¨Say whatever the Fxxx you wanna say¨
It is an audio documentary of my life journey.
Beautiful conversations with my friends, together learning while teaching, listening while talking!
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【Background Stories】
A short conversation with my friend, Danial, threw back 2020 and our outlook for 2021.
Hope everyone will have a great, happy, and safe beginning of a normal life that will come real soon!
【My friend】
Danial (Malaysia)
【Key points】
- ´Soaring high, crushing low´
- Lockdown with depression
- Being thankful for the pandemic
- ´Felt genuinely happy´
- The blueprints of 2021
【Background music】
Just two of us - Bill Withers
【Background Stories】
I do not know ever since when, to define my identity would be so difficult, and complex.
I have learned from a person who I got a match in an online dating app, and I can clearly remember that in his description goes: identity ambiguity. Due to the fact that he was living in different countries where culture, language, lifestyle is so apparently different.
I think this somehow special growing environment makes a person naturally much more interesting and unique. I am lucky to meet my best friend, Danial, in my master's course in Barcelona, together with talk about how we perceive identity growing up, and hope you would find it interesting and somehow related.
*there will be definitely tons of grammar or even logical mistakes involves since I am expressing not in my mother tongue, and hope you still try to enjoy and we always welcome advice!
【My friend】
Danial (Malaysia)
【Key questions】
- 3:00 how do we meet?
- 4:25 life backgrounds of Danial and how it leads to form his identity.
- 6:20 My life background and identity.
- 9:27 what are the contributions to be a world citizen.
- 10: 38 the importance of having a sense of empathy, compassion, and open communication.
- 11:44 the very first concept of ´cosmopolitanism´ brought by Diogenes.
- 13:00 other reason why we see ourselves as world citizens.
- 14:27 how do you feel now currently ´settle down´ in your own country, Malaysia, and the different lifestyle compared to past, which under continuing changing environment?
- 17:00 how do you cope when you are naturally being distinguished by the locals as foreigners?
- 19:21 ´I just don´t know much about Beijing even I am from there!´
- 21:05 how to form and practice this sense of being local?
- 23:10 it is important to have a Chinese identity or your national root?
- 25:06 the attitude towards nationalism under the peace age.
- 29:35 the factors that could have an effect on the changing of our identity.
- 30:29 the practical practice of being a world citizen.
- 33:35 ´I don´t think you would understand identity if you don´t live in a community´
- 37: 30 My identity also as teaching and educating, storyteller, and collector.
- 41:35 culture shock can also happen nationally.
- 42:30 ´I would rather say I am from the little town instead of Beijing or China.´
- 46:10 the good things about living in an international city.
- 48:00 Chinese identity under pandemic in a foreign country.
PLUS:
- 49:30 introvert and extrovert talk.
- 55:00 good balance of being a listener and expressor during any relationship.
- 58:00 my personal principle outweighs.
- 59:55 ´conversation is silver and silence is gold´.
【Background music】
I Think of You - Rodriguez
【Relevant Reading】
´Global Citizenship´ 2007, by Kwame Anthony Appiah
17 Dec 2020
Episode 001 LYNN ｜¨蹦迪女孩姐妹花¨的重逢
【背景故事】
在2020年的十月，我有机会联系到大学里我很欣赏的的一个¨辣妹子¨lynn林总，在19年的大四的我们从开发区泰达搬往市里的河西校区，从未在大学的前三年踏入酒精和舞池的世界的懵懂我们，靠烟雾缭绕，一杯杯伏特加和锤击耳膜的techno音乐开始了我们疯狂的一年，但最终我们毕业，曾经的蹦迪5人组，有人开始工作，有人开始新的学习，但同样的是，我们都在以不同的形式下成长，并且不断的靠近我们想要的生活方式和乐趣。
此期的目的便是，我作为一个依旧在学校环境下的学生对在社会上已工作的朋友的好奇发问.
【我的朋友】
Lynn 178林总 （照片中最性感海拔最高的那个辣妹）
【本期重点】
0:55 疫情下的生活
1:37 做播客的原因
3:51 未来的不确定性
5:02 开始变得无味的同学聚会
10:49 对于不健康关系说不
11:57 亲密关系中的关键
15:28 曾经R2姐妹的情感状况
19:03 疫情下的家庭关系
20:58 吵架是一种语言暴力
22:17 书的推荐 ´非暴力沟通´
24:08 ´the quality of your relationship determines the quality of your life´ by Esther Perel
27:02 当代的理想亲密关系
31:22 尚未选择一对一关系的原因
32:49 面对关系的不确定性
38:19 未来对工作的展望
40:27 从学生到社会人的变化
54:03 生酮饮食
56:36 曾经的party女孩现在的老年人作息
【相关资料】
《非暴力沟通》马歇尔·卢森堡
Quote by 情感咨询师 Esther Perel
【本期音乐】
be my baby - The Rosette
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