Welcome to Burn It Down, a podcast for people who are done pretending things are fine. Hosted by Alexis Doss, life pivot and identity reinvention coach, these episodes are part pep talk, part truth serum, and all permission to walk away from the life that no longer fits. If you’re ready to stop performing and start becoming - light the match, and let’s go.
XOXO, Your Tough Love Coach
Claim This Podcastby Alexis Doss
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102 episodes
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Welcome to Burn It Down, a podcast for people who are done pretending things are fine. Hosted by Alexis Doss, life pivot and identity reinvention coach, these episodes are part pep talk, part truth serum, and all permission to walk away from the life that no longer fits. If you’re ready to stop performing and start becoming - light the match, and let’s go.
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Recent Episodes
May 27, 2026
PART 2 - The “He’s Not That Bad” Stayer & The Self Silencer
Host Alexis The Tough Love Coach explores the "He's Not That Bad" stayer and the self-silencer relationship patterns, offering insights for listeners to recognize and overcome settling.
May 12, 2026
Ep 100: PART 2- The Safety Seeker & The Bread Crumb Accepter
Host Alexis The Tough Love Coach explores the "Safety Seeker" and "Bread Crumb Accepter" relationship patterns, revealing how they keep high-achieving women stuck and what it truly costs them.
May 5, 2026
Ep 99: Are You In The "Good Enough Trap"?
<p>Nothing is technically wrong. He's not cheating. He's not abusive. But something feels off and you can't stop thinking about it.</p><p>That feeling has a name.</p><p>In this episode, I share the blind spot that kept me stuck in my marriage for years, the four patterns that keep high achieving women settling, and the question I wish someone had asked me before I wasted another year going in circles.</p><p>If something feels off: this episode is for you. And if it's not for you...send it to someone it is.</p><p>DM me @thetoughlovecoach and tell me which of the four patterns you think you are. 🖤</p><p>Use code PODCAST99 for $20 off The Good Enough Trap workshop → <a href="http://www.alexisthetoughlovecoach.com/the-good-enough-trap-376222">www.alexisthetoughlovecoach.com/the-good-enough-trap-376222</a></p>
102 total episodes available with 17 transcripts
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