Yes, I am selfish is a podcast dedicated to self-development, concept + love, and centering around expanding the consciousness within. Through inner and transformative reflections around universal laws, manifestation, mindset and timeline shifts, the subconscious mind + the deprogramming of it and so many more mystical topics evolving around spiritual alchemy. We uncover the truths that shape our reality and identifying where you need to be more selfish, authentic + unapologetic to create the life you desire. The raw revelations of this 3D reality we call life, that so many are uncomfortable to speak on. This podcast is your voice of reason.
So, join the collective as we break through limiting beliefs, embrace transformation, and tap into the fullness of our souls.
Everything I explore on this show traces back to one program. Self Concept was the first place that opened my eyes to universal laws and the power of the subconscious mind. It showed me that your dream life begins with a new identity, and that one shift changed everything for me. That's what being selfish means here: choosing yourself and becoming who you were always meant to be. If you feel called to begin your own journey, join Self Concept Mastery Academy[linked in episodes].
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Publisher
KHADIJAH JAMILLAAH
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education · health & fitness · religion & spirituality
Vibrant Longevity Starts When You Stop Choosing Suffering
LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍 Vibrant longevity is not a wellness trend or a promise to live forever. It’s the choice to feel alive while you’re here and to build a life that supports you across your body, your mind, your relationships, and your spirit. I’m sharing how I’ve been embracing, befriending, and even romancing my own vibrant longevity as a biopsychosocial spiritual practice, especially after realizing I no longer wanted to participate in my own suffering. because each one points back to the same...
6 Dec 2025
Egoic Selfishness vs Spiritual Selfishness
LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍 Selfishness isn’t always bad. In this episode of Yes I Am Selfish, we dive into the difference between egoic selfishness—the kind that keeps you stuck and spiritual selfishness—the kind that elevates your life, protects your energy, and aligns you with your soul. Learn how to set boundaries, follow your intuition, and even ghost spiritually without guilt. Abraham-Hicks says it best: you must be selfish to live fully. Let’s unpack what that really means. https://life-longlearn...
16 Nov 2025
Grieving The Old Identity
LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍 This episode explores the death of the old self — the version of you shaped by childhood wounds, familiar pain, and survival mode. We break down what it really means to grieve who you used to be, why everything feels chaotic right before alignment, and how the subconscious, the quantum crumble, and your old patterns all play a role in your evolution. This is about releasing what no longer resonates so you can step into the timeline your soul has been calling you toward. Suppo...
19 Oct 2025
The Alchemist Within: Transmuting Pain Into Gold
LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍 In this episode, Khadijah speaks straight from spirit — guided by intuition, not structure. This is a message she sat with for a week, until the divine timing finally said “now.” She explores what it truly means to be an alchemist — not the one who turns metals into gold, but the one who turns pain into power. Through raw honesty and reflection, Khadijah shares how life’s pressure can either break you or refine you into a diamond — and how she chooses the latter every time. ...
28 Sept 2025
THE 3D IS YOUR SERVANT
LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍 ✨ The moment you step into your imagination and know the law is already working in your favor, the matrix will try to pull you back—through doubt, fear, comparison, and conformity. After recording this episode, the matrix tried to get me to conform. I allowed myself to feel those emotions, process them, and then release them—so they never became my identity, so I didn’t internalize or intellectualize them. That’s the difference: you experience the wave without letting it define...
10 Sept 2025
Manifesting 101
LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍 https://beacons.ai/khadijahjai what actually is manifestation . . grab your glass of wine and dive in. Support the show Thank you so much for listening. Leave a review, follow, download and share with friends if you found value in our conversations on self-development, mindset, spiritual alchemy + spiritual growth and the many transformative topics we touch on. Listening while you’re drinking a matcha, at the gym, driving or creating or being in your feminine + masculine bag ...
21 May 2025
The Most Selfless Thing You Can Do Is Become Selfish
LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍 In this raw and transformative final episode, I explore the paradox of selfishness as a sacred act of healing. We’ve been conditioned to put others first, to pour from an empty cup, and to sacrifice our own needs in the name of love, family, or duty. But what if the most selfless thing you can do is choose you? This episode is a closing chapter and an initiation. I dive into what it really means to reclaim your time, your energy, and your vision without guilt. I also reflect on...
11 May 2025
Healing Without a Guide: The Weight of Reparenting Alone
LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍 This episode is real, raw, and honest. I’m talking about what it feels like to reparent yourself. especially when you didn’t grow up with the love, guidance, or support you should’ve had. A lot of us, especially millennials, are waking up to the truth: we can’t keep carrying childhood wounds into our adult lives and calling it normal. We’re breaking generational cycles, but doing it alone isn’t easy. It’s painful, it’s heavy, and it forces you to face things you never asked for...
4 May 2025
Presence Is The Power You’ve Been Ignoring
LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍 We think we’re in control—but most of us are just reacting. In this episode, I break down why presence is the key to reclaiming your power, how to tell the difference between intuition and anxiety, and why your mind isn’t meant to lead—it’s meant to follow. If you’ve been overthinking, doubting, or disconnected, this is your wake-up call to come back to now. SELF CONCEPT + SOUL WORK ⤵️✨ https://beacons.ai/khadijahjai Support the show Thank you so much for listening. Leave a...
27 Apr 2025
Boundaries Are Self Love In Action
LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍 This episode is your reminder that boundaries aren’t walls — they’re power moves. Setting standards is how you honor your worth, protect your energy, and demand the respect you deserve. Tune in to learn how to stand firm, move unapologetically, and create a life where access to you is earned, not given. NATAL CHART: https://astro.cafeastrology.com/natal.php SOULWORK APP: https://soulworkapp.mn.co/plans/1519262?bundle_token=fef8819aa66b3677acc69b46dc30d5fa&utm_source=ma...
20 Apr 2025
Friendship Fallout | The Raw Reality
LET’S CHAT 🫧🦋🤍 This episode is a mirror🪞. One that reflects betrayal, boundary setting, grief, and the brutal beauty of choosing yourself. I open up about what it really means to outgrow people you once called your sister, the red flags we ignore, and the power that comes from walking away—even when it hurts. This isn’t just my story. It’s a conversation about the Saturn Return, emotional intelligence, self-worth, and the spiritual weight of unreciprocated friendships. If you’ve ever mourned ...
13 Apr 2025
How To Break Negative Cycles
Some patterns aren’t just habits—they’re karmic loops keeping you from alignment. In this episode, we dive into the root of repeating cycles, how to recognize them, and how to break free through energy shifts, awareness, and intentional action. If you’re ready to stop looping and rise into your power, this one’s for you. ✨ Want to dive deeper into my world or work with me directly? Tap the link in the show notes —https://beacons.ai/khadijahjai — to explore all the ways we can connect. T...
6 Apr 2025
Stop Giving a F*ck: The Art of Reclaiming Your Power
In this unapologetic episode, we’re diving deep into the transformative power of not giving a fck*—not from a place of bitterness, but from self-respect, emotional clarity, and radical self-honesty. I’m talking about what it really means to stop putting other people’s opinions on a pedestal, how anger can be a sacred teacher, and why internal peace is the real glow-up. From personal moments of breaking points to breaking free, this episode is your permission slip to be your whole self—loudly,...
30 Mar 2025
Law of Exposure | Manifest A New Timeline
The Law of Exposure: What You Feed Your Mind Shapes Your Life! 🎧✨ What you see, hear, and surround yourself with is shaping your reality—whether you realize it or not. 🤯 The Law of Exposure shows how your environment influences your mindset and success. By being intentional with what you consume, you can rewire your thinking, break old patterns, and create a new reality. In this episode, we’re diving into how to take control and level up. 🚀 #StayExposedToGreatness Thank you so much for ...
23 Mar 2025
You Don’t Need To Ask For Permission
In this episode, we dive deep into the power of giving yourself permission. To heal, to set boundaries, to express your truth, and to fully embrace who you are. Too often, we suppress our emotions, silence our voices, or shrink ourselves to fit into spaces that don’t honor us. But what if you stopped waiting for external validation and simply allowed yourself to be? We explore: • Healing your relationship with yourself before seeking it from others • The importance of emotional expression—whe...
16 Mar 2025
Law of Sacrifice | Unlocking Power Through Letting Go
In this episode, we dive deep into The Law of Sacrifice, a universal principle that teaches us that in order to gain something greater, we must be willing to let go of what no longer serves us. Whether it’s old habits, limiting beliefs, or relationships that keep us stagnant, true transformation requires a conscious exchange. The question is……. what are you willing to give up to step into your power? TIKTOK: KHADIJAHJAI INSTAGRAM: ITSKHADIJAHJAI Thank you so much for listening. If this epis...
9 Mar 2025
EIYPO( Everybody Is You Pushed Out)
“Everybody Is You Pushed Out ” isn’t just a concept, it’s real life. The people around you? They’re reflecting your inner world, whether you like it or not. In this episode, we’re getting into how your assumptions and your subconscious beliefs are shaping your reality and what to do if you don’t like what’s showing up. Let’s talk about it. TIKTOK: KHADIJAHJAI INSTAGRAM: ITSKHADIJAHJAI Thank you so much for listening. If this episode hit home, share it with someone who needs to h...
2 Mar 2025
Your inner child wants your attention pt.1
How often do you listen to your inner child and their needs/wants? Or do you simply neglect them and put them last because you are an adult now. That’s the first step to your problem as seeing your inner child as someone who is in your past but they are still with you every single time you wake up and go to sleep at night. Your self sabotaging behaviors starts there. TIKTOK: khadijahjai INSTAGRAM: itskhadijahjai Thank you so much for listening. If this episode hit home, share it with someon...
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