" Where are Your Diamonds" Podcast

About " Where are Your Diamonds" Podcast

" Where are Your Diamonds" podcast is an educated dialogue with biblical principles located in the bible about the LOVE story for Black Women to learn discernment, strategy and fulfillment in seeking Godly relationship first, before proper dating and leading to healthy marriage.

Publisher

Santanna Tiara Dickens

Category

society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

4 Nov 2025

Latest episode

21 May 2026

Latest episodes

18 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   21 May 2026

   Lots Wife, Closing Doors: Open New Doors

   Before we begin, I want to be clear about what this episode is and what it is not. This is not a bash session. This is not about pointing fingers or calling anyone a victim. This is about empowerment — for Black women and Black men — to stop the cycle of entering into relationships and spaces with people who are unhealed. . THE STORY: WHO WAS LOT'S WIFE? Open with the biblical account — Sodom was being destroyed. God sent two angels. Lot's family was told: leave and do not look back. His wife looked back — and became a pillar of salt. Key questions to raise with your audience: What was behind her that held more weight than the people in front of her? What do we think she was holding onto? Her house? Her community? Her comfort? Her memories? The point: it was not the city she looked back at. It was everything she had built her identity around. She could not let go — even with her future walking right beside her. Have you ever watched a hoarder house episode? You walk in and think — how did it get this bad? But look closer. Every item in that house is a memory. A feeling. A relationship. A time in their life they couldn't release. The house didn't get that way overnight." Now pivot: "Our minds can be hoarder houses. Every betrayal we kept. Every wound we never worked through. Every pattern we inherited and never examined. We pack it all in. And then we bring it — every box, every bag — into the next relationship." Before we renovate the house, can we think about a turnaround of the mind first? You cannot bring your past into your EZER — the strong helper, the woman you were created to be. The upgrade on the outside (new relationship, new season, new blessing) means nothing if the mind has not been cleared. Teach the Hebrew word EZER — used in Genesis 2 when God creates the woman. It means strong helper, a military word, a powerful word. The same word used for God being Israel's helper."You cannot step into who you were created to be while you are still turned around looking at who hurt you."For the women: EZER is your identity, not just your role. She is healed. She is clear-minded. She is forward-facing. You cannot be her and be frozen in what he did, what they said, what that season took from you. THE WORD FOR THE MEN: Cycles and Mental Health "This is not just a women's message. Black Men, hear this."For a man to walk into a godly marriage, a real covenant, a life with God at the center — the past has to stay in the past. Not just her past. His past too. Old mindsets about what a woman owes him Unhealed wounds from his mother, his childhood, his last relationship Patterns of control, avoidance, or emotional absence. You cannot lead a woman into her EZER if you are still spiritually and emotionally living on a street that God already told you to leave "We have to talk about mental health in our community without stigma. Unhealed trauma does not stay quiet. It shows up as rage, withdrawal, patterns of choosing the same unhealthy people, or tolerating what we know is wrong because at least it feels familiar." Lot's wife chose the familiar destruction over the unfamiliar freedom. That is what unhealed trauma does. It makes the burning city feel safer than the open road. Encourage your listeners: Therapy is not weakness — it is housecleaning for the mind. You cannot love someone well from a place of deep wounds. Wickedness and unchanged behavior are patterns, not personalities — but they must be named.

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   19 May 2026

   The Art of the Quiet Storm: Listen w/ Intent ( The Mystery in the Noise and Blended)

   Dear Podcast Listners, Listen intensely to the words closely. I apologized, I am obedient, and because I have recorded by myself and clean with AI, its a little distorted and I will be working on fixing in hopes it will be cleaned properly. Here is the transcript: So, right about now? Come on in to the Podcast. Welcome Back. Where Are Your Diamonds? This segment is Where Are Your Diamonds University? The Art of The Chase. Be his peace. Why, be his peace? The bible explained in Proverbs 31:18, because a woman of God, will know she is not tradeable and profitable, you create vaule and not confusion with arguing, his calm with a resolute or he will resolved on his own. The lamp in the bedroom with his sexual desire for you does not go off, turn silence and your mystery with your profit - your apperance, all the noble things which makes Proverbs 31, especially, 29, explains- why you are the precious rubies. Recording explains about Florida, Representative Mia Jones, she spoke softly with her words, lawmaking decision in the laws and it other pause and listen and would not speak over her- your tone, your posture, your presence, has helped with Jacksonville, Florida, because she added vaule in her field of entitty. Captivate him, figure him out- not like Basbethba- the getting to know is everyday, real chemistry- for only your Ezer anoiting. Mary- this woman, didnt have any gifts, she was assigned a husband named Joseph and a powerful child - Jesus. Esther- this woman, her assignment was her beauty, to helped her people, she didnt have a husband, but her importance was her Uncle Morcedai and her wisdom to listen to God for the right timing lihe marriage- in this season. Ruth- this woman, her counsel is her mother, she confidently explained about marriage, she was noticed- she was outside, laboring, he found her- this assignment is different- God is his timing for women seeking God. Rebekah-this woman, she was married to Abraham, she only was assigned due to the promised for her son and her story- it was laws. Hosea & Gomer - this woman, assignment, she restore Isreal, allowed Hosea to listen and obey to return his wife for the greater good of wicked ways turning to righteousness- the assigned had her children names, God assigned people to be fulfilled for mankind for earth now to return back to holy people. India Arie expressed a song called " I see the God in YOU"- I wonder about these woman India Aria, her songs are so beautiful with meaning. The GOD, our god is powerful - mighty (Elohim), ( Number 23:19, our God is The Lord, (Exodus 6:2-3)he is divine person, our God wil provide our real needs,( Genesis 22:13-14), (Yahweh Shalom) our God is our peace. Judges 6:24.Yahweh Shammah, The Lord is There ( Ezekiel 48:35) God should be assigning you to one man which has the names of God, which these men should know God is the source.

3. 

   14 May 2026

   Prayer and Clarity for ALL OF US: Where Are Your Diamonds?

   Why are we still holding on to things that are quietly destroying us? We live in a time where there’s already enough weight—stress, illness, financial pressure, uncertainty. Yet many of us are still carrying unforgiveness, pain, and past experiences that continue to drain us. The question is… why? Is it fear of letting go? Is it the belief that if we release it, we lose control? Or is it deeper—struggling to trust that healing won’t leave us empty? Unforgiveness doesn’t just affect the heart—it affects the body, the mind, and the way we move through life. And at some point, we have to ask ourselves: is holding on protecting me, or is it harming me? And then there’s faith. Why is it sometimes difficult to believe that God will bring restoration after loss? That after hardship, something good can still come? We’ve seen challenges—especially within our communities. Economic hardship, job loss, shifting systems. It can shape how we see ourselves, how we see relationships, and what we believe we deserve. Some begin to question: Will things really get better? Can people truly grow and change? Is a healthy, stable, God-centered relationship still possible? But here’s the truth: what we’ve experienced can influence us, but it doesn’t have to define what’s possible. Releasing doesn’t mean forgetting. It means choosing not to let the past control your future. And believing again doesn’t mean ignoring reality. It means allowing space for something different to exist. So today, the real question is: What are you holding onto… that it’s time to release? Because healing, peace, and even love—require room to enter. And sometimes, that room is created the moment we finally let go.

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   13 May 2026

   Episode: Two Sister Foundling: The Story of Lust and Trafficking- Exploitation of Black Women

   ⚠️ Warning — How BET, mainstream media and music have normalized the sexualization of Black women, feeding soul ties and trafficking spirits without people even realizing it. 💔 Romantic Heart — A direct word to men, women and couples about redirecting desire back to what God created it to be — sacred, honoring and free. 🌱 Hope — The Father's call back to restoration, healing and freedom — no matter how far anyone has wandered. 👂 Parents — A powerful charge to be the ear and the heart for their children before the culture finishes the conversation for them. 5 Clear Instructions given: Go directly to God in prayer — Jeremiah 33:3 Renew your mind daily — Romans 12:2 Break every soul tie — Galatians 5:1 Protect what enters your home — Psalm 101:3 Know who you are — rooted in identity Anchored in 1 Peter 2:9 — declaring that God's chosen reformation over Black people is not accidental — it is appointed. The spirit was never meant to be exploited. It was meant to praise, glory and it all belongs to God. What is foundling? A unwanted sexual touch for sexual gratification. Why is foundling apart of the Ezekiel Chapter 23? The youth were founded by lust men, which provided no guidance to explained or correct, the youth continue with the spirit and added more spirit with sexual of lust for powerful men which lead to wick and harmful death. It can controversial, with the mindset of sick people, sexual recovery center, feeling with sexual desires with doing the act- it was here and the bible doesnt tell his how to cure- we can continue to use reading the bible, therapy, prayer and discernment- but prevention comes with guarding our hearts and our children minds- breaking cycles with open truth discussion- it is overturnable. God's all-knowing nature is grounded in 2 Chronicles 16:9 and Hebrews 4:13 — reminding listeners that nothing has slipped past Him and He is already moving his glory.

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   12 May 2026

   Lovers of Self: What is the Definition?

   The opposite definition of Lovers of Self: Deuteronomy 8:18- a person which isn't honoring God with their wealth, not worshiping God, praising God for their blessing, not obeying GOD. Acts 5 : 1- 5 Ananias and Sapphira, it explains about two pastor ( woman and man) couple,purchased a property. The couple did not sow a seed for the church, an ultimately did not give the earning to God. The husband life was seized first, then Peter became an person of interest to speak to Sapphira, she had to partake in death with her husband- due the holy spirit- not allowing the couple or love themselves with property- not lied to God- own a land- without acknowledging in PSALM 24, God gives it us to enjoy and understand we Satan could used you for material possession and forget GOD. Remember there always the wicked and Peter watching every step. In addition, Pharoah love ruling, love gold and fine wine, money and to take the poor and not provide proper earnings. A modern performer, which had a long-decade of songs, TV Shows, and his lover of himself, shows with his faunting behavior and mistreatment with money and people. Act of Deceit: Money for Life. 30 pieces of silver for Jesus not the cross. Jannes and Jambre: Lover of Self: Not following Moses Leadership " 2 Timothy 3:8" ( Just as Jannes and Jambre opposed Moses, so also these men oppose the truth- men of depraved minds, who, as far as the faith is concerned, are rejected. Men of Deprived Minds:

6. 

   7 May 2026

   The Sodom & Gomorrah Story: I just want A Quickie?

   Genesis 19: 24-25 ( Anger Men, Fire and Punishment: Why the Sodom & Gomorrah Biblical document is a modern day Genesis of sin for men of color. Disobedience with the word of God, for (1) man, (1) woman, with the sin of disobedience continue in every book - this Biblical document has not been healed, it has layers of unhealed people, unsaved, unready for the questions of Sodom and Gomorrah. The why men are showing behaviors to marry- the Men didn't want the young virgins- they preferred to be angry, itchy for sexual desire with men instead. Why, these men are not spoken about in the church, your house, in certain songs of men singing about love without a ring or relationship with godly intent? We hide in our community. We must pray and read the scriptures. It doesn't have to a godly man in church, online, but its important for the timing to unlock God desire and to protect yourself from Sodom & Gomorrah spirit. Allowed us to pray alone- without speaking harm- in public- for their healing with God and therapy.

7. 

   6 May 2026

   Men of God Heart: Episode 4

   Men of God’s Heart: Episode 4 In this episode, we define what a true man of God looks like in relationships—not by culture, but by scripture. From Daniel (Daniel 6:12–13), who remained consistent in prayer despite pressure, we learn that a real man stands on conviction, not convenience. Elijah (1 Kings 17–18) shows provision, respect, and care—serving the widow of Zarephath with honor, meeting urgent needs, and trusting God even in lack—demonstrating that a man of God does not exploit a woman’s vulnerability but protects and uplifts her. Cornelius (Acts 10:2) models generosity and leadership, reminding women that a man prepared for partnership gives, serves, and honors God first. Enoch (Genesis 5:24; Hebrews 11:5) lived a life so pleasing to God that he did not experience death, showing that a man’s daily walk matters more than performance. Benjamin (Genesis 42:4; 44:20) reflects favor and protection, teaching that a man connected to family and legacy values what God has given. Solomon (1 Kings 3:9; 4:30–31) sought wisdom over wealth, establishing that a man’s true success comes from God-led decisions, not just provision. David (1 Samuel 13:14; 2 Samuel 6:14) was a worshiper a fighter, and obedient to God’s voice—imperfect, yet chosen—reminding us not to idolize flaws but to recognize a heart postured toward God. Joseph (Genesis 39:9; 41:16; 50:20) exemplifies integrity, restraint, forgiveness, and purpose—honoring God, respecting authority, and remaining faithful even when unseen. And Job (Job 1:9–10) reveals that a righteous man maintains his reverence for God through loss, pressure, and testing. This episode challenges women to discern: a man of God is not just what he says—he is how he lives, provides, prays, leads, and honors God when no one is watching.

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   5 May 2026

   Episode 5: Wicked Men of (Today) Modern Society

   In this episode, we expose how wickedness can show up in relationships through manipulation, control, and spiritual misalignment. Satan- Satan (Matthew 4:1–11; Isaiah 14:12–15) represents the origin of rebellion—testing God Himself and attempting to distort identity and purpose—reminding us that not every connection is sent by God, some are assignments to test your obedience Tobas- Nehemiah ( Chapter 4: 1,- 4) reflects hidden harm before commitment, showing that discernment is necessary when a man’s past or patterns signal danger, even if emotions are involved. Saul-Saul (1 Samuel 18:8–11; 31:4) reveals jealousy and insecurity—men who compete with you, resent your growth, and allow evil to consume them can become destructive, even to themselves. Pharoah - Pharaoh (Exodus 5:2; 8:32) represents control—men who refuse to “let you go,” exploiting your time, body, or finances, keeping you in cycles God is trying to free you from. Jonah (Jonah 1:3–5) shows avoidance and misplaced responsibility—men who run from God will bring confusion into your life and involve others in their disobedience. Jonah- Jonah (Jonah 1:3–5) shows avoidance and misplaced responsibility—men who run from God will bring confusion into your life and involve others in their disobedience Judas- Judas (John 12:4–6; Matthew 26:14–16) teaches that proximity does not equal purity—he walked with Jesus yet betrayed Him, showing that some men gather information, gain trust, and later weaponize it for harm. Herod- Herod (Matthew 14:6–10) demonstrates reckless, transactional behavior—valuing pleasure, image, or temporary satisfaction over life itself, like men who make destructive decisions for ego or attention. This episode calls women to discernment: wickedness is not always loud—it can be charming, strategic, and patient—but a man’s actions will always reveal his spirit.

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   11 Nov 2025

   Episode 4: The Canaan Sprit : Domestic Violence

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10. 

    6 Nov 2025

    Episode 3: The Confirmation Checklist

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11. 

    6 Nov 2025

    Episode 3: Coffee First Date w/ Potential Godly Man

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    6 Nov 2025

    The Pre- Accurate Interview

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    6 Nov 2025

    Episode 3: Dig Deeper Than The Surface

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14. 

    5 Nov 2025

    Full Report: Communication and Biblical Relationship Takeway

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    5 Nov 2025

    Episode 2: Accountability ( Mother and Son)

    Section 2: The Mother-Son Dynamic - Rebekah and Jacob Now let's look at another relationship that teaches us important lessons - the story of Rebekah and Jacob. This shows us how crucial maternal accountability is in preparing sons for godly relationships. Mothers, listen carefully: it's essential that you establish accountability for your sons at an early age. This preparation should cover their values formation, financial responsibility, emotional maturity, and building resilience. You're preparing them for godly courtship and marriage. But Rebekah made critical mistakes that we need to learn from. She had a favorite - Jacob - and she elevated him above both God and her husband Isaac in her priorities. This favoritism led to enabling destructive behavior. Jacob had serious character issues. He consistently wanted his way, even when it was unearned. He stole Esau's birthright through deception. Later, he had two wives but only loved Rachel, creating family dysfunction. His manipulative tendencies were rooted in patterns his mother allowed to develop. Instead of standing firm against Jacob's stealing and manipulation, Rebekah actually supported his wrongdoing. She failed to consult with her husband about their son's behavior and even helped Jacob deceive his father to obtain the blessing. The consequences were severe: Jacob had to flee from home, family dysfunction continued for generations, and there were ongoing issues within his bloodline.

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    5 Nov 2025

    Episode 1: Seeking God in Courtship, Marriage and Where The Relationship Went Wrong

    Section 1: The Beginning - Adam and Eve Let's start at the very beginning with God's design for relationships. When God created Adam, He said something profound: "It is not good for man to be alone." This wasn't just about companionship - God was establishing the foundation of marriage: one man for one woman. He created Eve as Adam's perfect partner, and we see the first courtship and marriage in human history. But things went wrong, and we need to understand why. The breakdown in Adam and Eve's relationship reveals critical lessons about communication and obedience that we still need today. First, there were serious communication failures. When the serpent approached Eve with deception, she lacked the listening skills to recognize the lie. She failed to remember and heed God's clear instructions about staying away from that forbidden tree. But here's the most important part - Eve did not confide in her husband about the temptation she was facing. Now, Scripture doesn't give us all the details about where Adam was during this time, but here's the principle: we should wait patiently for both God's guidance AND our partner's counsel before making major decisions. Hasty decisions made under outside influence can be incredibly destructive - just like Proverbs 21:9 warns us about. The fruits of their disobedience were devastating: suffering within their marriage, the introduction of sin into the world, and ongoing challenges in raising children, including dealing with wickedness.

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    4 Nov 2025

    Where Are Your Diamonds: Introductory Season 1

    Where Are Your Diamonds? - Episode 1: Introduction Welcome to Where Are Your Diamonds? [INTRO MUSIC FADES IN AND OUT] [INTRO MUSIC FADES IN AND OUT] Hi there, and welcome to "Where Are Your Diamonds?" I'm the Creator, Santanna Tiara Dickens, but you can call me Tiara. Growing up, my uncle called me "Beau" or "Tiara," and in high school, my best friend would play Dru Hill's "Beauty Is Her Name" because he said it captured my essence. But today, I want to talk to you about a beauty that runs much deeper. God's Daily Reminder [PAUSE] For the past year and six months, God has been sending me the sun every single day as a reminder—not just for me, but for all of us Black women—that He sees our amazing existence. We were created for so much more than what the world tells us. Our inner and outer beauty? That's the very foundation of earth's strength. We were formed from Adam's rib while he slept with divine purpose, as Genesis 2:21-22 tells us. We are living examples of God's first institution of marriage, called to honor Him and listen for His instructions. Now, scripture doesn't give us a dating manual or courtship guidelines, but Genesis makes one thing clear: God said it wasn't good for man to be alone. He created woman for relationship. Has it been perfect? No. But that's exactly what we'll explore together in future episodes. The Story Behind the Name Let me tell you how "Where Are Your Diamonds?" came to be. Picture this: It's mid-afternoon in June, the hottest day you can imagine in Mississippi. I'm rushing into the post office, trying to mail credit dispute letters to all three bureaus—for the fourth time, mind you—armed with even more documentation. The year is 2025, and I'm still fighting with TransUnion with mailed documents. I'm stressed, sweating, wearing gym shorts, and honestly just trying to handle my business. That's when this older gentleman—well-dressed, well-spoken, clearly established—turns around, looks me up and down, and asks with genuine confusion: "Where are your diamonds?" His face showed shock, puzzlement, like he couldn't understand why a woman like me wasn't adorned with jewels. He saw something in my feminine presence that I had forgotten to see in myself.

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    4 Nov 2025

    Podcast Trailer: God Desire for Godly Marriage

    The instrumental and voice explained the necessary empowerment to learn and discovery why God desire " Godly Marriage", provides insight on a few sneak peak topics and analysis of Episode 1.

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