一档由非常规闽南人静静个人主持的私人播客，Kay也是我～
在闽南语中： 「虾米」就是「什么」， 「虾米鬼」就是「什么玩意儿」， 你也可以“信达雅”地将它理解为what the hell!
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一档由非常规闽南人静静个人主持的私人播客，Kay也是我～ 在闽南语中： 「虾米」就是「什么」， 「虾米鬼」就是「什么玩意儿」， 你也可以“信达雅”地将它理解为what the hell!
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May 9, 2026
职场背刺、丧仪生死，以及我们爱恨交织的土地｜闽南独生女在阿嬷离世后的春日对谈
<h2>👭🏼本期主播 & 嘉宾</h2><p>静静（Kay）：90头，泉州市区独生女</p><p>大头：90末，晋江独生女（一种非常罕见的生物）</p><p></p><h2>🎙️本期简介</h2><p>距离上一期播客已经过去了一年半。</p><p>在这个意外漫长的春天里，大头带着“职场被背刺”和“奶奶去世后经历的闽南农村丧葬风俗”两个话题，与我展开了第一次隔空云录制。</p><p>从职场上的明争暗斗，到丧葬仪式里对女性的规制，亲戚们的重男轻女言论；从“如果我有个兄弟姐妹就好了”的短暂念头，到对三十岁的幻想与祛魅。两个在闽南土地上“罕见”的无神论独生女，聊了聊宗族、生死，还有这片土地给予的枷锁与力量，以及那些终究要靠自己想通的成长课题。</p><p>农村里那场持续九天的葬礼，让大头跪出了膝盖的淤青，也看到了阿嬷那一代女性在重重风俗中沉默而坚韧的一生。巧合的是，近期引起热议的电影《给阿嬷的情书》，让无数年轻人在影院落泪。对于大头来说，阿嬷没有留下情书，只留下了那些在繁琐仪式里、妇女闲话中，被孙女重新读懂的人生。</p><p></p><h2>⏱️时间轴</h2><p><strong>Part 1：职场背刺——「我差在不会出轨吗？」</strong></p><p><a class="timestamp">03:18</a> 绩效C的荒诞：出轨女拿了B，心机boy拿了A</p><p><a class="timestamp">07:58</a> 被拉拢、被套话、被利用——“我以为我们是朋友”</p><p><a class="timestamp">09:02</a> “我奶奶去世了”与不假思索的“节哀”</p><p><a class="timestamp">10:29</a> 跟父母聊出社会规则，跟朋友聚会“原来大家都过得’不好’，那我就放心了”</p><p><a class="timestamp">15:55</a> 关于弯路与主观能动性——走出困境的真正能力</p><p><strong>Part 2：闽南丧葬风俗——「葬礼是办给整个村子看的」</strong></p><p><a class="timestamp">17:30</a> 持续9天的丧葬仪式：死人还要挑日子，每日打卡，混乱失序的流程</p><p><a class="timestamp">21:52</a> 荒诞又疲惫的“招灵”：学动作，绕村走，跪到淤青，看道士演闽南语小品</p><p><a class="timestamp">23:20</a> “你看吧，生儿子这个时候就挺好的吧”——无处不在的男本位与重男轻女</p><p><a class="timestamp">30:10</a> 村口碎嘴的妇女们：那些以“生儿子”为最大荣耀的上一辈</p><p><strong>Part 3：“如果有个兄弟姐妹就好了，但那样我就不是我了”</strong></p><p><a class="timestamp">35:22</a> 看到爸爸失去母亲，“担子在我一个人身上”的真实感与瞬时转念</p><p><a class="timestamp">39:15</a> 祖辈去世早，计算父母失去父母的年龄，大半夜在帖子里哭成一团</p><p><a class="timestamp">41:18</a> 情绪上做不到，但理智上知道——很多事情终究要靠自己走出来</p><p><strong>Part 4：关于三十岁、生死与我们的成长</strong></p><p><a class="timestamp">42:53</a> 亲历年轻的同辈人离开，生命无常的具像化</p><p><a class="timestamp">43:56</a> 三十岁的幻想：“程又青式”的成熟 vs 孔雀发色和仍会哭鼻子的自己</p><p><strong>Part 5：闽南这片土地——枷锁与力量</strong></p><p><a class="timestamp">49:37</a> 闽南的封建让我们想逃离，家庭的羁绊又把我们拉回来</p><p><a class="timestamp">50:42</a> 对家乡自豪感的诚实解构：也许那些力量，本就是我们自身生出的</p><p></p><h2>🎵本期音乐</h2><p>魏如萱 《彼个所在》</p><p></p><p>💬这期我们聊了90后闽南独生女面对的职场、家庭与生死观。无论你是独生子女，还是在一个有很多兄弟姐妹的家庭长大，或者你也有被传统与现代两种力量拉扯的经历，都欢迎在评论区分享你的故事或看法。</p>
November 21, 2024
福建户籍含金量最高的一集：久违啦金门！我的快乐老家还好吗？
Kay姐 and 大头妹妹 embark on a nostalgic journey to Kinmen Island, exploring its hidden gems and sharing candid insights into their experiences as Fujian residents navigating Taiwan's complex visa system.
December 8, 2023
从闽式婚恋 到普适性人际与自我｜90后和00前的爆笑漫谈
<p>一个对婚育毫无兴趣的90后非传统闽南女性，与两位接近00后的新一代闽南年轻女孩，就「婚恋」「交友」与「人际」「自我」展开的放飞闲聊。</p><p>INFJ当场教ESFP做人？虾米鬼啊！</p><p>00:22 返场！婚恋主题？？大胆开麦不要命啦～</p><p>07:00 你25岁着什么急……那顺便征个婚吧！</p><p>12:15 闽式相亲=大型HR，你有brief吗？</p><p>27:09 一个人可太好啦？？？？？？？？？？</p><p>42:23 生命不息内耗不止，高敏人的内心大戏是这样的</p><p>01:05:19 怎么办，我好像一个“理性恶人”……</p><p>01:07:19 啧！听听这让人“无法原谅”的松弛感～</p><p><strong>本期音乐：</strong></p><p>坏特 ?te 《Seh Ah Seh》</p>
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