Yes Girl? Hell No!

About Yes Girl? Hell No!

Yes Girl, Hell No is the unapologetic, faith-filled podcast for women who are done settling, done people-pleasing, and ready to reclaim their power. Hosted by Coach Vivica B, this show is a soul-snatching mix of real talk, spiritual wisdom, healing, humor, and glow-up energy. Each episode is a reminder that soft doesn’t mean weak—and boundaries are vital to living your best life. If you’re navigating toxic cycles, rediscovering your voice, or building your next level life, you’re in the right place. Let’s pivot with purpose and say Yes to what aligns—and Hell No to what doesn’t.

Publisher

Vivica Fishburne

Category

society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

19 May 2025

Latest episode

13 Aug 2026

Latest episodes

12 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   13 Aug 2026

   I Don't Owe You a Yes

   I spent so much of my life saying YES to everyone else that I got really good at saying NO to myself. No to my needs. No to my time. No to my peace. No to the things I actually wanted. And eventually, I realized that constantly being available, accommodating, and willing to make everyone else happy was leaving me depleted. So I decided something: It’s Yes Girl Season. But not the kind of Yes Girl you might think. This season, I'm saying YES to me. And that means saying HELL NO to anything that requires me to abandon myself just to make someone else comfortable. I'm talking about people-pleasing, boundaries, depletion, guilt, self-respect, and what happens when you finally decide that your happiness and well-being matter, too. Because saying NO to everyone else doesn't make you selfish. Sometimes, it's the first time you've finally said YES to yourself. Welcome to my Yes Girl Season. 🩷 Connect with Vivica Nichelle 🎙️ Podcast: Yes Girl, Hell No 🌐 Website: YesGirlHellno (https://yesgirlhellno.com/) 📚 Books, speaking & more: Visit my website (https://a.co/d/0b83iayj) 🎤 Speaking Engagements: YesGirlHellno (https://yesgirlhellno.com/) 📩 Business & Collaboration Inquiries: hello@yesgirlhellno.com Want to bring Vivica to your event, podcast, panel, or organization? For speaking engagements, media appearances, collaborations, and business inquiries, email: hello@yesgirlhellno.com

2. 

   7 Jul 2026

   Pivot Chapter: The Cost of Staying Comfortable

   What if the biggest thing standing between you and the life you've been praying for...is comfort? In this episode of Yes Girl Hell No!, we're continuing The Pivot Chapter—a series dedicated to navigating the uncomfortable seasons that often lead to our greatest transformation. We'll unpack: ✨ How comfort can quietly become a prison ✨ Why fear often disguises itself as "wisdom" ✨ What it really means to trust God before you have all the answers ✨ Why growth and comfort can never fully coexist ✨ The hidden cost of staying where you've outgrown I'll also share pieces of my own journey—from letting go, healing, writing my book, returning to school, launching this podcast, and stepping into opportunities before I felt completely ready. Every major breakthrough in my life started with one uncomfortable decision. And I'll leave you with one question that might just change everything: What's costing you more right now...changing or staying the same? If you're in a season of transition, uncertainty, or God is calling you to something greater, this conversation is for you. 🎙️ New episodes every Tuesday. Because around here... We say YES! to the woman we're becoming... And HELL NO! to anything that's keeping us from her. #YesGirlHellNo #Podcast #WomenOfFaith #PersonalGrowth #HealingJourney #Pivot #Purpose #FaithOverFear #SelfDevelopment #ChristianWomen #Transformation #Becoming #PersonalDevelopment

3. 

   30 Jun 2026

   The Cost of Not Choosing You

   n this episode of Yes Girl, Hell No!, I'm sharing one of the most personal conversations I've had with myself. From walking away from a relationship I believed could have been my forever, to ending a 10+ year friendship, choosing celibacy, healing after breast cancer, and preparing to relocate to a new city, I've discovered that growth isn't always about holding on—sometimes it's about having the courage to let go. We'll talk about self-abandonment, boundaries, discernment, healing, and why choosing yourself isn't selfish, it's alignment. This episode also introduces my Chapters Framework, a journey of transformation that reminds us that becoming the woman God created us to be doesn't happen overnight. It happens chapter by chapter, decision by decision, and one courageous "hell no" at a time. If you've been struggling to let go of your old identity, or a version of yourself that no longer fits, this conversation is for you. Remember... Sometimes the greatest act of self-love is letting go. Sometimes it's having the courage to turn the page.

4. 

   6 May 2026

   God’s Plan in the Pivot: Finding Purpose When You’re Rerouted

   Have you ever avoided a path because the "stairs" looked too steep? In this episode of Yes Girl? Hell No!, Vivica explores the divine mechanics of the pivot. Vivica breaks down why the exits we take in life aren't mistakes—they are recalculations toward our true abundance. In this episode, we discuss: Climbing the Stairs: Overcoming the mental hurdles that keep us from the beautiful discoveries waiting on the other side of our "No." Nature’s Sacred Shift: Why the trees don’t panic when they lose their leaves. Learn how to honor your own "winter" as a necessary season of retreat before your next bloom. The GPS Mindset: Why the voice that says "recalculating" isn't a voice of judgment, but a guide leading you to the heart of your purpose. The Jordan River Shift: How Jesus transitioned from being a "plain ole carpenter’s son" to fulfilling His destiny by accepting the shift. Stop playing it safe in the park and start navigating the pivot that leads to your breakthrough.

5. 

   14 Apr 2026

   Be Still and Become Her: How I Started Manifesting the Healed, Higher Me

   In this soul-shifting episode of Yes Girl, Hell No, we’re talking about releasing the exhausting cycle of over-explaining, over-giving, and over-functioning. Coach Vivica B is diving deep into what it really means to stop settling for bare minimum energy and start showing up as the woman you know God already created you to be. Let this episode be your permission slip to move differently. You’ve spent too long explaining your worth to people who were never ready to receive it. You’ve bent over backwards trying to convince folks of your value, all while quietly breaking your own heart. But here’s the truth: when someone shows you they don’t have the capacity to love you, support you, or pour into you the way you pour into them… believe them. Don’t chase closure. Don’t argue with disrespect. Don’t keep watering wilted flowers. Release them—in peace. This episode is for the woman who’s realizing that healing isn’t just about letting go of toxic people—it’s about shifting your motion. It’s about catching yourself in those patterns and choosing a new frequency. It’s about getting so aligned with your highest self that you no longer even recognize the version of you who tolerated crumbs. Vivica shares how her own journey of transformation began with a divine stillness. A new kind of power. Not hustling. Not proving. Just being. She reveals the sacred moment she discovered that God wasn’t just someone in the sky—but someone within. That the same God who said “Be still and know that I am God” is the one whispering through you right now, calling you to show up softer, smarter, stronger—and still. Inside this episode: The real reason you keep attracting half-hearted people Why over-explaining is rooted in trauma and how to break the habit How to release others with grace while reclaiming your power The shift from proving to embodying A raw reflection on what it means to manifest your higher self right now—not someday A spiritual reminder that you are already worthy, already chosen, already enough You don’t have to do the most to prove you’re valuable. You don’t have to beg to be seen. When you realize that God lives in you, you start moving different. You start becoming her—the healed, happy, peaceful version of you who don’t chase, don’t settle, and don’t explain. So if you're ready to stop explaining your magic and start embodying your miracle, press play. Follow @coachvivcab on Instagram Visit: yesgirlhno.com Blog: Yes Girl? Hell No! | Book: Yes Girl? Hell No! (coming soon)

6. 

   7 Apr 2026

   The Beauiful Hush: Why I had to Be Still

   The Beautiful Hush: Why I Had to Be Still Healing isn’t linear, and it’s definitely not a one-time event. It’s an emotional, ongoing process that requires you to show up on time, even when it hurts. In this highly personal comeback episode, Vivica sits down for a raw, soulful conversation about the last two years of spiritual transitions, and the grueling work of reconstruction, both of the body and the spirit. In this episode, we’re diving into: The "How" Trap: Why our need for data and instructions actually creates the anxiety that keeps us from resting. The Power of the Stand-Off: A deep testimony from a "sister" that reveals why silence is sometimes the only weapon you need to win the battle. Signing the Title Deed: The moment Vivica decided to stop "investigating" God’s goodness and finally let Him take the wheel.

7. 

   14 Jul 2025

   The Pain Does Not Disqualify The Purpose

   🎙️ Episode 6 – The Pain Does Not Disqualify the Purpose In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Coach Vivica B. opens her heart like never before. Fresh from placing the first printed copy of her book into her 88-year-old grandmother’s hands—her best friend, her birthday twin—Vivica takes us on a soul-stirring journey of reflection, faith, and resurrection. She shares the pain behind the purpose: from major surgery and financial strain to walking through the valley in silence while still creating, producing, and showing up. With raw emotion and Holy Spirit fire, she reminds us that our most painful seasons are not punishments—they are preparation. Jesus was stripped, humiliated, and crucified—but He never abandoned His assignment. And just like Him, you are still called. Still chosen. Still powerful. This episode will make you cry, shout, and reflect. It’s a reminder that the pain you endured did not disqualify you—it activated what God already placed inside you. ✨ Affirmation of the Week: “I am not disqualified by my pain. I am qualified by my resilience. My purpose is unfolding—even in the dark.” 💭 Final Question: Now that you’ve bared the cross… are you finally ready to rise?

8. 

   8 Jul 2025

   Radical Honesty & the Purpose You Can’t Fake

   Sis… are you tired of pretending everything’s okay just to keep the peace? In this raw and powerful episode, Coach Vivica B. gets radically honest about what it really takes to discover your purpose. Spoiler alert: You can’t fake your way into alignment. You’ve got to stop performing and start telling yourself the truth. We’re talking about: Why purpose can’t exist without honesty The lies we tell ourselves to survive Breaking cycles of pretending What it actually feels like to align with the woman you were born to be You’ll hear a soul-shaking snippet from Vivica’s new book Yes Girl? Hell No! and close out with an affirmation and a journal prompt to help you uncover the truth you’ve been avoiding. It’s deep. It’s healing. And it’s necessary. Because your real life starts on the other side of radical honesty.

9. 

   8 Jul 2025

   Sis, You Don’t Have to Prove You’ve Changed—Just Be Her

   You don’t have to explain your evolution. You don’t owe anyone a breakdown of your healing, your growth, or your glow-up. In this episode, Coach Vivica B. is coming from under the covers and straight from the heart to remind you: Just BE her. The healed her. The soft her. The “I don’t chase, I attract” her. No more overexplaining. No more convincing folks you’ve changed. The people who get it—get it. And the ones who don’t? They were only clapping for your old self anyway. ✨ Featuring a soul-stirring affirmation and a powerful journal prompt to anchor your growth, this episode is for every woman who’s tired of performing her progress. Baby, let them watch. Your only job is to walk in it.

10. 

    19 May 2025

    Capacity Check: What They Can’t Give, Let Go Of

    In this real, raw, and necessary episode, Coach Vivica B takes you straight to the heart of one of the hardest truths you’ll ever have to accept on your healing journey: It’s unfair to expect from someone what they simply do not have the capacity to give. Whether it’s love, support, consistency, vulnerability, or emotional maturity—if a person doesn’t have it, you won’t be able to pull it out of them, no matter how much you give, pray, or pour. And holding onto the hope that they’ll one day change keeps you stuck in cycles of disappointment and emotional starvation. In today’s Journal Pump reflection, Vivica pours from a deeply personal place. She speaks life over herself, forgives the version of her who accepted crumbs, and reminds herself—and YOU—that surviving isn’t the same as thriving. That showing up for others while running on empty isn’t strength—it’s self-abandonment. You’ll hear her affirmations, her truth, and the moment she stopped begging for bare-minimum energy from people who were never meant to sit at her table. Inside this episode: Why it hurts to accept someone’s lack of capacity—but why it’s necessary How to stop repeating the cycle of expecting more from less What it looks like to forgive yourself for trying so hard The freedom that comes from releasing people in peace How to fill your own cup and recognize when yours is being drained This is your reminder that you’re not asking for too much. You’re just asking someone who doesn’t have it to give. And that’s not your fault—it’s your wake-up call. So take a deep breath, press play, and let this episode guide you out of unrealistic expectations and back into divine alignment. You deserve more than potential. You deserve presence. Follow @coachvivicab on Instagram Visit: yesgirlhno.com Book coming soon: Yes Girl? Hell No! Blog: Yes Girl? ...Hell No!

11. 

    19 May 2025

    Writing Myself Free: How I Turned My Story Into Strength

    In this intimate and soul-baring episode, Coach Vivica B opens up about how writing became her sanctuary, her survival, and her spiritual breakthrough. Writing Myself Free isn’t just about journaling—it’s about letting the pen become your permission slip. To feel. To release. To process the pain. To reclaim the parts of yourself that life, trauma, and toxic love tried to silence. Vivica shares how, after leaving a toxic relationship, she stopped telling her story for sympathy and started writing it for her own salvation. Every word on the page became a declaration. Every sentence, a soft rebellion. Through this process, she discovered that true healing doesn’t start when others validate your story—it starts when you do. This episode is for every woman who’s ever felt locked inside her own silence. For the ones who’ve carried everyone else while suppressing their own truth. For the strong ones who are finally ready to be soft, open, and real. You’ve spent enough time being quiet. Now it’s time to write yourself free. Inside this episode: How writing helped Vivica process heartbreak, trauma, and spiritual confusion The power of storytelling as self-liberation, not performance How to stop waiting for someone else to “get it” and start healing for yourself Why your truth doesn’t need a filter or finesse—it just needs your permission Creating a sacred, private writing practice to connect with your spirit Vivica breaks it all the way down—from late nights with her journal to deep realizations that changed the way she showed up for herself. She reminds you that healing isn’t always loud. Sometimes it’s soft. Sometimes it’s ugly. Sometimes it’s just you, a pen, and God. Because your story is holy. Your words are powerful. And even the parts of your past that felt messy or shameful are still worthy of being seen—especially by you. So if you’ve been hiding behind your strength, stuffing your feelings, or struggling to figure out “what’s next”—this episode will meet you where you are. It’s time to speak life. To feel safe in your truth. To write your way home to yourself. Follow @coachvivicab on Instagram Visit: yesgirlhno.com Book coming soon: Yes Girl? Hell No! Blog: Yes Girl? Hell No!

12. 

    19 May 2025

    Me Versus Me: Becoming the Woman I Prayed to Be

    This episode is for the woman who's not looking to compete with anybody else—she’s in the ring with the version of herself that used to settle, over-give, over-explain, and shrink to make others comfortable. In this deep and soul-activating solo talk, Coach Vivica B shares what it truly means to walk in alignment with your higher self and release the version of you that’s no longer serving your growth. You’re not healing for the applause. You’re healing because the old way of living just doesn’t fit anymore. In this episode, Vivica dives into what it feels like to finally stop chasing love, begging for energy, or explaining your worth. Instead, you’re giving yourself permission to move differently. With grace. With power. With presence. This is your reminder that you are already her—you’re not becoming her, you’re remembering her. Inside this episode: What “Me vs Me” really means on a soul level Why you don’t owe anyone explanations for your glow-up How to grieve your old self with grace and gratitude The power of stillness in your spiritual transformation How to stop waiting for outside validation and start walking like the woman you prayed to be The greatest fight you’ll ever face is the one between who you used to be and who God has already called you to be. And Sis, it’s time to stop dimming. It’s time to stop waiting. It’s time to stop begging for crumbs when you were made to feast. When you start showing up as your highest self—before the money, before the relationship, before the recognition—that’s when everything shifts. Because manifestation begins with embodiment. And your new motion requires a new mindset. So today, take a deep breath, hit play, and let this episode be your permission to let the old you rest in peace... and the real you rise in power. Follow @coachvivicab on Instagram Visit: yesgirlhno.com Blog: Pivot + Purpose | Book: Yes Girl? Hell No! (coming soon)

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