MYRaIjoz2lA)
Support Us:
If you’d like to support our mission, please visit our Patreon page. (https://patreon.com/Whathappenedtome?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink)
29 Sept 2024
Andrew Jeffery - A Small Boy Smiling
In this episode, I have the honor of speaking with Andrew Jeffery, author of A Small Boy Smiling. Andrew courageously shares his journey through childhood sexual trauma and the powerful healing process that followed. His story is a testament to resilience, offering hope and insight to those facing similar challenges.
To learn more about Andrew’s journey, visit his website (https://www.mattcareybooks.com/).
To purchase "A Small Boy Smiling", follow this link (https://amzn.eu/d/f3IByze) to Amazon.
About the Podcast:
What Happened to Me is produced by Hope for Men (https://www.hopeformen.org/), a mental health platform dedicated to supporting male survivors of sexual violence. We connect survivors with therapists who truly understand their experiences. To find the right therapist for you, visit our Therapist Directory (https://www.hopeformen.org/search).
If you’d like to share your story on our podcast, reach out to us at info@hopeformen.org (info@hopeformen.org). We’re here to help you be heard.
Credits:
Original music for this podcast is by Ori Alboher. Discover more of his work on Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/artist/1RjBm2Uu1hbXps8XUT6LiE?si=n1JSUeA-Q1-MYRaIjoz2lA)
Support Us:
If you’d like to support our mission, please visit our Patreon page. (https://patreon.com/Whathappenedtome?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink)
16 Sept 2024
Turning Pain into Purpose - Founders’ Roundtable
Turning Pain into Purpose - Founders’ Roundtable
Tune in for a powerful discussion about turning pain into purpose and creating safe spaces for healing.
In this episode, we bring together three inspiring founders of organizations dedicated to supporting male survivors of sexual violence. Join Tom Garber, founder of Hope for Men; Thomas Garrod-Pullar, founder of MenAsWell; and Duncan Craig OBE, founder of We Are Survivors, as they share their personal journeys and discuss the transformative impact of their work.
Tom Garber, Hope for Men (https://www.hopeformen.org/)
Thomas Garrod-Pullar, MenAsWell (https://www.menaswell.nl/)
Duncan Craig OBE, We Are Survivors (https://www.wearesurvivors.org.uk/)
Also, check out Thomas Garrod-Pullar’s podcast “Queer Consent” for more insightful conversations - Listen on Spotify. (https://open.spotify.com/show/1k7ZWPEofkXenXGzGoRfs4?si=113b1651e5824323)
About the Podcast:
“What Happened to Me” is produced by Hope for Men, a mental health platform dedicated to male survivors of sexual violence. We connect survivors with therapists who truly understand their experiences. To find the right therapist for you, visit our Therapist Directory (https://www.hopeformen.org/search).
If you’d like to share your story on our podcast, we invite you to reach out to us at info@hopeformen.org (applewebdata://23C357D2-4D0A-46EC-A6E7-B87783CC1E46/info@hopeformen.org). We’re here to help you be heard.
Credits:
Original music for this podcast is by Ori Alboher. Discover more of his work on Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/artist/1RjBm2Uu1hbXps8XUT6LiE?si=njBqIWUOSDGncjpGxqFF7Q).
Support Us:
If you’d like to support our mission, please visit our Patreon page (https://patreon.com/Whathappenedtome?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink).
15 Aug 2024
Update from 'What Happened to Me': New Stories, New Beginnings
In this special update from *What Happened to Me*, we're excited to share news about upcoming episodes featuring powerful conversations with survivors who have found meaning in their healing journey.
If you'd like to share your story, please reach out to us at info@hopeformen.org (info@hopeformen.org).
Stay tuned for new beginnings!
Original music by Ori (https://open.spotify.com/artist/1RjBm2Uu1hbXps8XUT6LiE?si=4DTcnqJiQLK258Piu8TCeQ)
12 Jun 2024
The Day My Memory Returned: A Survivor's Story and Unwanted Reactions
In this powerful episode, we hear from a survivor of childhood sexual abuse who bravely shares his story. One day, a forgotten memory of the abuse resurfaced, profoundly impacting his life. However, when he shared this revelation, the response from a listener was far from supportive. Join us as we delve into his journey of rediscovery, the challenges of confronting traumatic memories, and the importance of believing and supporting survivors. This episode sheds light on the complexities of memory, trauma, and the urgent need for compassion and understanding.
If you want to share your story, send us an email to info@hopeformen.org .
This episode was produced by Hope for Men, a pioneering online therapy platform dedicated to supporting male survivors of sexual trauma. Visit our website to learn more - hopeformen.org (hopeformen.org )
If you would like to support our show, please visit our Patreon page. Every donation makes a difference: patreon.com/Whathappenedtome (https://patreon.com/Whathappenedtome).
Original music by Ori Alboher
30 May 2024
Echoes of Pain: A 15-Year-Old’s Tale of Survival
At 15 years old, our anonymous guest bravely shares his harrowing story of survival and resilience. This episode delves into three traumatic incidents he endured, offering a raw and unfiltered glimpse into the struggles male survivors of sexual violence face. Listen as he finds his voice and begins his journey toward healing.
If you want to share your story, send us an email to info@hopeformen.org.
This episode was produced by Hope for Men, a pioneering online therapy platform dedicated to supporting male survivors of sexual trauma. Visit our website to learn more - hopeformen.org (hopeformen.org )
Original music by Ori Alboher
12 May 2024
Skeeter's story
Skeeter's story is a testament to resilience and courage. On October 14th, 1974, he faced a horrific ordeal, being kidnapped and assaulted by a family friend.
To safeguard his anonymity, we've utilized an AI voice for his narrative.
As you listen to Skeeter's journey, we urge you to approach with compassion. The story may stir intense emotions and trigger you, particularly if you've experienced similar trauma.
Remember, you're not alone. Help and support are available at hopeformen.org.
For those ready to share their own experiences, we extend a warm invitation. Reach out to us at info@hopeformen.org to begin the dialogue.
If you're in need of professional guidance, we've compiled a list of specialized therapists who are equipped to support survivors like you. Explore them at https://www.hopeformen.org/search (https://www.hopeformen.org/search).
For additional support, resources await at https://www.hopeformen.org/resources (https://www.hopeformen.org/resources).
Let's stand together to dismantle the silence and stigma surrounding male sexual trauma, fostering a community of healing and hope.
16 Apr 2024
From Survivor to Supporter: A Journey of Healing
Welcome to the inaugural episode of "What Happened to Me", a groundbreaking podcast by Hope for Men. In this episode, we delve into a deeply personal conversation between a male survivor of sexual violence and his loved one.
Join us as we navigate through their journey, exploring the challenges they've faced, the triumphs they've celebrated, and the profound impact of their experiences on their lives. As we embark on this intimate dialogue, we honor the courage and resilience of both individuals, whose stories shed light on the complexities of healing and recovery.
To protect the privacy and confidentiality of our participants, we have chosen to keep their identities anonymous. However, their voices and experiences resonate loudly, offering solace, understanding, and hope to listeners who may be on a similar journey.
Tune in to this powerful episode of "What Happened to Me" and join us as we embark on a journey of empathy, compassion, and healing.
Produced by Tom Garber
Original music by Ori Alboher
To learn more, visit us at hopefomen.org
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