Whatever happened to Gentle Men

About Whatever happened to Gentle Men

Welcome to From Heart break to Healthy Love podcast (previously called whatever happened to the Gentle Men), where we talk about all things dating, healing from toxic relationships, self love, healthy relationships, healthy sex and loving yourself to help single people attract the person who is right for them. From Heartbreak to Healthy Love is a podcast for people who are ready to stop repeating painful relationship patterns and start building love and a life that feels calm, confident, and aligned. If you’ve been hurt before, struggle with confidence in dating, or keep attracting the same dynamics despite “doing the work,” this podcast will help you understand why and what actually needs to change. Hosted by Sam Morris dating and relationship coach, trauma-informed practitioner, and former UK probation officer, each episode explores how your nervous system, attachment patterns, beliefs, and sense of self shape not only your relationships, but every area of your life. This podcast goes beyond dating advice. You’ll learn how healing, self-trust, and alignment affect: Who you’re attracted to and why How confident and secure you feel in love and dating Your ability to manifest healthy love (without chasing or forcing) Your work, purpose, and self-expression Understanding yourself through tools like Human Design Through conversations, practical insights, and self-reflection, you’ll learn how to heal first so love, confidence, and clarity start to fall into place naturally. This podcast is for people who are done surviving relationships and ready to create a healthy, aligned life where love finally works. Using research, theories and 11 years experience as a healthy relationships, sex and habit change coach, Sam Morris dives in. If you're looking for self improvement, self development, advice on love, how to heal from toxic relationships, advice on dating, advice on self love, advice on sex and advice on how to change your habits, uncover your mental blocks and your unconscious mind and try and live the best life. Then this is your place. Follow Sam on Instagram - thesammorriscWebsite - thesammorris.com Get the self love blueprint for free - https://www.thesammorris.com/forms/2148788118

Publisher

Sam Morris

Category

education · health & fitness · health & fitness

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

25 Apr 2024

Latest episode

19 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

71 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   19 Oct 2026

   Life's Too Short to Keep Putting Things Off (Your Next 90 Days)

   Have you ever been so busy building the life you want that you've forgotten to enjoy the one you've already got? Life has been a bit of an emotional roller coaster lately. From watching 209 people create incredible changes inside Magnetic AF to losing someone who helped shape the person I am today, I've been reminded just how precious our time really is. In this episode, I'm getting personal. I'm talking about grief, regret, the people we keep putting off seeing, looking after ourselves when ...

2. 

   11 Aug 2026

   You Don't Have a Dating Problem: Why You Keep Chasing the Wrong People

   Why can you be intelligent, successful and completely self-aware…and still lose your mind when someone you really like doesn't text back? You know your attachment style. You know your red flags. You've listened to the podcasts, read the books and probably analysed your childhood. So why do you still chase? In this episode, I'm breaking down what I call the anatomy of an energetic match—and why becoming magnetic to healthy love has very little to do with being more attractive, flirting better ...

3. 

   4 Aug 2026

   The Real Reason You Attract Emotionally Unavailable People

   What if your biggest dating problem didn't start on a dating app... but in childhood? In this episode, I open up about my own experience of growing up with an absent father and how that shaped my beliefs about love, relationships and self-worth for years. We'll explore attachment theory, nervous system conditioning and why so many people find themselves repeatedly attracted to emotionally unavailable partners, despite desperately wanting a healthy relationship. As a former probation officer w...

Reach and audience

Public platform figures. Ratings count people who left a rating, not total listeners.

YouTube views

282,119

Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025

Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

1 ratings

Spotify

5.0 / 5

1 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 80 / 100

A composite of feed quality, social presence, YouTube performance and engagement. Read the methodology.

Quality

84

Social presence

94

YouTube

82

Engagement

60