Why are you like this? Is what Michelle and Amber always ask each other when a hard topic turns into giggles and ugly laughs. Join us as we talk about life, love, family, careers, and more. Available on Spotify and Apple Podcast! Subscribe for NEW EPISODE alerts.
This episode of Why Are You Like This? is the first in a series meant to be published during Suicide Awareness Month, September 2024. These next few episodes are a recorded sit down with my old friend, Dwayne Sanders. *It’s going to be difficult to hear me-I was unable to fix my audio.-but Dwayne’s amazing storytelling is captured and heard loud and clear. Listeners should be advised: these episodes mention suicide, suicidal ideations, drug use, and erratic behaviors. Please consider your current mental wellness before listening. If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts or a crisis, please reach out immediately to the Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800.273.8255. Please find more resources below:
- Call or text 988- Chat at 988lifeline.org (https://988lifeline.org/)Suicide Prevention Resources | Suicide Prevention | CDC (https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/resources/index.html)I've lost someone | AFSP (https://afsp.org/ive-lost-someone/)
International Survivors of Suicide Loss Day | AFSP (https://afsp.org/international-survivors-of-suicide-loss-day/)
1 Jan 2024
S2E1: Ummmm….
It’s been a year since WAYLT was first launched in 2023 with Amber and Michelle. So much has changed and I’m here with the update I promised. It’s just me, Amber for today and I need your grace as the episode is a bit of an emotional one. I say ummmm quite often too. Don’t forget to follow WAYLT on IG and set your alerts on Spotify or Apple Podcasts so you don’t miss 2024’s episodes! If you or someone you know needs crisis or suicide intervention : text or dial 988 or go to 988lifeline.org.
18 Sept 2023
Episode 12: Crucial Conversations
Have a listen to the final episode of the first season. Michelle and I talk about the importance of having crucial conversations and Michelle gives us a major tip on saving for Beyoncé tickets! I’ll have to come back and add the links for more tips on difficult conversations later, ya’ll.
4 Sept 2023
Episode 11: Get to know your (former) co hosts
I’m wrapping up the first season with some left over previously recorded episodes. Michelle and I had a great time with this one. Keep in mind, this was recorded in February. Enjoy!
30 Jun 2023
Episode 10: God bless these 20 somethings…
What would a conversation look like between who you are now and who you were in your 20s? Have a quick listen to Amber and Michelle as they discuss some tips they’d give themselves or any younger adult.
28 Jun 2023
Bonus: Where have you been?
I know it’s been a minute- just let me explain. Have a quick listen. As mentioned in this episode here is a resource if you or someone you know needs crisis or suicide intervention : dial 988 or go to 988lifeline.org.
8 Apr 2023
Episode 9: Balance, Baby!
Just like you, Amber and Michelle have a lot on their plates. Whether you’re an entrepreneur, professional and graduate student, parent, or astronaut, I’m sure you’ve had some issues with balancing expectations and life. Listen to us chat about our intentions and perceptions of what balance looks like. Head on over to our poll when you’re finished and let us know your thoughts!
8 Apr 2023
Episode 8: Bitches and Hoes….
It’s not what you think, Amber just likes to cuss. Michelle and Amber briefly chat about behaviors and habits they want to change and/or revisit in 2023. While this was recorded at the top of the year, anytime is a good time for self assessment and awareness, right? We get real, but as usual, we get silly. Enjoy a listen and chime in on our Poll for this episode!
17 Mar 2023
Episode 7: If you don't reflect, you won't get wet!
Have you tried abstinence? Abstinence is often joked about, ridiculed, and seen as a challenge-for participants and those who are trying to date them. Amber and Michelle chat about their journeys with abstaining from having sex including reasons for abstaining, and benefits of locking it up. Listen and then let us know if you've tried it, are currently abstaining, or maybe you are currently dating someone who wants to give other avenues of intimacy a try.
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Helpful links mentioned on this episode:
https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/abstinence (https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/abstinence)
https://www.ohsu.edu/womens-health/benefits-healthy-sex-life (https://www.ohsu.edu/womens-health/benefits-healthy-sex-life)
https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/guide/sex-and-health (https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/guide/sex-and-health)
https://www.instagram.com/p/CmSsVUir3ak/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=embed_video_watch_again (https://www.instagram.com/p/CmSsVUir3ak/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=embed_video_watch_again)
7 Mar 2023
Meet The Council: V-Day Episode
If we’re being transparent, life has kept us pretty busy and our episodes are a little late. But this episode is a treat as it introduces you to “The Council”. You might not call your crew by this name, but you know who they are. The Council is your voice of reason, your online shopping group, your virtual huggers and life cheerleaders in different area codes. Even hyper-independent women, have someone or 4 to call on for advice. Enjoy more cackling as we sat down and connected from DFW to San Diego, and discussed Valentines Day and more. Let us know if you want to hear more from our guest hosts, Renee and Krista!
7 Mar 2023
Episode 5: It is not okay to slap your boss.
Today’s conversation touches on workplace green and red flags. Michelle and Amber have both worked in a variety of spaces and have experienced both toxic cultures, and healthy, thriving work cultures-just like you. Have a listen and then head on over to Spotify to leave us a voice note with your quick story of either the best or worst place you’ve worked at. We’d love to share it on another episode and our IG!
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Links to articles and quizzes we referenced:
https://www.careercontessa.com/advice/toxic-work-environment/
https://www.mind-diagnostics.org/toxic_workplace_workplace_health-test
https://seriouswomen.com/lifestyle/6-green-flags-non-toxic-workplace-culture/
https://joinhandshake.com/blog/students/employer-green-flags/
3 Feb 2023
Episode 4: Baby, you've changed.
In episode 4, Michelle and Amber discuss navigating seemingly trivial changes individuals make to themselves or their lifestyle when in a serious relationship. We evolve, naturally as humans. What if you don't like the direction your spouse is heading? New hair, new body, new hobbies or even a new religion....does it make sense to have deal breakers and non-negotiables related to these possibilities? Have a listen and then drop some feedback on our socials or leave us a voice note
20 Jan 2023
Episode 3: I love 'em all.
In episode 3, Amber and Michelle take a dive into the shallow waters (for now) of ethical non-monogamy. Not only is this hard to spell, it's a topic that's hard to cover in just one episode. Have a listen to this chat, then head on over to our Instagram to let us know your thoughts. We really want to dig in more in the near future and would love to know if you've read any of the materials, or have experience in enm and want to give some insight into this. Like, share, comment and review wherever possible (on Spotify). Leave us a voice note and we might feature it on our IG!
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Links to articles and books that were helpful introductions to the topic:
https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/ethical-non-monogamy-guide
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Non-monogamy
https://youtu.be/uaKGfQoYNFs
https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/everyone-top/202206/is-ethical-non-monogamy-right-you
The Beginner’s Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy: The Who, What, Where, When and Why of Ethically Non-Monogamous Relationships by Bronwyn Bickle
Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Non monogamy by Jessica Fern
1 Jan 2023
Episode 2 Hygiene…You Don’t Smell That?
Amber and Michelle talk about anything and this time, it’s a humorous discussion on hygiene. Sit back and laugh with your girls but shower first, PLEASE. We want to hear from you. Leave us a voice note on Spotify and we'll pick a few to to share on our social media. What are your hygiene tips? Share your funny, helpful or embarrassing hygiene moments! Any men listening today? We'd love to add you to the conversation, but watch it Mister.
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IG:@whyarulikethispod
Twitter: WAYLTpodcast_
Here are the links we mentioned in episode 2:
https://www.cdc.gov/hygiene/personal-hygiene/index.html
https://www.pharmacytimes.com/view/many-americans-do-not-follow-proper-health-hygiene-practices
https://www.qualitylogoproducts.com/blog/health-hygiene-confessions-americas-filthiest-cities-revealed/
https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/showering-daily-is-it-necessary-2019062617193
1 Jan 2023
Girl, we should start a podcast!
It's our first time at this so bear with us. We're giving a mini-introduction to who we are and we're immediately diving into a discussion on using dating apps. Have you used them? Which one is your favorite? Did you find a forever love, a stalker or an sti? Feel free to give us your feedback after hearing about our experiences. We'd love to put your voice notes on our social media.
Follow us on Instagram and Twitter:
IG:@whyarulikethispod
Twitter: WAYLTpodcast_
Here are the links we mentioned in the episode:
https://www.zdnet.com/article/best-dating-app/
https://www.abcactionnews.com/sponsor-generated-content/best-dating-sites
https://www.cloudwards.net/online-dating-statistics/
20 Dec 2022
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Why are you like this? Is what Michelle and Amber always ask each other when a hard topic turns into giggles and ugly laughs. Join us as we talk about life, love, family, careers, and more.
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20 Dec 2022
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