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What Would Dorcy Do

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What Would Dorcy Do is a thought‑leadership podcast hosted by Dorcy Pruter, offering clarity for families, adult children, and professionals navigating estrangement, rupture, accountability, and repair. This podcast approaches family fracture through a systems lens focused on healing and solutions, not ideology, blame, or performative healing. Inside this feed, Dorcy dismantles false binaries, names the patterns that keep families stuck, and offers language and structure for real change. You’ll hear three kinds of conversations: • What Would Dorcy Do- direct episodes delivering clarity, frameworks, and cultural truth‑telling around family systems, boundaries, accountability, and repair. • Fungi Family Healing -an educational series focused on nervous system safety, family systems, and the responsible integration of sacred plant medicine. • Family Dropouts- a conversation series exploring estrangement, reconciliation, and the human cost of unhealed family dynamics. You don’t need to listen to everything. Start where you are. If you want clarity, begin with the core WWDD episodes. If you want education and regulation with sacred plant medicine, Fungi Family Healing will meet you there. If you want context and companionship, Family Dropouts offers honest conversation.

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April 30, 2026

You've Done Everything Right. Your Kid Still Won't Come Home.

There is something I need to say to a specific group of people who I know are watching and listening.The adult alienated children. The ones who grew up inside the fracture. Who were put in the middle of something no child should ever be placed in. Who were asked to choose, to carry, to perform a loyalty to one parent at the cost of loving the other.And the ones who became adults carrying a wound so old and so deep that they don't even recognize it as a wound anymore. It just feels like who they are.I see you. I was you.Everything I share in this episode comes from that place first. Not from authority. Not from over 20 years of working in this space. From the child I was who needed someone to name this before anyone really had language for it.In this episode, I draw a distinction this space has needed for a long time.It is not a takedown. It is not a callout. It is a line that could change everything for the families we are all here to serve.The difference between advocacy and recovery.What you'll hear in this episode:Advocacy names the wound. It gives you language for the pain. It says out loud what the system has refused to acknowledge. It builds community around shared experience. It tells the parent who has been gaslit for years that they are not crazy. That what they lived is real. That other people see it too.That is sacred work. It has a place. It is needed.Recovery closes the wound. It does not just name what happened. It goes into the room with your family. It works directly with the child, with your inner child. It addresses pathogenic parenting at its root. It produces a reunion that holds.One discovers the problem. The other solves it.Both are necessary. They are not in competition. They are in sequence.The four signs you're stuck in advocacy when what you actually need is recovery:<ol><li>You are still consuming content but nothing in your family has changed.</li><li>You can name every manipulation tactic used against you and you still get triggered by every single one.</li><li>You are following people who can explain the wound but cannot heal it.</li><li>You feel less alone and you have language for your pain — and your child is still gone.</li></ol> If any of those landed, it is time to move.I also name something in this episode that is not being discussed honestly in this space.What happens when an unhealed person builds a platform around a wound they have not yet closed? This is not a personal conflict. This is a pattern. And it is the same pattern that has been playing out inside your family for years.Unhealed people reproduce their wound in every space they enter.I close by speaking directly to you.To the parents who have been fighting for their children for years. To the adult alienated children who are still trying to understand what happened to them.I've been where you are. I was shaped by this same wound. I know what it feels like to build a life on top of a fracture you did not choose.The work I do is not separate from that story. It is because of that story.Recovery is possible for every single family. Your child is waiting on the other shore.Let's go get them back.Resources mentioned in this episode:<ul><li>The First Move System: https://dorcypruter.com/healing-from-the-trauma-of-unhealed-parents/</li><li>The Expansion Code: https://soulillumination.org/expansion-code/</li><li>Book a strategy session: https://dorcypruter.com/contact/</li><li>Learn more at dorcypruter.com</li></ul> Connect with Dorcy:<ul><li>Instagram: @dorcypruter</li><li>YouTube: Dorcy Pruter TV</li><li>Website: dorcypruter.com</li></ul> About Dorcy Pruter:Dorcy Pruter is a certified coach, mediator, reunification practitioner, and the creator of the UNHOOK Method, the DORCY Method, and the Reconnect Alienated Parents Roadmap. She has been working in family reunification for over 20 years. She is also a formerly alienated child who reunited with her father before his passing in 2013. Her work is not borrowed from someone else's research. It is built from her own healing and tested with thousands of families. She is the founder of the Conscious Co-Parenting Institute and the leader of the High Road to Reunification Program, the number one court-ordered family reunification program in the country.Peace in, so you can have peace out.

April 1, 2026

The Solution to Parental Alienation

Most attorneys walk into family court thinking they're handling a custody dispute. They're not. They're looking at a child protection case, and nobody in that courtroom knows how to name it correctly. Not the evaluator. Not the guardian ad litem. Not the therapist. The solution to parental alienation exists right now. It has existed for over a decade. Most professionals in the family court system have never been trained on it. In this episode, Dorcy gives attorneys, guardian ad litems, therapists, court evaluators, and targeted parents the complete clinical and legal roadmap for what's actually happening in these cases, how to prove it in court, and what the proven remedy is. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: → The single most important shift every professional needs to make: custody case vs. child protection case → The three diagnostic indicators that change everything (Childress framework) → Why standard custody evaluations fail and what to use instead → The ABAB single case reversal design and why it holds up under cross-examination → The exact language attorneys must stop using in court (and what to use instead) → The four sequential phases of the proven intervention protocol → The guiding principle that has defined this work for over 20 years: Protect First, Litigate Second THE THREE DIAGNOSTIC INDICATORS OF PATHOGENIC PARENTING: 1. Attachment system suppression toward the targeted parent 2. Either personality disorder traits in the allied parent (grandiosity, absence of empathy, entitlement, haughty and arrogant attitude, splitting) OR phobic anxiety in the child toward the targeted parent 3. A fixed and false belief regarding the parental inadequacy of the targeted parent When all three are present, this is not a custody dispute. It is child psychological abuse, and there is a court-defensible diagnosis, a scientifically established assessment protocol, and a proven intervention with documented results. WHO THIS EPISODE IS FOR: → Family law attorneys handling alienation cases → Guardian ad litems and minor's counsel → Therapists and court evaluators → Targeted parents trying to understand what their attorney needs to be doing → Adult children who lived through this and want to understand the framework → Anyone who has watched the family court system fail a child and felt powerless to stop it RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: 📘 Free Guide — The Protect First Framework The complete clinical and legal foundation for professionals. https://consciouscoparentinginstitute.com/protect-first-checklist/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=checklistThe daily behavior rating tool used in the ABAB protocol. [INSERT LINK] ABOUT DORCY PRUTER: Dorcy Pruter is a certified coach with over 20 years of results-based work in family reunification since 2006. She is a formerly alienated child who reunited with her father before his passing in 2013. She is the creator of the High Road to Reunification Program, the #1 court-ordered family reunification program in the country, and the developer of the Protect First professional certification framework. She has trained hundreds of attorneys, guardian ad litems, therapists, and court evaluators in the Childress framework and is one of the closest practitioners to Dr. Craig Childress's attachment-based model of pathogenic parenting. CONNECT WITH DORCY: 🌐 Website: consciouscoparentinginstitute.com 📺 YouTube: @DorcyPruter 📱 Instagram: @dorcypruter 💼 LinkedIn: Dorcy Pruter If this episode helped you see a case differently, share it with the attorney, guardian ad litem, or therapist who needs to hear it. Children in these cases deserve professionals who can name what they're looking at. Protect first. Litigate second. 🎙️ What Would Dorcy Do is the podcast for parents, professionals, and adult children navigating family estrangement, parental alienation, and the family court system.00:00 - Why this is not a custody case01:30 - The three diagnostic indicators of pathogenic parenting04:45 - Why standard custody evaluations fail in court06:20 - The ABAB single case reversal design10:15 - The four sequential phases of the protocol13:40 - The language attorneys must stop using17:00 - Protect First, Litigate Second: the guiding principle19:30 - How to get certified in the frameworkNew episodes weekly. #WhatWouldDorcyDo #ParentalAlienation #FamilyCourt #ChildressFramework #DorcyPruter #FamilyReunification #ProtectFirst #TargetedParent #CustodyAttorney

March 14, 2026

35 Years of People Trying to Destroy Me. Here's What I Learned About Myself.

For over 20 years I have been called a child abuser by people who are psychologically abusing children. I have had false allegations made against me by someone I caught stealing. I have watched people I helped for free turn on me the moment I told them a truth they were not ready to hear.For a long time I asked the same question a lot of you are asking right now.What is wrong with me that this keeps happening.Nothing is wrong with me. And nothing is wrong with you either.In this episode I walk you through my Human Design chart and show you exactly why people like us attract the attacks we attract, what the projection field actually is and how it works, why the 5/1 profile pulls people in and then becomes the target when the savior narrative flips, and what it means to be designed to expose what is hidden in a world that is not always ready to see it.This is not a victim story. This is a map. And once you understand the map, the attacks stop feeling like a verdict on your worth and start revealing exactly what they are — other people's unfinished work landing on the nearest available mirror.If you have ever told the truth and become the problem for telling it, this episode is for you.

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What is What Would Dorcy Do?: What Would Dorcy Do is a thought‑leadership podcast hosted by Dorcy Pruter, offering clarity for families, adult children, and professionals navigating estrangement, rupture, accountability, and repair.

This podcast approaches family fracture through a systems lens focused on healing and solutions, not ideology, blame, or performative healing. Inside this feed, Dorcy dismantles false binaries, names the patterns that keep families stuck, and offers language and structure for real change.

You’ll hear three kinds of conversations:

• What Would Dorcy Do- direct episodes delivering clarity, frameworks, and cultural truth‑telling around family systems, boundaries, accountability, and repair.

• Fungi Family Healing -an educational series focused on nervous system safety, family systems, and the responsible integration of sacred plant medicine.

• Family Dropouts- a conversation series exploring estrangement, reconciliation, and the human cost of unhealed family dynamics.

You don’t need to listen to everything. Start where you are. If you want clarity, begin with the core WWDD episodes. If you want education and regulation with sacred plant medicine, Fungi Family Healing will meet you there. If you want context and companionship, Family Dropouts offers honest conversation.
How often does this podcast release new episodes?: This podcast updates daily.
Where can I listen to this podcast?: This podcast is available on 4 platforms including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and more. You can also use the RSS feed directly.
Does this podcast accept guests?: Information about guest appearances is not available.

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