Where's the Lemonade?

About Where's the Lemonade?

They say when life gives you lemons you should make lemonade. Making lemonade is not always easy or possible. For us, we found ourselves single in our 40's with kids at home and starting life over again. Luckily we found each other, online no doubt. When we began blending families, schedules, traditions, and laundry, we discovered lots of lemons. Our podcast is a reflection on how we get through the hard times and enjoy the good times on our new journey together, all with ten kids in tow. Sometimes when life gives you lemons, you make lemon squares. Lemonade might come later.

Publisher

Darren & Paige Pulsipher

Category

kids & family · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

20 Feb 2019

Latest episode

18 Jul 2024

Latest episodes

114 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   18 Jul 2024

   #6.12 Men are from Mars, Women from Venus Part 2

   On the latest episode of "Where's The Lemonade?", hosts Darren and Paige found themselves delving into the intricate terrain of gender differences, specifically relating to cognitive and behavioral attributes. Armed with a curious spirit and armed with an engaging quiz, they navigated the topic like explorers charting unknown waters. Tackling the TV Remote Control Conundrum The friendly debate started with a discussion about the ease of using a TV remote control. It was suggested that, twenty years ago, men might have confidently claimed victory in this regard, but nowadays the debate was not as conclusive. However, the Darren and Paige acknowledged that their personal frustrations with the remote control could also be linked to individual quirks and temperament rather than gender differences. The Intricacies of Handcraft The conversation then shifted to discussing intricate handcraft skills, on which there was almost unanimous agreement. Overall, women have traditionally demonstrated excellent fine motor skills that are applicable in this area. However, the hosts acknowledged several significant exceptions to this norm that challenge stereotypical gender roles. One surprising revelation was the male host's exceptional ability to untangle complex jewelry chains, a task that many people might assume women would be better at due to their generally superior fine motor skills. Problem Solving or Just Venting The conversation shifts to a topic that almost everyone can relate to - problem-solving. They emphasize that sometimes people aren't looking for solutions, but simply want to express their concerns. Being listened to can bring relief and give us a fresh perspective on how we deal with difficulties. The quiz results lead to better-mutual understanding, emphasizing the significance of recognizing and respecting each other's differences. A distinct instance was their sharing of an unexpected 'Lemonade' moment of being stuck on an airport tarmac. Initially a source of frustration, this 'lemon' experience eventually morphed into a relaxed and rejuvenating 'lemonade' moment. Lemonade Moment of the Week Darren gets stuck on an airplane on the tarmack in Chicago waiting 4 hours for a storm to pass. He finds time to disconnect from the world and relax. Links https://www.2-in-2-1.co.uk/images/mr/marrquiz.pdf Quiz 1. Is the basic brain pattern that we have from conception male or female? 2. Who are more likely to be colour-blind – men or women? 3. Who have better spatial awareness? 4. How do women shop? 5. How do men shop? 6. Whose skin is more sensitive to touch – man's or woman's? 7. Who feel the cold more? 8. Who are better at reading body language? 9. Who are better at distinguishing between high-pitched noises? 10. Who are better at identifying from where sounds come? 11. Who have the lower pain threshold? 12. Who are better able to discern salty or bitter tastes? 13. Who are better able to discern sweet tastes? 14. Who have the finer sense of smell? 15. Who have more brain cells? 16. Who use only the left side of the brain for speech? 17. Who are better at languages? 18. Who are better at maths? 19. Who find it easier to read while listening and talking? 20. Whose brain is more compartmentalised? 21. How does a woman get rid of problems from her mind? 22. Who use more words in a day? …. 23. and by what rough proportion? 24. What chief purpose do men see in the telephone? 25. What chief purpose do women see in the telephone? 26. Who are able to speak and listen at the same time? 27. When a man has a problem what does he do? 28. What does a woman need to do when reading a map? 29. Who find it easier to use a TV remote control? 30. Who are better at intricate handcraft? Quiz Answers 1. Is the basic brain pattern that we have from conception male or female? All brains are initially female, but for males it changes from six weeks after conception and men's brains develop differently. Because men's brains change there is more potential for wider extremes of brain capabilities. Therefore more men are likely to be geniuses or mentally handicapped. 2. Who are more likely to be colour-blind – men or women? Over 10% of men are at least partially colour-blind. Very few women are. 3. Who have better spatial awareness? Men. So they find it easier to park a car or to reverse it. 4. How do women shop? They find shopping relaxing, rejuvenating - trying on different clothes. It can be unstructured and it does not need a definite outcome. (This does not apply to food shopping though!) 5. How do men shop? Men shop with definite objectives and a timetable – the quicker the better. 6. Whose skin is more sensitive to touch – men's or women's? Women's – their skin is thinner; also they have an extra layer of fat beneath it, which adds to beauty in youth and wrinkles in old age. 7. Who feel the cold more? Men – because they lack that layer of fat. But because of it women have the greater problem with hot temperatures. 8. Who are better at reading body language? Women. 9. Who are better at distinguishing between high-pitched noises? Women. 10. Who are better at identifying from where sounds come? Men. 11. Who have the lower pain threshold? Men – except when focussed on a physical task or sporting activity. 12. Who are better able to discern salty or bitter tastes? Men – which is why they like beer. 13. Who are better able to discern sweet tastes? Women – hence chocholics. 14. Who have the finer sense of smell? Women. 15. Who have more brain cells? Men – approximately 4 billion more than a woman. 16. Who use only the left side of the brain for speech? Men. Women use both sides. 17. Who are better at languages? Women. 18. Who are better at mathematics? Men. 19. Who find it easier to read while listening and talking? Women. 20. Whose brain is more compartmentalised? Men. At the end of a busy day a man's brain can file his problems away. 21. How does a woman get rid of problems from her mind? By talking about them – the objective is not necessarily to find solutions but to discharge the problems. 22. Who use more words in a day? …. Women. 23. and by what rough proportion? Approaching three times the words of men.

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   27 Jun 2024

   #6.11 Men are from Mars. Women from Venus Part 1

   Paige finds a Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus quiz online and Darren and Paige take the quiz and reveal some interesting differences between men and women. Revealing Our Distinctiveness Through A Lighthearted Lens It is often hard to understand what your wife or husband really wants, thinks, needs, feels or does. This quiz is light-hearted but informative; it is useful to get a better understanding of each other – and to bring you closer together. In many of the questions information is used which is generally true of either men or women. But if it is not true of you, that is because all people are different in many ways; it does not mean you are less of a man or a woman. The questions do, however, usually help you to understand each other and, if necessary, identify where you may be differing. Do the quiz on your own - only compare when you hear the answers! Enjoy the quiz! See the quiz below. It’s a Brainy Affair! It may surprise you to know that our brains are initially identical. That's right; every brain begins as a female brain until it is transformed around the sixth week of conception. Thereafter, the male brain develops quite differently, resulting in a broad range of cognitive capabilities. The humble female brain, however, is significant in its own way, often leading to a rich complexity of thought and feelings. Remember, variety is the spice of life! Shattering Some Stereotypes From a young age, we’ve often heard that men are better at spatial reasoning. But does this talent make us ladies any less adept? Absolutely not! It could make us more cautious, but then, a smidge of caution never did anyone any harm! Interestingly, it's the men who are more color blind due to genetic inheritance. Guess that's why we women get to enjoy an endless spectrum of colors, right? Let’s Talk Personalities People often believe that men and women think, behave, and navigate the world in completely different ways, influenced by our upbringing or societal pressures. However, when it comes to common interests and bonding, it can be a fascinating blend of Mars and Venus. Ever seen a man equally mesmerized by a clothing sale as a woman, or a woman equally excited about a gadget like a man? It happens! Wrinkles & Vinkles! Finally, let's touch on a topic close to most women's hearts: ageing and wrinkles. While we often lament that men age like fine wine and we women just age, here’s the silver lining. Women have a layer of subcutaneous fat beneath their skin, which makes it more sensitive and supple. Despite this leading to wrinkles in later life, it all adds beautifully to our radiant glow! While we've treaded a lighthearted path here, it's essential to remember that we are all unique in our own way. Understanding our differences can lead to stronger bonds, healthier interactions, and much more understanding between the sexes. So, why not embark on this journey of discovery together? To learn more about our beautiful differences and similarities, don't forget to check out the latest episode of our “Where's The Lemonade” podcast. Feel free to share the post and spread the love! And don’t forget, we’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences too. Lemonade Moment of the Week Rachels birthday today, she was trying to decide if she was going to take the kids out to dinner or get take out. They had some funny comments. Happy birthday Rachel! Links https://www.2-in-2-1.co.uk/images/mr/marrquiz.pdf Quiz 1. Is the basic brain pattern that we have from conception male or female? 2. Who are more likely to be colour-blind – men or women? 3. Who have better spatial awareness? 4. How do women shop? 5. How do men shop? 6. Whose skin is more sensitive to touch – man's or woman's? 7. Who feel the cold more? 8. Who are better at reading body language? 9. Who are better at distinguishing between high-pitched noises? 10. Who are better at identifying from where sounds come? 11. Who have the lower pain threshold? 12. Who are better able to discern salty or bitter tastes? 13. Who are better able to discern sweet tastes? 14. Who have the finer sense of smell? 15. Who have more brain cells? 16. Who use only the left side of the brain for speech? 17. Who are better at languages? 18. Who are better at maths? 19. Who find it easier to read while listening and talking? 20. Whose brain is more compartmentalised? 21. How does a woman get rid of problems from her mind? 22. Who use more words in a day? …. 23. and by what rough proportion? 24. What chief purpose do men see in the telephone? 25. What chief purpose do women see in the telephone? 26. Who are able to speak and listen at the same time? 27. When a man has a problem what does he do? 28. What does a woman need to do when reading a map? 29. Who find it easier to use a TV remote control? 30. Who are better at intricate handcraft? Quiz Answers 1. Is the basic brain pattern that we have from conception male or female? All brains are initially female, but for males it changes from six weeks after conception and men's brains develop differently. Because men's brains change there is more potential for wider extremes of brain capabilities. Therefore more men are likely to be geniuses or mentally handicapped. 2. Who are more likely to be colour-blind – men or women? Over 10% of men are at least partially colour-blind. Very few women are. 3. Who have better spatial awareness? Men. So they find it easier to park a car or to reverse it. 4. How do women shop? They find shopping relaxing, rejuvenating - trying on different clothes. It can be unstructured and it does not need a definite outcome. (This does not apply to food shopping though!) 5. How do men shop? Men shop with definite objectives and a timetable – the quicker the better. 6. Whose skin is more sensitive to touch – men's or women's? Women's – their skin is thinner; also they have an extra layer of fat beneath it, which adds to beauty in youth and wrinkles in old age. 7. Who feel the cold more? Men – because they lack that layer of fat. But because of it women have the greater problem with hot temperatures. 8. Who are better at reading body language? Women. 9. Who are better at distinguishing between high-pitched noises? Women. 10. Who are better at identifying from where sounds come? Men. 11. Who have the lower pain thr...

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   13 Jun 2024

   #6.10 Having kids now vs 20 years ago

   Darren and Paige have 4 grandkids. 8, 5, 3 and 6 months. They are so fun to be around and it is so fun to see our kids be parents. They were just talking about how so much has changed since they had babies. From childbirth, what to feed your babies, how to raise them, parent involvement etc.. Let’s explore the differences and see if these differences are for the better or …. Medical Advances Prenatal Care and Screening: * Then: Limited prenatal screening options; basic ultrasound and some genetic tests. * Now: Comprehensive prenatal screenings, including non-invasive prenatal testing (NIPT) for genetic conditions, 3D/4D ultrasounds, and detailed anomaly scans. Fertility Treatments: * Then: Basic fertility treatments like IVF were available but less refined. * Now: Advanced reproductive technologies, including improved IVF techniques, egg freezing, and genetic screening of embryos. Birth Practices: * Then: More routine use of episiotomies, less emphasis on natural birth, 1 in 20 births were c section * Now: Greater emphasis on natural and personalized birth plans, midwifery, and doulas; increased options for pain management and labor support.1 in 5 births are c section. Technology Information Access: * Then: Reliance on books, limited internet resources, and advice from family and friends. * Now: Extensive online resources, parenting apps, telemedicine consultations, and virtual support groups. Monitoring and Gadgets: * Then: Basic baby monitors, fewer technological aids. * Now: Smart baby monitors with video and health tracking features, wearable devices for babies, and smart nursery equipment. Societal and Cultural Changes Parental Leave: * Then: Shorter and less comprehensive parental leave policies in many places. * Now: Improved parental leave policies in many regions, with some countries offering extended and paid leave for both parents. Work-Life Balance: * Then: More traditional roles with often one parent staying at home. * Now: Increased focus on work-life balance, remote working options, and more fathers taking active roles in child-rearing. Lifestyle and Parenting Trends Parenting Styles: * Then: More authoritative and traditional parenting styles. * Now: Emphasis on gentle parenting, attachment parenting, and positive discipline. Health and Safety: * Then: Basic safety guidelines and fewer regulations. * Now: Stringent safety standards for baby products, awareness of safe sleep practices (e.g., back-to-sleep campaign), and more focus on mental health. Financial and Economic Factors Cost of Raising a Child: * Then: Lower overall costs, but fewer resources to manage expenses. * Now: Higher costs associated with childcare, education, and healthcare, but more financial planning tools and resources. Economic Conditions: * Then: Different economic pressures, often influenced by regional economic stability. * Now: Current economic challenges, such as housing costs and student loan debts, affect family planning decisions. These differences highlight the evolution in healthcare, technology, societal norms, and economic conditions that impact the experience of having and raising a child today compared to 20 years ago. Lemonade moment of the week: David is gone we miss him. But he is working hard trying to become a state lifeguard. Links https://www.takingcharge.csh.umn.edu/how-has-childbirth-changed-century ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★ (https://www.patreon.com/wheresthelemonade)

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