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Exploring the behaviours that shape our relationships, with ourselves and with others 💬 ‘Why Do I…?’ is a podcast about the behaviours and patterns that show up in our relationships, and what happens when we start to notice them. Hosted by Tom Stroud, the series follows on from Why Do Men, which explored male behaviour in dating and relationships. This season broadens the lens, moving away from expert advice around specific behaviours like ghosting and jealousy towards lived experience across all kinds of relationships.

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May 11, 2026

Why Do We Stay in Relationships That Are Killing Us? Tom's Reflection

We're told staying is loyalty. So we hold on, hoping things will improve. Tell ourselves "it's not that bad." But after my full conversation with Dr. Amir Levine, I've been reflecting on something deeper…Insecure relationships age you nine months per person, on a cellular level. That's not theory. That's your body keeping score.Maybe discomfort isn't the cost of commitment. Maybe it's a warning.Maybe asking for what you need isn't weakness. Maybe it's the only thing that saves you.If leaving scares you… ask whose voice is telling you to stay.Connect With Us 👇 Pod: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/whydoiofficial/?hl=en">https://www.instagram.com/whydoiofficial/?hl=en</a> Tom: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/stroudtom/?hl=en">https://www.instagram.com/stroudtom/?hl=en</a> Grab Amir's new book Secure here: <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Secure-Attachment-Transform-Relationships-bestselling/dp/1529976162">https://www.amazon.co.uk/Secure-Attachment-Transform-Relationships-bestselling/dp/1529976162</a> Take the attachment quiz at <a href="AmirLevineMD.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">AmirLevineMD.com</a> 💎 Part of the <a href="I.A.M Podcasts roster" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">I.A.M Podcasts roster</a> #WhyDoI #AttachmentTheory #AmirLevine

May 4, 2026

Why Do I Feel So Insecure In My Relationships...? Dr. Amir Levine

Dr. Amir Levine is a psychiatrist, neuroscientist, and bestselling author of Attached - the book that became the internet's go-to guide for understanding relationships. His new book Secure picks up where it left off.We're told some of us are just "clingy." Some of us are just "distant." That's who we are. So we blame ourselves and keep repeating the same patterns. If a missed text can ruin your day… If you pull away the second someone gets close… If you keep ending up in the same kind of relationship…This episode is for you.EPISODE CHAPTERS:00:00 – How Insecure Relationships Age You06:17 – The Anxious-Avoidant Trap12:32 – Why Avoidants Get a Bad Rep21:27 – Where Attachment Styles Really Come From28:51 – The CARP Method for Dating34:14 – Wall Tennis With Love43:10 – Gut Instinct vs. Anxious Spiral52:57 – One Piece of Advice for Each Attachment Style Connect With Us 👇Pod: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/whydoiofficial/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.instagram.com/whydoiofficial/?hl=en</a>Tom: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/stroudtom/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.instagram.com/stroudtom/?hl=en</a>Liv: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/livnevill/?hl=en-gb" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.instagram.com/livnevill/?hl=en-gb</a> Grab Amir's new book Secure <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Secure-Attachment-Transform-Relationships-bestselling/dp/1529976162" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">here</a> Take the attachment quiz at <a href="AmirLevineMD.com" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">AmirLevineMD.com</a> 💎 Part of the<a href="https://iampodcasts.io/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer"> I.A.M Podcasts</a> roster #WhyDoI #AttachmentTheory #AmirLevine

April 27, 2026

Tom's Reflection: Why Do We Fear Getting Older?

We’re told getting older means losing value. So we chase youth like it can save us. Tell ourselves we’re “still young.”But after my full conversation with Poorna Bell, I’ve been reflecting on something deeper…Aging isn’t the problem. The story we’ve been sold about aging is.Because some people hit 40, 50, 60… and become more themselves than ever.More certain. More grounded. Less interested in performing for everyone else.Fear says your best years are behind you. But often your best years begin when you stop trying to prove anything. Maybe wrinkles aren’t decline. Maybe they’re evidence. Maybe slowing down isn’t failure. Maybe it’s wisdom replacing urgency. And maybe the people most afraid of aging, are the ones who never learned how to live now.If getting older scares you… ask whose voice that really is.Because it might not be yours. OH YEAH! Before You Go - Connect With Us On Socials 👇Pod: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/whydoiofficial/?hl=en" target="_new" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/whydoiofficial/?hl=en</a>Tom: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/stroudtom/?hl=en" target="_new" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/stroudtom/?hl=en</a> 💎 This Show Is Part Of The I.A.M Podcasts roster

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What is Why Do Men Podcast?: Exploring the behaviours that shape our relationships, with ourselves and with others 💬

‘Why Do I…?’ is a podcast about the behaviours and patterns that show up in our relationships, and what happens when we start to notice them.

Hosted by Tom Stroud, the series follows on from Why Do Men, which explored male behaviour in dating and relationships. This season broadens the lens, moving away from expert advice around specific behaviours like ghosting and jealousy towards lived experience across all kinds of relationships.
How often does this podcast release new episodes?: This podcast updates daily.
Where can I listen to this podcast?: This podcast is available on 7 platforms including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and more. You can also use the RSS feed directly.
Does this podcast accept guests?: Information about guest appearances is not available.

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