What Was God Thinking? explores the complexities and beauty of second marriages, blended families, and the journey of navigating differences in faith, beliefs, and lifestyles. Through candid conversations, personal stories, and insightful discussions, this podcast aims to offer hope, guidance, and a sense of community to couples facing similar challenges. We explore the question, "What was God thinking when He put us together?" to uncover the deeper purpose behind our unique and sometimes challenging relationships.
New Season, New Focus: Lessons Learned and the Road Ahead
In this episode of What Was God Thinking?, Natasha and Micah kick off Season 2 by reflecting on the surprises, challenges, and growth they’ve experienced since starting the podcast. From confronting their past to navigating the hard work of healing, they share how the journey has reshaped their perspectives on marriage, faith, and family.
They’ll also discuss the benefits of doing the work, the lessons they’ve learned, and the moments that left them asking, “What was God thinking?” Plus, they’ll give you a sneak peek into what’s coming up this season as they dive deeper into blended family dynamics, second marriages, and co-parenting chaos—with their signature mix of humor, honesty, and heart.
Tune in to this powerful, raw, and inspiring episode as Natasha and Micah share their truths and set the stage for an even more impactful Season 2!
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7 Dec 2024
Awkward Holidays: Managing Chaos, Co-Parenting, and Christmas Drama
Natasha and Micah share their real-life experiences and practical co-parenting tips for managing holiday chaos, blending beliefs, and creating meaningful moments amidst mismatched traditions and external pressures.
23 Nov 2024
Family Feuds Reimagined: Practical Peacebuilding for Modern Families w/ Special Guest Phoebe Milliken
Natasha explores how peacebuilding skills can transform blended families, second marriages, and co-parenting dynamics with Phoebe Milliken, Program Director of Hartford International University's International Peacebuilding Master's program.
16 Nov 2024
Unpacking the Pain: Why Healing Hurts Before It Heals
In this short but deep episode, Natasha takes the mic solo to discuss the complex journey of healing from trauma, prioritizing mental health, and practicing self-care in the chaos of blended family life and marriage. She shares the truth about the ups and downs of her own healing process, how therapy (both individual and couples) has been a game-changer, and the pivotal role faith and her connection to God have played in finding strength through adversity.
Natasha doesn’t sugarcoat the challenges—healing is messy, nonlinear, and downright exhausting. But she also highlights the beauty in the process: self-discovery, resilience, and the opportunity to create healthier dynamics within marriage and family.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed or wondering how to start prioritizing your mental health in the middle of life’s storms, this episode offers both validation and practical strategies to help you on your journey.
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9 Nov 2024
Emotional Affairs Uncovered: When Boundaries Break and Trust Shatters
In this episode, Natasha and Micah dive deep into a tough topic—emotional affairs and their impact on marriage. Together, they share a raw, unfiltered look at what led to their emotional disconnection and how it opened doors to connections outside their marriage. They’ll explore how emotional affairs, often underestimated, can be just as devastating as physical ones, breaking trust and creating distance.
Natasha and Micah reflect on how these experiences have tested their relationship, reshaped their perspectives on trust, and forced them to redefine boundaries. For anyone navigating the pain of betrayal or struggling to reconnect, this episode offers hard-earned insights into rebuilding trust and finding peace again, even after the hardest moments. Join us for a candid conversation about the challenges, the healing process, and the lessons learned along the way.
26 Oct 2024
Blended Chaos & Surviving It All: Part 2 w/ Special Guest Judy Kobylarz-Dillard
In Part 2 of Blended Chaos & Surviving It All, Natasha dives even deeper with special guest Judy Kobylarz-Dillard. Together, they unpack the struggles of blending families in the midst of custody battles, managing special needs, and navigating complex co-parenting dynamics. Judy opens up about the emotional toll and the invisible baggage that comes with being a stepmom, co-parenting, and juggling her role in a blended family while balancing her own well-being.
Tune in as they explore the hard truths and surprising lessons that only come from living through the chaos. Judy’s story isn’t just about survival—it’s about resilience and redefining what “family” means.
Don’t miss this episode for real talk, heartfelt moments, and a peek behind the curtain of blending families.
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19 Oct 2024
Blended Chaos & Surviving It All: Part 1 w/ Special Guest Judy Kobylarz-Dillard
In this episode, Natasha sits down with her long-time friend Judy Kobylarz-Dillard, a second wife, stepmom, and queen of blending a family through some serious challenges. From gaining custody of her husband’s adopted children to navigating the emotional roller coaster of co-parenting with exes, Judy brings the raw, real stories that show just how tough blending families can be.
They talk about everything from custody battles to mental health struggles, and even the chaos of bringing a new baby into the mix. If you’re living in the trenches of step-family life, or you’ve ever felt like your blended family situation is more like a blender with the top off, this episode is for you.
Tune in to part 1 of our conversation, and don’t forget to come back next week for more!
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12 Oct 2024
Separated But Not Shattered: When Time Apart Might Save Your Marriage
In this episode of What Was God Thinking?, we dive into one of the most challenging seasons of our marriage—our two-year separation. We’re not sugarcoating anything. From emotional distance and unspoken pain to the practical struggles of being apart, we’re sharing what led to our split, how we navigated the separation, and what ultimately brought us back together.
Separation can be a tough decision, and while it’s not the solution for everyone, sometimes time apart can give both partners the space they need to heal and reflect. But here’s the catch—it only works if you’re willing to do the inner work and address the real issues.
In this week’s episode you’ll get:
• A no-holds-barred look at the emotional rollercoaster of separating from your spouse and why, when done intentionally, it can save your marriage.
• Real strategies on how to set boundaries and use time apart for personal growth, so you can come back to your relationship stronger and more in tune with what you both need.
• How faith played a huge role in guiding us through the toughest period of our marriage and how it can be your anchor when everything feels like it’s falling apart.
If you’ve ever wondered if time apart might be what you need to save your relationship, this episode is for you. We’re getting personal and practical, sharing the lessons we learned the hard way so you don’t have to.
Tune in, reflect on your own situation, and grab our free guide, The Attachment Code: Cracking the Secret to Emotional Connection, to understand how your attachment style may be impacting your relationship. www.whatwasgodthinking.com/attachmentcode
5 Oct 2024
Exes, Kids, and Limits: Creating Peace in Chaos
In this episode of What Was God Thinking?, Micah and I dive into one of the toughest topics in second marriages and blended families—dealing with exes. Whether it’s setting boundaries, managing co-parenting, or keeping your new marriage strong while navigating old relationships, it’s a delicate balance that can bring up intense emotions.
We’re sharing personal stories about the challenges we’ve faced—like Micah’s experience with court involvement and boundary-setting, and my journey of learning how to step back and protect my mental health. We also talk about the importance of faith in keeping our marriage on track and rebuilding trust when exes stir up conflict.
If you’re struggling to set boundaries with an ex or feeling like your family is constantly caught in the middle, this episode is for you. We’ll cover practical tips on how to protect your marriage while co-parenting, rebuild trust, and keep the peace—even when things get tough.
And don’t forget to grab our FREE guide Beyond the Ex: 20 Strategies for Keeping It Together in Second Marriages and Blended Families to help you navigate these tricky waters. www.whatwasgodthinking.com/beyondtheex
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28 Sept 2024
From Separate Dysfunctional Worlds to One Big Blended Family
In this episode, we share the journey from two broken pasts to building one blended family. We open up about what made us ready for marriage after difficult divorces and how a symbolic “Letting Go” ceremony helped us leave the past behind.
Blending our boys felt natural at first, filled with fun moments like kitchen cook-offs and trust-building experiences. But soon, we realized we hadn’t discussed our very different parenting styles, leading to challenges and conflicts. Faith played a big role in bringing us together, but it took work to keep it at the center as life got busy.
We talk about establishing new family traditions, navigating differences, and offer raw advice for couples considering remarriage with kids. Blending families isn’t easy, but with love, patience, and faith, it’s possible to create something beautiful.
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21 Sept 2024
Love After Divorce: Is It Possible to Find a Spark Again?
Finding love again after divorce isn’t just about second chances—it’s about embracing the lessons learned and daring to open your heart once more. In this episode, we dive into the raw, unfiltered realities of navigating relationships post-divorce. We’ll share personal stories, the unexpected challenges, and the surprising joys that come with rebuilding love and trust. Whether you’re freshly divorced, years out of it, or supporting someone through it, this episode is packed with insights on healing, hope, and the courage it takes to love again.
Ready to connect with others on a similar journey? Let’s build a community that’s redefining love after divorce together!
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4 Sept 2024
What Was God Thinking? Podcast Trailer: Navigating Second Marriages & Blended Families with Real Talk and Humor
Welcome to "What Was God Thinking?" with Micah and Natasha, a podcast that dives into the ups and downs of second marriages and blended families. With 11 years of experience, three high school graduates, and countless lessons learned, we share real-life stories, candid conversations, and humor about love, faith, and family. Whether you're in a similar situation or just curious, join us every Saturday for insights, laughs, and heartfelt discussions on navigating the lessons and blessings of blending lives, beliefs, and personalities. Launching on Saturday, September 21st—don't miss it!
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