1 Nov 2026
Ep. 40 Finding Her Words Again: Shalini's Journey After Stroke and Aphasia
In this episode of When Words Don’t Come Easy, Justin and Roger sit down with Shalini Shelley Aggarwal to discuss her life-changing journey following an ischemic stroke that resulted in aphasia.
Before her stroke, Shalini had built a career in healthcare and matchmaking, bringing people together and helping them form meaningful connections. After her stroke, she faced an entirely different kind of challenge: rebuilding her communication skills, relearning everyday activities, and adjusting to a new version of herself.
Shalini opens up about the day of her stroke, the initial confusion, and the realization that aphasia had affected her ability to communicate. She shares the strategies that helped her navigate daily life, from writing down her thoughts and using planners to practicing language skills and retraining her brain.
The conversation also explores her journey toward regaining independence, including the challenges of learning to drive again. Shalini discusses neuroplasticity, physical and occupational therapy, acupuncture, hyperbaric therapy, and the importance of having a strong support system throughout recovery.
Most importantly, Shalini offers an honest perspective on living with aphasia, reminding listeners that communication challenges do not define intelligence, identity, or a person's ability to connect with others. Her story is one of resilience, determination, and the power of human connection.
Shalini Shelley Aggarwal is a stroke survivor, entrepreneur, and professional with a background in healthcare and matchmaking. Following an ischemic stroke that resulted in aphasia, she embarked on a challenging journey of recovery, working to regain her communication skills and independence.
Despite the obstacles, Shalini has maintained a positive outlook and a strong determination to keep moving forward. She continues to explore different approaches to recovery, stay connected with her therapists, and rebuild the everyday skills many people take for granted.
Her experience has given her a unique perspective on relationships, communication, empathy, and the importance of support. Having spent much of her career helping people find meaningful connections, she now understands firsthand how important those connections become when life takes an unexpected turn.
Shalini's message to others navigating aphasia is simple: You are not alone, keep working toward recovery, and don't let your diagnosis define you.
When Words Don't Come Easy is a podcast hosted by Justin and his father, Roger Chlowitz, exploring life after stroke, aphasia, traumatic brain injury, and the challenges of communication and recovery.
Roger is a hemorrhagic stroke survivor living with anomic aphasia. Through personal stories, honest conversations, and interviews with survivors, caregivers, speech-language pathologists, researchers, and advocates, Justin and Roger work to raise awareness, break down misconceptions, and remind people that aphasia is a loss of language, not intellect.
Every episode highlights the people behind the diagnosis, sharing experiences, lessons, challenges, and victories while building a community where survivors and families feel understood, supported, and less alone.
Because even when words don't come easy, connection is always possible.
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