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Have Relationships Become Too Transactional? | EP 05
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Hey Lovelies! ❤️
In Episode 5 of According To… with Temi Asenuga, we’re asking a question that I think a lot of us need to sit with: Have relationships become too transactional? 👀
Are we building genuine connections with people, or are we only showing up when there’s something to gain? From friendships to romantic relationships, we’re talking about reciprocity, expectations, keeping score, and whether we’ve started treating relationships like business deals. 😭
Is it wrong to expect people to show up for you the way you show up for them? Should every relationship be 50/50, or is love sometimes about giving without expecting something in return? ❤️
Grab a drink, get comfortable, and let’s talk!
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14 Oct 2026
GIRL CODE: Are There Rules to Friendship? 👀💋 | EP 04
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In this episode of According To… with Temi Asenuga, we’re getting into something every girl has probably had an opinion about at some point — GIRL CODE! 👀💅🏽
We’re talking about friendships, loyalty, boundaries, betrayal, and all those unspoken rules that apparently every girl is supposed to know. But are these rules actually common sense, or are we just making them up as we go? 😭😂
From dating your friend’s ex to keeping secrets, being a girl’s girl, and knowing when loyalty crosses the line, we’re getting into the conversations that might just have the group chat divided! 🤭
And of course, you already know Tea Time ☕️ is where things get even more interesting!
Grab a drink, get comfortable, and let’s talk! ❤️
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7 Oct 2026
I’m Only 22…. Why Do I Feel Like I’m Running Out of Time? | EP 03
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Hey Lovelies! ❤️
In Episode 3 of According To… with Temi Asenuga, we’re talking about something I feel like a lot of us in our 20s can relate to — feeling like we’re somehow running out of time even though we’re still so young 😭
I talk about the pressure to have everything figured out — school, career, relationships, money, content, life in general — and why it can feel like everyone else is moving faster than you.
We’re also getting into comparison, feeling behind, putting unrealistic timelines on ourselves, and learning how to give ourselves a little more grace while we figure life out. ❤️
Grab a drink, get comfortable, and let’s talk!
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I’m Only 22… Why Do I Feel Like I’m Running Out of Time? | EP 03 | According To…
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30 Sept 2026
Ayra Starr’s New Album + Relationship Red Flags 👀☕️ | EP 02
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Hey Lovelies! ❤️
In Episode 2 of According To… with Temi Asenuga, we start off talking about Ayra Starr’s new album — my thoughts, favorite moments, and everything I had to say about this new era 🎶👀
Then we get into Tea Time ☕️, and things get a little messy 😭 We’re talking relationships, red flags, and whether people really don’t see the signs… or just choose to ignore them 🚩😂
Grab a drink, get comfortable, and let’s talk!
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Ayra Starr’s New Album + Relationship Red Flags 👀☕️ | EP 02 | According To…
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24 Sept 2026
According To Who?
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New name, new era, same Temi. ❤️
Welcome to the very first episode of According to…! Before we get into all the conversations, opinions, guests, and occasional gossip to come, I figured we should start with the basics—who exactly is Temi?
In this episode, I’m answering some get-to-know-me questions, talking about who I am, why I started this podcast, and what you can expect from According to…. And because I can never just stick to one topic, we’re getting into a little conversation afterward too. 😂
This is just the beginning, and I’m so excited to have you here.
That’s according to me… what’s it according to you? 🎙️❤️
23 Sept 2026
EP. 01 — So… Who Is Temi?
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EP. 01 — So… Who Is Temi?
New name, new era, same Temi. ❤️
Welcome to the very first episode of According to…! Before we get into all the conversations, opinions, guests, and occasional gossip to come, I figured we should start with the basics—who exactly is Temi?
In this episode, I’m answering some get-to-know-me questions, talking about who I am, why I started this podcast, and what you can expect from According to…. And because I can never just stick to one topic, we’re getting into a little conversation afterward too. 😂
This is just the beginning, and I’m so excited to have you here.
That’s according to me… what’s it according to you? 🎙️❤️
17 Jan 2025
Opening Up About Depression: My Journey and Advice for Healing | EP 02
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