Every week, Kate & Matthew talk about BL and bara. They dive into the tropes, what works, what doesn't, and why we're all so in love with reading messy, chaotic romances. From manga to manhwa and more, they go through it all.
Sometimes, the internet isn't forever.
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Where to Find us:
Matthew
- Bluesky: @matthewglenn.bsky.social
- https://bsky.app/profile/matthewglenn.bsky.social
- Website: DigitalDaydream.gay
Kate
- Bluesky: @ohmymithrandir.bsky.social
- https://bsky.app/profile/ohmymithrandir.bsky.social
- Instagram: @ohmymithrandir
- https://www.instagram.com/ohmymithrandir/
Music by Joshua Altman
- Bluesky: @crooknook.bsky.social
- https://bsky.app/profile/crooknook.bsky.social
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14 Sept 2026
63: Heartstopper TV Series & Movie
Somehow, it's even better than the webtoon!
Heartstopper
- Creator(s): Alice Oseman
- Chapters: Seasons 1-3 & Heartstopper Forever
- Where to watch it: Netflix
Where to Find us:
Matthew
- Bluesky: @matthewglenn.bsky.social
- https://bsky.app/profile/matthewglenn.bsky.social
- Website: DigitalDaydream.gay
Kate
- Bluesky: @ohmymithrandir.bsky.social
- https://bsky.app/profile/ohmymithrandir.bsky.social
- Instagram: @ohmymithrandir
- https://www.instagram.com/ohmymithrandir/
Music by Joshua Altman
- Bluesky: @crooknook.bsky.social
- https://bsky.app/profile/crooknook.bsky.social
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7 Sept 2026
62: Heartstopper
Why are we like this?
Heartstopper
- Creator(s): Alice Oseman
- Chapters: CH 1-7
- Where to read it: Webtoon
https://www.webtoons.com/en/canvas/heartstopper/list?title_no=329660
https://aliceoseman.com/heartstopper/
Charlie, a highly-strung, openly gay over-thinker, and Nick, a cheerful, soft-hearted rugby player, meet at a British all-boys grammar school. Friendship blooms quickly, but could there be something more...? *** Now available as physical books! Contains discussions about mental health, eating disorders, self-harm and sexual references – for more information on content warnings, visit aliceoseman.com.
Where to Find us:
Matthew
- Bluesky: @matthewglenn.bsky.social
- https://bsky.app/profile/matthewglenn.bsky.social
- Website: DigitalDaydream.gay
Kate
- Bluesky: @ohmymithrandir.bsky.social
- https://bsky.app/profile/ohmymithrandir.bsky.social
- Instagram: @ohmymithrandir
- https://www.instagram.com/ohmymithrandir/
Music by Joshua Altman
- Bluesky: @crooknook.bsky.social
- https://bsky.app/profile/crooknook.bsky.social
Visit https://butwhytho.net/support to subscribe and get access to our bonus tier list segment
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