"Wife Support" is a lighthearted podcast about queer marriage, grown-up gay life, and all the messy, magical stuff in between. Co-hosts & wives of each other, Amanda and Kaycee Conlee, have honest, funny, and way-too-relatable conversations about queer relationships and adulthood.
Kaycee and Amanda are diving into love languages and unpacking how queer relationships fit into the framework that can often feel a little heteronormative. They talk about the ways they give love, receive love, and adapt the “rules” to work for their marriage.
Plus, What’s Gayer? is back! Vote in Kaycee’s IG stories @kayceeconlee.
7 Apr 2026
15 - How to Fight Better
Kaycee and Amanda are talking about the one thing every healthy relationship has: fights. From avoiding low blows to taking breaks that actually help, they share the hard-earned lessons that help them fight better, not just louder.
Plus, this week’s What’s Gayer? is back! Vote in Kaycee’s IG stories @kayceeconlee.
17 Mar 2026
14 - Who's Who?
Kaycee and Amanda put their relationship to the test with a round of “Who’s Who?” — who’s more spontaneous, who’s the better cook, and who’s most likely to lose their phone (again). It’s equal parts sweet, revealing, and lightly incriminating. Plus, this week’s What’s Gayer? gets personal!
Vote in Kaycee’s IG stories @kayceeconlee and DM us who you think is who!
24 Feb 2026
13 - Shared Hobbies
Kaycee and Amanda are back with a fun dive into shared hobbies! They chat about the ones that stuck, the ones that didn’t, and why trying new things together keeps their connection strong. Plus, a fresh round of What’s Gayer! Vote on Kaycee’s IG stories @kayceeconlee
10 Feb 2026
12 - Getting a Puppy
Kaycee and Amanda dive into the adorable (and fluffy)! The wives talk about adopting a puppy. They cover what to know before you adopt, the trials, tribulations, and joys of puppyhood, plus some personal stories. And, as always, a new What’s Gayer!
Follow and vote on what's gayer on IG @kayceeconlee and @aconlee22
27 Jan 2026
11 - Our 40th Year
Kaycee and Amanda are turning 40! Hear how they plan to celebrate, what they think of their first 3 decades, and how their life compares to what they thought it would look like. Plus, some great dilly dallying and a new What’s Gayer!
Follow and vote on what's gayer on IG @kayceeconlee and @aconlee22
13 Jan 2026
10 - New Year's Resolutions
Kaycee and Amanda ring in the new year talking about resolutions, goals, and the pressure to be better. Plus, a new What’s Gayer!
Vote in Kaycee’s IG stories @kayceeconlee and DM us your resolutions, even if you've already abandoned them.
18 Nov 2025
9 - Mental Health & Anxiety
Kaycee and Amanda get candid about mental health, anxiety, and trying to stay sane in 2025. From panic attacks and people-pleasing to therapy, routines, and coping mechanisms, the wives open up about how they support themselves and each other when things get overwhelming. Plus, this week’s What’s Gayer: sharing the same first name with your partner or having a very strong opinion about who killed Jenny Schecter.
Vote in Kaycee’s IG stories @kayceeconlee and DM your own anxious habits—we promise we won’t tell your therapist.
11 Nov 2025
8 - Italy
Kaycee and Amanda are back from Italy! In this ep, the wives are recapping their gayest (and most chaotic) moments abroad, and what they learned about traveling together. Plus, this week’s What’s Gayer? has you choosing between 2 things they actually did!
Vote in Kaycee’s IG stories @kayceeconlee and DM your own gay travel tales!
14 Oct 2025
7 - Travel
Kaycee and Amanda talk travel — from their top trips to the gayest packing habits. Enjoy the ups and downs that come from one of them being a spreadsheet queen while the other is more “we’ll figure it out when we get there.” Plus, this week’s What’s More Gay (Gayer)?: renting a U-Haul vs. an eyebrow ring.
Vote in Kaycee’s IG stories @kayceeconlee and DM your own gay travel hacks!
7 Oct 2025
6 - Household Quirks
Kaycee and Amanda face off over the thermostat, dishwasher, and all their household quirks! From lights left on to “soaking” dishes, they confess their biggest everyday pet peeves and how they keep the peace! Plus, this week’s What’s More Gay? (brought to you by Amanda): wearing a carabiner keychain or checking your astrology compatibility before you agree to a second date?
Vote in Kaycee’s IG stories @kayceeconlee and DM your own household fights!
30 Sept 2025
5 - Long-Distance Dating
Kaycee and Amanda talk long-distance! From marathon calls to airport goodbyes and cross-country trips, they share their long-distance dating story and what they learned before finally living in the same city. Plus, this week’s What’s Gayer?: flying cross-country for 36 hours together vs. falling asleep on FaceTime.
Vote in Kaycee’s IG stories @kayceeconlee and DM your own gay long-distance moves!
23 Sept 2025
4 - Queer Money
Kaycee and Amanda talk money! From splitting the bill on dates to merging finances after marriage (yes, there's a prenup story), they dig into spending, saving, and making financial decisions as a couple. Plus, this week’s What’s Gayer?: flannel at a Brandi Carlile concert vs. driving a Subaru to a Sparks game.
Vote in Kaycee’s IG stories @kayceeconlee and DM your own gay money moves!
16 Sept 2025
3 - Gay & Grown-Up Friendships
Kaycee and Amanda talk about friendship! From high school cliques to intentional adult friendships, they unpack how besties change across life stages, how they each approach friendship, and why it’s okay when friendships fade. Plus: What’s Gayer? Matching outfits or strangers asking if you’re related.
Vote in Kaycee’s IG stories @kayceeconlee, and slide into the DMs with your own friendship red flags and methods for keeping in touch.
15 Sept 2025
Wife Support Trailer
A lighthearted podcast about queer marriage, grown-up gay life, and all the messy, magical stuff in between. Join co-hosts & wives of each other, Amanda and Kaycee Conlee, for honest, funny, and way-too-relatable conversations! Follow @kayceeconlee on IG for exclusive Wife Support content!
9 Sept 2025
2 - Gay at Work
Kaycee and Amanda discuss “How gay is too gay for the office?” From first-day jitters to navigating bias, microaggressions, and figuring out when (and how) to come out at work, they unpack what it means to prove yourself while queer on the job. Plus: this week’s What’s Gayer? face-off — PTO for Pride v. the REI lunch tote.
Vote along and follow in Kaycee’s IG stories @kayceeconlee, and slide into the DMs with your own gay-at-work confessions.
2 Sept 2025
1 - Codependent or Gay?
Kaycee and Amanda ask the big question: “Are we codependent or just gay married?” From women’s magazine “red flags” to the way queer relationships get misread by straight culture, they unpack what healthy intimacy looks like and where their own boundaries get tested. Plus: The first-ever What’s Gayer? showdown.
Vote along (and follow) in Kaycee’s IG stories @kayceeconlee, and slide into the DMs with your own relationship confessions.
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