What We Carry Together

About What We Carry Together

Welcome to What We Carry Together. Life rarely goes the way we planned. Between joy and grief, hope and heartbreak, certainty and the unknown, we all carry things that shape who we become. This podcast is a space for honest conversations about those experiences—and a reminder that we were never meant to carry them alone. As sisters, we talk openly about faith, family, relationships, infertility, surrogacy, chronic illness, mental health, purpose, and the everyday moments that challenge and change us. We also share our personal journey as we navigate IVF and the incredible gift of my sister offering to become my surrogate. Some episodes are deeply personal, others are lighthearted, but every conversation is rooted in authenticity, compassion, and hope. Whether you’re walking through your own difficult season, supporting someone you love, or simply looking for meaningful conversations that feel like sitting down with friends, we’re so glad you’re here. Subscribe and join us as we laugh, cry, ask hard questions, celebrate small victories, and discover that the things we carry become a little lighter when we carry them together.

Publisher

What We Carry Together

Category

health & fitness · kids & family

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

11 Jul 2026

Latest episode

29 Sept 2026

Latest episodes

9 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   29 Sept 2026

   Now It's My Turn

   A deeply personal surrogacy update takes an unexpected turn when postpartum anxiety, medication history, and a 344-question psychological assessment become part of the approval process. If you care about fertility, IVF, mental health stigma, or what it really takes to become a surrogate, this conversation pulls back the curtain on the parts nobody talks about.Madisyn and Kaitlyn open up about where the journey stands now: four embryos created, a house sale in motion, and a move in with mom and dad that may end up being the practical support system this whole season needs. But the biggest hurdle isn’t logistics - it’s how a past prescription after Jack’s birth triggered extra scrutiny and turned a hopeful family arrangement into a much more intense screening process.Madisyn and Kaitlyn also get honest about the emotional whiplash of surrogacy screening - the tension between protecting everyone involved and feeling like every step adds more waiting, more appointments, and more time away from the baby they’re trying to bring home. The conversation gets real about stigma, therapy, anxiety medication, and the unfair way mental health care can still be treated like a liability instead of responsible self-care.This episode matters if you’ve ever felt judged for getting help, if you’re navigating fertility decisions, or if you’ve wondered what surrogacy really asks of a family behind the scenes. It’s vulnerable, practical, and surprisingly reassuring - a reminder that sometimes the hardest part of building a family is simply staying patient through the process.Essential listening if you want the honest, behind-the-scenes version of IVF, surrogacy, and the emotional complexity that comes with both.

2. 

   23 Aug 2026

   So...How Many Embryos Do We Have?!

   Madisyn shares the emotional journey of receiving the embryo results, the significance of genetic testing, and the impact of the results on their family planning. The conversation delves into the complexities of IVF, the importance of genetic testing, and the emotional rollercoaster of the results. The conversation covers the experience of preparing for IVF and the emotional journey associated with it. It includes moments of celebration, self-care, and the realization of the challenges ahead. The process involves various steps and considerations, leading to a mix of excitement and anxiety. The conversation covers the emotional journey of surrogacy, the anticipation of embryo results, and the excitement of sharing the news with family. It also delves into the process of revealing the embryo's gender and the significance of family involvement.

3. 

   10 Aug 2026

   Late Nights and Lifelong Sisters

   Two sisters, one sleepover, and the kind of bond that makes a surrogacy journey possible. If you've ever wondered what it really looks like to grow up side by side and still know exactly how to push each other's buttons, this episode is for you.What We Carry Together goes lighter for a special sister sleepover edition, but the stories go deep fast. From matching childhood roles like Ashley and Mary Kate, to the chaos of being each other's first call, first accountability partner, and lifelong built-in best friend, this conversation shows why family history matters so much in the present.You (http://present.You)'ll hear about: The childhood games, pranks, and "Boss of the Day" power struggles that shaped their dynamic The way one sister always led and the other followed, until adulthood forced them both to find their own lanes The hilarious early memories that prove they have been inseparable since day one Rapid-fire sibling reveal rounds that expose their favorite comforts, guilty pleasures, and biggest pet peeves The sweet, honest moments where they say out loud what they admire most about each other They also share the kind of tiny, specific details only sisters would know, the ones that make this feel less like an interview and more like being invited into the middle of a real sleepover.This episode is a reminder that sibling relationships can be messy, hilarious, deeply loyal, and surprisingly formative. And when those relationships become the foundation for something as personal as surrogacy, every story matters even more.Perfect for anyone who loves sister dynamics, funny childhood stories, heartfelt family conversations, and honest behind-the-scenes connection. Press play if you want a lighter episode with real warmth, real teasing, and a bond that feels bigger than words.

4. 

   3 Aug 2026

   Beside Her Through It All

   Welcome back to the What We Carry Together podcast! Today, we have a very special episode featuring Mils, Madisyn's husband. We’ll dive into their journey, exploring personal insights about their relationship, the challenges they faced, and how they navigated through tough times together. This episode is a heartfelt reminder that while life can throw unexpected challenges our way, the strength of love and support can guide us through even the toughest storms. Want to hear more about Mils and Madisyn's journey? Tune in to the full episode for deeper insights and personal stories.

5. 

   27 Jul 2026

   Grace in the Dark

   The episode features a discussion about the emotional journey of infertility, the process of IVF, and the importance of giving oneself grace and setting boundaries. It also touches on the concept of healing not being linear and the significance of protecting one's peace. The conversation delves into the importance of supportive listening and the power of prayer during difficult times. It also explores the impact of faith on personal struggles and the role of family and friends in providing support. The journey of infertility and the strength of marriage are also highlighted, along with the significance of embracing the abnormal and finding hope in challenging circumstances.

6. 

   20 Jul 2026

   The Day Hope Grew

   In this episode, Madisyn shares her heartfelt journey through IVF, from diagnosis to egg retrieval, highlighting the emotional and physical challenges she has faced and the hope for future parenthood.

7. 

   11 Jul 2026

   The Next Step is Here

   When facing a high-stakes fertility journey amid complex health risks, knowledge—and emotional resilience—become your greatest allies. Maddie’s story reveals how meticulous medical guidance, unwavering support, and a deep sense of peace transform anxiety into hope during one of life’s most vulnerable moments.In (http://moments.In) this candid conversation, Maddie shares her raw experience navigating IVF at the Mayo Clinic while managing health conditions that amplify the risks. Discover the behind-the-scenes details of hormone treatments, follicle counts, and ultrasound milestones—insights that demystify the intense process of egg retrieval. You’ll learn how her medical team’s expertise and her partner’s steadfast support turn fear into confidence, providing a blueprint for anyone facing similarly daunting decisions.We break down key topics including the delicate balancing act of medication management, the emotional toll of physical changes, and the importance of boundaries and community support. Maddie also reflects on the broader meaning of surrogacy—highlighting how love, choice, and faith redefine what family really looks like. Her experience underscores a vital truth: even in uncertainty, there is profound peace when surrounded by caring professionals, loved ones, and a resilient spirit.Why does this matter? Because countless women and families grapple with extraordinary challenges to build their futures. Maddie’s story isn’t just about the medical facts—it's about reclaiming hope and finding strength in vulnerability, illustrating that one’s journey can be filled with grace and clarity—even when the odds are high.If you or someone you love is facing fertility struggles or complex health risks, this episode offers both reassurance and insight. It’s a powerful reminder that peace surpasses all understanding, and with the right support, hope is always within reach. Tune in to see how faith, community, and resilience create miracles—not just of life, but of the human spirit.

8. 

   11 Jul 2026

   The Offer

   Most siblings don’t volunteer to carry a pregnancy for each other — that’s what makes Kaitlyn’s selfless offer so extraordinary. In this deeply personal episode, she reveals the courageous choice to become a surrogate for her sister, Madisyn, and the profound journey that led to it. This isn't just about family — it’s about faith, purpose, and trusting God’s plan in moments of uncertainty. You’ll discover how sincere faith and careful discernment can transform a simple desire to help into a life-changing act of love. Madisyn and Kaitlyn share intimate details of their emotional conversations, the fears, the hopes, and the delicate balance between vulnerability and strength. We break down how to navigate complex decisions—like surrogacy—while honoring your mental health and your relationships. Kaitlyn’s story demonstrates the power of listening to your calling, even when it’s daunting.We also dive into the practicalities: the importance of medical guidance from a cautious doctor, the emotional toll of fertility journeys, and the significance of processing doubts through therapy. This episode is a roadmap for anyone facing tough choices about family, offering insight into how faith, communication, and self-sacrifice can lead to unexpected blessings.Why does this matter? Because in a world that often promotes individualism, Kaitlyn’s selfless act reminds us that our greatest impact comes when we serve others from a place of deep conviction. If you’re grappling with risks, love, or challenging life decisions, this conversation will inspire you to trust the process—and the divine timing. Perfect for anyone contemplating surrogacy, navigating family extensions, or seeking reassurance that compassion can indeed change everything. Tune in to hear how love, faith, and the willingness to give can shape something truly miraculous.

9. 

   11 Jul 2026

   Welcome to Our Journey

   "My sister offered to carry my baby." In this episode of the What We Carry Together podcast, hosts Madisyn and Kaitlyn share their deeply personal journey navigating a rare medical diagnosis, fibromuscular dysplasia (FMD), and the emotional challenges of medical infertility. Madisyn discusses her diagnosis, the impact it has had on her life, and the difficult decision to explore surrogacy as a means to achieve her dream of motherhood. The sisters reflect on their bond, the importance of sharing their story, and the hope that it may help others facing similar struggles.

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5.0 / 5

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5.0 / 5

2 ratings

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