Where are we heading?

About Where are we heading?

Kim and Dan first started going on weekly walks as a way to catch up, and hold each other accountable in their creative lives. Those casual conversations soon became a co-regulating anchor in their week, and from those walks, 'Where Are We Heading?' was born. Now, the podcast is all about natural, walk-and-talk conversations rather than formal interviews, exploring how to live a creative life that values well-being. Our guests often come from the creative world, and we let the show evolve naturally as we walk and chat. It's really all about the journey

Publisher

Where are we heading?

Category

education

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

7 Oct 2025

Latest episode

1 Jul 2026

Latest episodes

11 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   1 Jul 2026

   ADHD, Anxiety & Caring Less | Where Are We Heading?

   Dan and Kim go for another honest walk-and-talk conversation covering ADHD, anxiety, perfectionism, burnout, caring less, manifestation, and the fear of getting things wrong. From birthday freakouts to creative pressure and learning to let go, this episode explores what it means to navigate life creatively while trying not to burn out along the way. In this episode of Where Are We Heading?, Dan and Kim head out for another unfiltered walk-and-talk conversation exploring creativity, anxiety, ADHD, perfectionism, and the pressure of modern life. The conversation starts with birthday reflections and quickly opens into a deeply honest discussion about living with ADHD, the fear of getting things wrong, and the emotional weight of overthinking. Kim shares her journey toward potentially starting ADHD medication after trying to manage things holistically through exercise, meditation, cold water swimming, supplements, and routines. Together, they unpack the anxiety paralysis, shame, perfectionism, and burnout that so many creative people quietly carry. Along the way, they discuss: ADHD and fear of failure Creativity and perfectionism Burnout from over-giving Why “caring less” can actually be healthy Manifestation vs action Social anxiety and masking The pressure to perform creatively Learning to let go of control Building a creative life around wellbeing instead of burnout As always, the episode keeps the natural DIY spirit of Where Are We Heading? — a real conversation captured while walking outdoors in Margate, complete with distractions, dogs, passing strangers, and unfinished thoughts. This podcast is for anyone trying to build a creative life while navigating mental health, uncertainty, growth, and self-discovery. If this conversation resonates with you, let us know in the comments — hearing from listeners genuinely means a lot. #ADHD #CreativeBurnout #MentalHealthPodcast #Creativity #Perfectionism #Overthinking #Anxiety #Wellbeing #SelfDevelopment #Podcast The episode highlights how ADHD can show up as anxiety, paralysis, perfectionism, fear of failure, and difficulty processing instructions. Dan and Kim explore how fear of getting things wrong can lead to overworking, over-giving, and burnout. The conversation repeatedly returns to the idea that creative success shouldn’t come at the expense of mental health. A core insight from the episode is learning to loosen perfectionism and stop over-controlling outcomes without becoming apathetic. Rather than magical thinking, the discussion frames manifestation as aligning actions, priorities, and behaviour with the life you actually want. One of the strongest moments is hearing that listeners related to previous ADHD conversations - reinforcing how vulnerability builds community. “Sometimes the energy of putting stuff off is more than it would be just to do the task.” “Done has to be better than perfect.” “If someone followed me around for a week, would they know what my goals are?” “We’re not in control of what happens to us - we’re in control of how we respond.” “I think a lot of people with ADHD have been shamed.” “Trying to care less has become essential because I was always giving too much.” “Half an hour is better than nothing.” “You don’t fully let yourself try if you care too much about failing.” join the journey https://linktr.ee/whereareweheadingpod (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbmJMcm04bFhVX2JWR2hWN3VQMTdRZHUxY0p4Z3xBQ3Jtc0tseUhGR2xTeEYxcmJtblpFaUhHd3RoeGJwYllET1JVcldZaFNURmJwdDdmbTBFY01qc01sS0R0ZXVJSHktbFhWY3BoZW1PcDItbmJaTENROEwzUWpTR2dDOFNCQ1gxU0xINm1RRGcwaDY1b2dSY0hxaw&q=https%3A%2F%2Flinktr.ee%2Fwhereareweheadingpod&v=PZB303a4GSU) one-to-one coaching @thomaswood.alreadyyou (https://www.instagram.com/thomaswood.alreadyyou/) Prioritise This https://www.lilysilverton.com/prioritise-this (https://www.lilysilverton.com/prioritise-this)

2. 

   30 Mar 2026

   Raji Rags on Balancing Creativity, Parenthood & Money, and Exploring ADHD

   A walk-and-talk conversation on ADHD, creativity, and the reality of balancing work, parenthood and identity. We explore time blindness, burnout, being present, and what it really means to build a creative life without losing yourself along the way. On this episode of Where Are We Heading?, Dan and Kim walk through Hilly Fields with DJ, producer and cultural tastemaker Raji Rags to explore what it really means to live a creative life in the real world. This is an honest, unfiltered conversation about ADHD, time blindness, and the tension between ambition and wellbeing. From juggling multiple creative projects to navigating parenthood, Raj shares how he’s learning to be more present—both in his work and with his son. They dive into: The hidden challenges of ADHD in creative industries Why “being busy” can mask deeper burnout The struggle between providing and being present as a parent How identity shifts when you become a parent Why creativity needs structure (even if you resist it) The importance of community, music, and human connection There’s no perfect answer here, just three people figuring it out in real time. 🎧 If you’re navigating creativity, mental health, or trying to balance ambition with life, this one’s for you. ADHD & Creative Life Time blindness, hyperfocus, and overwhelm Diagnosis as validation—not just treatment Learning to ask for support and structure Presence vs Productivity Being physically present ≠ being mentally present Full attention transforms stress into enjoyment “When you’re present, it’s the most calming thing” Parenthood & Identity No perfect balance between work and family “Happy parent = happy child” dynamic Avoiding resentment by staying connected to self Creative Energy & Burnout Some people are energised by chaos and community Others need recovery and stillness Energy changes across life stages Friendship & Adulthood Presence matters more than constant contact Adult friendships shift but don’t weaken Structure vs Inspiration “Inspiration needs to find you working” Creativity benefits from discipline (even if it feels unnatural) 🔑 Key Takeaways / Themes join the journey https://linktr.ee/whereareweheadingpod https://rajirags.com/contact https://rajirags.com/congratulations

3. 

   25 Feb 2026

   Dating Your Creativity, the olympics and AI episode

   This week on Where Are We Heading?, we explore what it really means to train your creativity. Inspired by an Olympic comeback story, we talk about rest as discipline, learning your craft instead of outsourcing it, and whether AI is helping or slowly replacing human creativity. A walk-and-talk about resilience, burnout, artistry and the future of work. Can creativity be trained like an Olympic sport? On this week’s walk-and-talk, Kim shares the story of Olympic figure skater Alysa Liu and how stepping away — and returning on her own terms — changed everything. That sparks a bigger conversation about discipline, rest, and whether creativity should be treated as play, practice, or performance. From “dating your creativity” to resisting the temptation to outsource skill-building to AI, this episode explores what it means to truly develop your craft in a world that rewards speed over depth. We also dive into: AI replacing creative work Human connection vs holograms Job interviews run by algorithms Ownership of voice and identity Whether technology is serving humanity — or replacing it This episode is raw, reflective, and very much unfolding in real time — just like the path we’re walking. 📍 Recorded outdoors, in motion, as always 🔑 KEY THEMES / TAKEAWAYS Rest is not weakness — it’s strategic. Creativity needs structure, but not punishment. “Dating your creativity” vs forcing productivity. Learning your craft matters more than speed. AI is a tool — but craft builds depth. Human imperfection creates connection. Work, purpose and identity are deeply linked. Tech is accelerating faster than regulation. Community matters more than automation. #creativitypodcast #AIandcreativity #wellbeingforcreatives #futureofwork #ADHDcreativity https://linktr.ee/whereareweheadingpod Get Wild https://www.instagram.com/get_wild1/ Alysa Liu https://youtu.be/AdUCcU8P24s?si=g0oSG5dCdjqEE7Rz Sam Altman https://www.reddit.com/r/IndiaTech/comments/1rbdmcu/sam_altman_people_talk_about_how_much_energy_it/

4. 

   2 Feb 2026

   Bodies, Burnout & Building a Creative Life That Actually Works

   A walk-and-talk on fitness, burnout, identity, and why discipline doesn’t work for everyone. Dan and Kim explore motivation, representation in movement, ADHD-friendly structure, and how redefining “training” can unlock joy, creativity, and sustainability in both work and life. walk in the park louder In this episode of Where Are We Heading?, which was filmed at the end of 2025; Dan and Kim head out for a slow walk - sore legs, tired bodies, and full minds - to talk honestly about motivation, burnout, and what it really means to look after yourself as a creative person. They unpack why traditional ideas of discipline often fail ADHD brains, how reframing structure as training or fun can change everything, and why representation in fitness and movement matters more than we realise. Kim shares a powerful reflection on seeing her body reflected in the people she trains with - and how that unlocked motivation she didn’t know she was missing. The conversation moves through grief, work, energy, money, and value - including Dan’s evolving approach to artist management, mentoring, coaching, and sustainable creative careers after burnout. There’s no fixed roadmap here - just two friends thinking out loud, finding their footing, and reminding each other (and you) that it’s okay to go slow. This one’s for anyone trying to build a creative life that doesn’t cost them their body or their wellbeing. walk in the park louder Key Themes & Takeaways Reframing discipline: why “training” or “fun-structure” works better than punishment ADHD & motivation: why timing, energy, and enjoyment matter more than willpower Representation in movement: seeing bodies like yours changes everything Burnout recovery isn’t linear: and sometimes takes a year, not a month Fitness as regulation: movement as meditation, not productivity Creative sustainability: valuing your time, energy, and experience properly Hybrid working models: mentoring, coaching, consultancy as a flexible alternative to traditional management Choosing your hard: creative work is hard - but not doing it is hard too Links Dan Garber Management offerings - ⁠https://www.taperec.com/consultancy⁠ (https://www.taperec.com/consultancy) Lily Silverton Prioritise This - https://geni.us/PrioritiseThis (https://geni.us/PrioritiseThis) Bottega Caruso - https://www.bottegacaruso.com/ (https://www.bottegacaruso.com/) LULLABY charity single- ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/T4Plive⁠⁠ (https://linktr.ee/T4Plive) / ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/t4plive⁠⁠ (https://www.instagram.com/t4plive) Join the journey https://linktr.ee/whereareweheadingpod (https://linktr.ee/whereareweheadingpod)

5. 

   19 Jan 2026

   Joy Is Not Optional: Creativity, Youth Work & Community with Zoë Carassik

   In this episode of Where Are We Heading?, Kim and Dan walk with Zoë Carassik, CEO of Pie Factory Music. Zoë reflects on her own journey through youth arts spaces and how those early experiences shaped her confidence, creativity, and sense of belonging. What starts as a conversation about music soon opens out into a wider discussion about youth work, community, and why spaces that centre creativity and care matter more than ever - especially at a time when youth services across the UK continue to disappear. As we walk, Zoë shares what it’s really like to lead a charity in the current climate, and why she believes joy, playfulness, and silliness aren’t distractions from the work, but essential to sustaining it. We talk openly about responsibility, burnout, and how creativity can exist alongside leadership and accountability without losing its humanity. This episode is a reminder that creativity isn’t a luxury - it’s infrastructure. That small moments of validation can stay with a young person for life. And that community is built not through grand gestures, but through consistency, care, and shared creative experiences. Zoë Carassik is CEO of Pie Factory Music, a music and youth work charity based in a busy youth centre in Ramsgate, East Kent. With a background in community music engagement and music education, Zoë’s work has predominantly focused on supporting social justice causes and has taken her from immigration removal centres, women’s refuges and community centres to world-class cultural institutions and strategic charitable organisations. Zoë is a passionate advocate for young people’s rights, ensuring young people are front and centre of the cultural regeneration of Thanet and other areas of high deprivation. https://piefactorymusic.com/ (https://piefactorymusic.com/) Join the journey ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/whereareweheadingpod⁠⁠ (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbmZ2aWZydi1KTWpWYVg2MWtwMFlGNER4N3VKUXxBQ3Jtc0trNzM1N3NpRXdvUWJSM1V2OGJvNTZCOUFZRGFaRXQ2bDlVWHBFZzJ2TDA1T2VpbkFpd1pXNWNVU1gybHI5TjE5eGxaS19GY2hFa01WYUJaaDNBNHVFTkhfeHgtOWk2UzVmaTI2LVduYUZJRDhMakRoSQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Flinktr.ee%2Fwhereareweheadingpod&v=-1pd6nVVX6U) Credits Hosts: Kim and Dan Logo Design: Jane Hogan Illustrates Music & Production: Kim Recorded in: Margate, UK

6. 

   25 Dec 2025

   No Resolutions, Just Presence — A Christmas Special

   A Christmas Day walk-and-talk reflecting on burnout, grief, ADHD, alcohol, ambition, and learning to live more gently. This special episode of Where Are We Heading? is a quiet, honest reflection on the year that’s been — and how to move forward without burning out. Dan and Kim talk about grief, first Christmases after loss, sobriety, ADHD, anxiety, burnout, and the pressure we put on ourselves to “be further along.” Instead of setting big resolutions, they explore what it looks like to slow down, listen to the body, and let life be enough — even when things aren’t perfect. Kim shares how burnout has reshaped her relationship with work, ambition, and self-worth, and how practices like meditation, exercise, and compassion have become essential tools rather than optional extras. Dan reflects on grief, reflection without regret, and finding meaning in presence rather than productivity. As always, the conversation unfolds while walking, grounded in the landscape, the moment, and the reality that none of us have it figured out. This episode is for anyone ending the year feeling tired, reflective, or quietly hopeful and for those who want to enter the next chapter with more kindness and less force. Key Takeaways Letting go of New Year’s resolutions in favour of compassion Burnout as a turning point, not a failure ADHD, anxiety, and the body’s memory of trauma Grief and first Christmases after loss Sobriety, alcohol, and changing relationships with celebration Meditation and exercise as regulation, not optimisation Learning to say no without guilt Measuring life by presence, not productivity Why slowing down can actually create space for better things Join the journey ⁠https://linktr.ee/whereareweheadingpod⁠ (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbmZ2aWZydi1KTWpWYVg2MWtwMFlGNER4N3VKUXxBQ3Jtc0trNzM1N3NpRXdvUWJSM1V2OGJvNTZCOUFZRGFaRXQ2bDlVWHBFZzJ2TDA1T2VpbkFpd1pXNWNVU1gybHI5TjE5eGxaS19GY2hFa01WYUJaaDNBNHVFTkhfeHgtOWk2UzVmaTI2LVduYUZJRDhMakRoSQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Flinktr.ee%2Fwhereareweheadingpod&v=-1pd6nVVX6U) Credits Hosts: Kim and Dan Podcast: Where Are We Heading? Logo Design: Jane Hogan Illustrates Music & Production: Kim Recorded in: Margate, UK

7. 

   1 Dec 2025

   Sound, Grief & How Nature Helps Us Heal — A Walk with Brian d’Souza

   In this episode, we walk with sound artist and producer Brian d’Souza to explore the power of deep listening, nature, and sound as tools for creativity and healing. Brian shares the story behind his work with bio-sonification, field recording and Ambient Flo, and opens up about losing his father during lockdown. A grounded, thoughtful conversation about sound, grief and how nature helps us reconnect. In this reflective walk through London’s Alexandra Palace grounds, we’re joined by Brian d’Souza — award-winning sound artist, DJ and founder of A State Of Flo and Ambient Flo. Together, we explore how nature, sound and creative practice can become lifelines during overwhelming moments in life. Brian shares: How lockdown shifted his awareness of the seasons, soundscapes and the natural world The origins of Ambient Flo, and why listening became essential during a time of global uncertainty How field recording and “deep listening” changed his relationship with creativity and presence The science and art behind bio-sonification — turning the electrical signals of plants into music What nature teaches us about interconnectedness, sound, and attention His experience of losing his father during lockdown, and how walking and nature became part of navigating grief The role of responsibility, lineage and “stepping up” after loss This episode beautifully weaves together creativity, sound, ecology, grief and healing — all through the lens of a walk outside. KEY THEMES / TAKEAWAYS Nature as lifeline: How walking and open space helped Brian through lockdown and loss. Deep listening: Using attention and presence to reconnect with the natural world. Soundscapes & ecology: Understanding the layers of sound — geological, biological, human — and their impact on wellbeing. Bio-sonification: Turning plant bioelectricity into musical expression. Grief & responsibility: Processing the death of a parent through nature, movement and reflection. Creativity & healing: How sound, attention and ritual connect us to ourselves. Brian d’Souza is an award-winning sound artist, DJ, producer and live performer known for blending field recording, global influences and electro-acoustic techniques. Through his work as Auntie Flo, A State Of Flo and Ambient Flo, Brian explores the psychological, ecological and healing potential of sound. His innovative work has been featured by the BBC, Tate Modern, Glastonbury, New Scientist, The Guardian and more. http://www.briandsouza.in/ (http://www.briandsouza.in/) http://www.astateofflo.com (http://www.astateofflo.com) www.soniferous.app (www.soniferous.app) https://www.instagram.com/auntie._.flo/ (https://www.instagram.com/auntie._.flo/) https://auntieflo.bandcamp.com/ (https://auntieflo.bandcamp.com/) Join the journey https://linktr.ee/whereareweheadingpod Credits Hosts: Kim and Dan Guest: Brian d’Souza Podcast: Where Are We Heading? Logo Design: Jane Hogan Illustrates Music & Production: Kim Recorded in: Alexandra Palace, UK

8. 

   17 Nov 2025

   Releasing Music Without Burning Out: A Conversation Between Kim & Dan

   In this honest and open walk-and-talk podcast episode, Where Are We Heading? co-host Kim reflects on releasing her new EP after years away from music. She and Dan dive into what it really feels like to return to something you love - the nerves, the pressure, the data, the burnout, and the quiet joy of simply creating again. Across the conversation, Kim opens up about the realities of coming back after a long break: rebuilding confidence, setting boundaries, protecting your wellbeing, and learning to make work that fits your energy rather than pushing against it. Together, she and Dan explore what it means to define “success” on your own terms, reconnect with your craft in a healthier way, and find a rhythm that actually supports your life. A reflective, grounded episode for anyone navigating a return - to creativity, to music, or to themselves. They talk about: Releasing music in an age of metrics, data, and algorithms The pressure to perform online and how to release at your own pace How the body signals burnout (and why it often hits right after a big creative milestone) Finding a balance between ambition and rest Redefining what success means when you no longer fit the industry mould Building connection through smaller, slower, more intentional art experiences Why sometimes “starting again” is the bravest creative move you can make Recorded while walking through Canterbury, this conversation captures the mix of reflection, laughter, and real talk that defines the show. 🔑 Key Takeaways / Themes Creative growth is cyclical — it’s okay to pause, restart, and do it differently. Burnout often shows up in the body before the mind catches on. Metrics don’t define meaning - creativity is about connection, not numbers. Building slowly and sustainably is a radical act in a culture of urgency. There are no rules anymore - and that can be both freeing and frightening. You can’t make your best work in survival mode. Join the journey https://linktr.ee/whereareweheadingpod (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbmZ2aWZydi1KTWpWYVg2MWtwMFlGNER4N3VKUXxBQ3Jtc0trNzM1N3NpRXdvUWJSM1V2OGJvNTZCOUFZRGFaRXQ2bDlVWHBFZzJ2TDA1T2VpbkFpd1pXNWNVU1gybHI5TjE5eGxaS19GY2hFa01WYUJaaDNBNHVFTkhfeHgtOWk2UzVmaTI2LVduYUZJRDhMakRoSQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Flinktr.ee%2Fwhereareweheadingpod&v=-1pd6nVVX6U) CreditsHosts: Kim and DanPodcast: Where Are We Heading?Logo Design: Jane Hogan IllustratesMusic & Production: KimRecorded in: Canterbury, UK

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   3 Nov 2025

   The healing potential of Psilocybin with Tara Austin from PAR

   In this episode of Where Are We Heading? We walk with Tara Austin, co-founder of PAR – Psilocybin Access Rights, to explore the science, stigma and political barriers surrounding psilocybin. Tara shares why she believes legal access to psilocybin-assisted therapy is not just a medical issue, but a human one - especially for people living with depression, PTSD and end-of-life distress. A grounded and thought-provoking conversation on healing, policy and hope. We walk and talk about: Why psilocybin is still a Schedule 1 substance in the UK despite growing medical evidence The science behind psilocybin therapy and how it works in the brain Breakthrough results in treating depression, trauma and PTSD Why policy change matters — and what stands in the way Harm reduction, set & setting, and why context is everything Shifting from fear and stigma to education and compassion The global movement toward psychedelic reform - and where the UK sits now This episode explores not just the politics of psychedelics, but the human stories behind them - people searching for hope when nothing else has worked. 🔑 Key Takeaways / Themes Psilocybin shows strong clinical potential for treatment-resistant depression, PTSD and end-of-life anxiety Current drug scheduling laws block research access and patient treatment Rescheduling (not legalising) psilocybin would allow regulated medical use Psychedelics aren’t risk-free — set and setting make all the difference The campaign for access is science-led and compassion-driven Healing shouldn’t be limited by outdated policy and stigma Guest Bio – Tara Austin (PAR) Tara Austin is a behavioural scientist, activist, and co-founder of PAR – Psilocybin Access Rights, the UK’s grassroots campaign calling for psilocybin to be rescheduled so it can be prescribed for therapeutic use. PAR has mobilised thousands of citizens, delivered 89,000 campaign leaflets, run the UK’s first psychedelic billboard campaign, and taken psilocybin reform to Parliament. Tara is also a Partner at Ogilvy Consulting, working at the intersection of behavioural science, psychology and systems change. She co-hosts Nudgestock, the world’s largest festival of behavioural science and creativity. 🔗 PAR links: Instagram: @par.global Website: www.par.global (http://www.par.global) Join the journey https://linktr.ee/whereareweheadingpod

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    12 Oct 2025

    We Don’t Know Where We’re Heading (And That’s Okay): Burnout, ADHD & Creative Recovery

    Welcome to Where Are We Heading? — a walk-and-talk podcast with Kim and Dan. What started as weekly walks to check in on each other’s creative lives became a grounding ritual and now, a show about navigating the messy, beautiful journey of living creatively and sustainably. In this first (unofficially official) episode, we introduce how the podcast began, share our stories of burnout, ADHD, and rediscovering joy, and talk about why walking and talking has been such a lifeline for both of us. On this walk , we talk about: How the idea for the podcast started (and why it had to happen outdoors). The role of walking, movement, and nature in our creative recovery. Dan's journey through ADHD and burnout in the music industry. Kim’s story of chronic fatigue, CPTSD, and rediscovering balance. What it means to live creatively without burning out. Key Takeaways / Themes “Done is better than perfect” — creative work doesn’t need to be polished to be meaningful. The power of movement as medicine for burnout and mental health. Creative work and well-being are inseparable; balance is the real success. Walking side-by-side makes it easier to have honest, vulnerable conversations. We don’t have all the answers — and that’s what makes the journey worth sharing. Join the journey: https://linktr.ee/whereareweheadingpod (https://linktr.ee/whereareweheadingpod) Credits Hosts: Kim and Dan Podcast: Where Are We Heading? Logo Design: Jane Hogan Illustrates Music & Production: Kim Recorded in: Margate, UK

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    7 Oct 2025

    Where Are We Heading intro pod 1

    'Where are we heading?' is a new podcast we are launching soon! 🎧As we both have ADHD we are fashionably late to the party 🤣. We first started going on weekly walks as a way to catch up, and hold each other accountable in our creative lives. Those casual conversations soon became a co-regulating anchor in their week, and from those walks, 'Where are we heading?' was born. Now, the podcast is all about natural, walk-and-talk conversations rather than formal interviews, exploring how to live a creative life that values well-being. Our guests often come from the creative world, and we let the show evolve naturally as we walk and chat. It's really all about the journey. We hope you will join us.

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