
XOXO, Your Tough Love Coach
Hosted by Alexis RM and Alexis and Your Tough Love Coach · Alexis Doss
5.0from 38 ratings
- 106
- Episodes
- 21
- Transcribed
- 38
- Ratings
- Bi-weekly
- Cadence
- 2022
- First episode
- 1K
- YouTube views
About XOXO, Your Tough Love Coach
Welcome to Burn It Down, a podcast for people who are done pretending things are fine. Hosted by Alexis Doss, life pivot and identity reinvention coach, these episodes are part pep talk, part truth serum, and all permission to walk away from the life that no longer fits. If you’re ready to stop performing and start becoming - light the match, and let’s go.
- Publisher
- Alexis Doss
- Category
- education
- Language
- en
- Explicit
- Yes
- First episode
- 19 Dec 2022
- Latest episode
- 29 Sept 2026
Latest episodes
21 of 106 episodes have a transcript.

29 Sept 2026TRANSCRIPT
Ep 105: Leo Raleigh on the mental load in relationships

28 Jul 2026TRANSCRIPT
Ep 104: LIVE Coaching Call with Bree Louise

7 Jul 2026TRANSCRIPT
Ep 103: My dog died. Here is what it made me realize about growth
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Ep 105: Leo Raleigh on the mental load in relationships
Published 29 Sept 2026 · Transcript excerpt
[…] And it just kind of felt like, well, I'm willing to put an effort for all my other relationships. But for you, I already got you. I already won you. We live together. We're married. Like, why do I have to try even harder? Yeah. Yeah. And I think that's what's really unfortunate is and this can happen across the gender spectrum. It's not just men. But when you're in these kind of dynamics, you don't see it until you're locked in. Like some of these colors really don't show until you have a house together or until you have children or pets or you're married. And. I think especially back to like the blame game, I get comments all the time from people that are like, well, you must have known. […]
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- Leo Raleigh
- Bree Louise
- Asher Hewitt
- Garrett Wood
- ALEXIS ROCKLEY MILLER
Reach and audience
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- YouTube views
- 1,241
- Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025
- Apple Podcasts (US)
- 5.0 / 5
- 10 ratings
- Spotify
- 5.0 / 5
- 28 ratings
Podcast Authority Score: 63 / 100
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- Quality
- 48
- Social presence
- 100
- YouTube
- 68
- Engagement
- 77
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Who hosts XOXO, Your Tough Love Coach?
Alexis RM and Alexis and Your Tough Love Coach host the show. Published by Alexis Doss.
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