It's time to recognize the men who are victims of abuse. This deeply personal show challenges the silence. Told by a survivor, we shed light on the covert manipulation, psychological warfare, and emotional damage many men silently endure at the hands of their abusive female partners. With empathy, clarity, and insight rooted in a real experience, you've found a lifeline for men caught in the fog of emotional abuse. Enjoy deep dives into sub-topics, which compliment primary content. The author / speaker always points everyone to Jesus as The Way, The Truth, and The Life.
This very difficult episode for me to record and release is for the man who is being abused, and needs to leave his relationship. Here...I tell you what to expect when you finally make the decision to leave. You must listen to what I have to say and take it to heart.
7 Aug 2025
EP13_STALKER_1
In Episode 13 of When Women Abuse, we pick up where the anger left off. I’m off the road, back "home"—but nothing’s changed. If anything, it’s worse. My abuser has tightened her grip, and I’m slipping further into emotional, mental, and spiritual exhaustion.
This chapter explores what happened next…
🔹 The end of my driving career
🔹 The terrifying impact of financial isolation
🔹 A breakdown of 4 common abuse tactics: gaslighting, insulting language, shifting blame, and extreme jealousy
🔹 Commentary from Madeline Kennedy of Insider on the signs of emotional abuse
🔹 Psalm 37:32—and the rising threat of stalking
This episode sets the stage for something even darker. Because what happens when you’re too tired to fight? When you stop asking questions? When the abuse becomes your normal?
Let’s talk about it.
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31 Jul 2025
EP12_ANGER!
Hello and welcome back to “When Women Abuse”! If you haven’t picked up your copy of my book yet, head on over to Amazon.com, type “When Women Abuse” into your search bar, and you’ll be taken to it. I’d like to thank Annie Spratt (https://unsplash.com/@anniespratt) for her photo cover to today’s episode! What an awesome picture we have from her! If you’re looking for an amazing photo for one of your projects, you should check out her portfolio. That’s Annie Spratt at https://unsplash.com/@anniespratt (https://unsplash.com/@anniespratt).
Today, we’re on episode 12 of this podcast taken from Chapter 4 of my book and it’s shaping up to be a HOT one! We’re talking about the time when my ANGER finally showed up.
In the book, this chapter opens with a short lesson in scuba diving to illustrate how pressure—both physical and mental—affects the human body. The Divers experience is one with a range of symptoms, from none, to mild discomfort, to severe debilitation, and even fatal consequences, depending on how deep they go and how prepared they are. I don't intend to scare you away from diving—in fact, I highly recommend it. When done safely, the underwater world is absolutely breathtaking.
My point is to graphically demonstrate that Abusers apply pressure, too. And just like the ocean…sometimes the pressure is subtle, sometimes overwhelming.
The deeper you descend into an abusive relationship—or into spiritual darkness—the more intense that pressure becomes. The experience of being pulled away from the light of Jesus Christ can feel a lot like a dangerous dive: disorienting, painful, and potentially deadly if you don’t come up for air.
Hang on tight my friends…and Welcome to the conversation!
24 Jul 2025
EP11_So Confused...
Today, we close Chapter 2 and walk into Chapter three, where we walk into the realm of mental fog. This is where an abused man can be…“So Confused…”.
Have you managed divisions of a company, or even entire companies, but lately find yourself in a haze. Does it seem like trying to answer the easiest of questions is all but impossible?
Are you known by your peers and friends to have it all together, but for some reason, you can’t seem to balance your checkbook? Plan a meal? Plant a garden?
Does it seem like simply living life has turned into a blurry, full-time job?
Have you caught yourself saying to yourself, “I just can’t do this anymore!”…and wonder what ‘THIS’ is?
If you are in a relationship that seems ‘off’…and if you answered ‘yes’ to one or more of these questions…you could be in an emotionally abusive relationship.
Welcome to the conversation!
Thank you Dex Ezekiel (https://unsplash.com/@dexezekiel) for our cover art today!
18 Jul 2025
The Government Is Abusing Us_Fight Back!
How did we wind up here? How did he wind up in the office- again? I’m going to tell you what I believe, but we’re going to start slow, with something called words. In case you don’t know this yet…words can be a trap. They can be dangerous, especially when they’re coming from someone who is seeking or trying to keep - power.
Now that we have chosen to put a dictator, who is also a felon, a liar, and an abuser in the highest chair in the nation, we face lies daily from his mouth, his administration, and his followers. Hopefully, I don’t have to tell you to stop trusting a single word that comes out of their mouths?
Join me today to hear my thoughts about this nightmare and what WE can do about it.
Thank you Vic Alcuaz (https://unsplash.com/@vicalcuaz) for today's cover art!
15 Jul 2025
EP10_What Real Wealth Looks Like
Most of the wealth we chase—status, success, approval, money — don’t give us freedom. They make us slaves.
Then again...wealth isn’t the enemy. It’s the obsession of wealth that is the enemy. It’s the belief that wealth can give you what only God can give you, which is His peace, His purpose, His identity. True wealth isn’t about what sits in your bank account. It’s about what anchors your soul. If everything you’ve built was stripped away tomorrow—would you recognize the person in the mirror? Would you be rich in the ways that matter?
Real freedom begins where surrender starts. And real wealth begins when you stop striving… and start becoming.
A great big thank you to Aaron Burden (https://unsplash.com/@aaronburden) for our cover art this week!
10 Jul 2025
EP9_You Don't Own What You Don't Control
Our society wants us to believe we own the things we have. I know…because the things I thought I owned… actually owned me...until they were gone. And it finally hit me—if I didn’t have control over them, did I ever really own them? It took them being taken away for me to realize that - No…I never did own them. Because you don’t own what you don’t control.
In this episode, I will share three hard truths that taught me what that really means—and how it changed the way I see my life, my identity, and the way God sees ownership. Welcome to the conversation!
A big shout out to Alex Shute (https://unsplash.com/@faithgiant) for our cover art today!!
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2 Jul 2025
EP8_The Seduction of Success
The host explores how the pursuit of financial success can create a false sense of ownership and mask deeper personal issues.
26 Jun 2025
EP7_Why Empaths Attract Narcissists...
The host explores the connection between empaths and narcissists, sharing personal experiences of recognizing dangers and understanding the journey of an empath.
19 Jun 2025
EP6_Pride Comes Before A Fall
The speaker discusses how pride preceded a difficult period in their life, reflecting on starting a civilian job after military service and feeling undervalued.
12 Jun 2025
EP5_The Abuser Defined
This episode defines the roots of abuse, such as narcissism and sociopathy, and teaches listeners to identify associated actions and when to leave an abusive situation.
5 Jun 2025
Part 2 Foundations Finale
The host explores characteristics of distinct cultures and personal experiences to reveal the foundation for the podcast, focusing on cultural identity.
29 May 2025
EP3_Foundations_Part 1
The host explores the importance of foundations by examining various associations, companies, buildings, and societies to establish context for future discussions.
22 May 2025
EP2_Effective Communications
The host discusses effective communication strategies when addressing sensitive topics like abuse, focusing on clarity and promising thoughtful dialogue.
15 May 2025
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