Yes to I do

About Yes to I do

From the first "Yes!" to the magical "I do," we're here to guide you through every step of your journey. Join us as we chat with real couples, top wedding suppliers, and industry experts, sharing inspiration, practical tips, and heartwarming stories to make your big day unforgettable. Whether you're just starting your planning or finalising the details, Yes to I Do is here to help you say "yes" with confidence, every step of the way. Make sure you hit subscribe and share this podcast with fellow brides, grooms, and wedding enthusiasts. Ready to bring your dream wedding to life? Visit (https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/)our website - https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/ (https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/) to book a tour of our breathtaking venue or schedule a planning meeting with our expert team. About Coton House Farm Set in the stunning Staffordshire countryside, Coton House Farm is an exclusive, luxury wedding barn venue designed for couples seeking a magical and unforgettable celebration. With beautifully restored barns, scenic outdoor spaces, and flexible layouts, it offers a seamless experience from morning preparations in The Stables to a breathtaking ceremony and lively reception. Whether you choose an elegant indoor setting or a picturesque outdoor backdrop, Coton House Farm provides the perfect setting for your dream wedding, filled with romance and charm. Connect with Coton House Farm Website: https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/ (https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/ (https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/) TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm (https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/ (https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/) Pinterest: https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/ (https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/) X: https://x.com/cotonhousefarm (https://x.com/cotonhousefarm) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

Publisher

Coton House Farm

Category

arts · education · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

27 Apr 2025

Latest episode

8 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

39 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   8 Oct 2026

   How to Include Family Without Losing Control of Your Wedding

   In this episode of Yes to I Do, the team tackles a sensitive but very common wedding-planning challenge: how do you involve your family in your big day without allowing their opinions to take over? From parents with traditional ideas to siblings and friends who are desperate to help, they discuss how couples can set boundaries, manage expectations and find meaningful ways to make loved ones feel included while still creating the wedding they actually want. The team also explores what happens when family members are contributing financially, how to politely say no to unwanted suggestions and why giving people small, specific roles can be a great way to make them feel involved. Plus, they tackle the tricky dilemma of what to do when parents paying towards the wedding want to invite a whole table of their own friends. Key Takeaways Set Boundaries Early: One of the best ways to prevent family involvement becoming overwhelming is to establish expectations from the beginning. Decide with your partner which parts of the planning you want help with and which decisions you'd prefer to keep between yourselves. Give Family Meaningful Roles: Involving family doesn't mean handing over control. Small jobs such as preparing confetti, checking tables, helping with decorations or making announcements can make loved ones feel important without putting them in charge of major decisions. Financial Help Can Complicate Things: When parents or other family members contribute financially, they may feel entitled to have more input. The team discusses why it's important to agree what that contribution means before it begins, rather than dealing with conflicting expectations further down the line. You Don't Have to Share Every Detail: Keeping some decisions between you and your partner can protect the excitement of the day and give your family something to experience as guests. Surprises, your first dance song and other personal touches don't necessarily need to be shared during the planning process. Learn to Say No – Kindly: If a family member suggests something you don't want, redirecting their enthusiasm towards another job can be easier than simply rejecting their involvement. Clear but kind communication can help protect both your wedding plans and your relationships. Manage Expectations From the Start: The team's golden rule is to be clear about how involved you want people to be. Some couples will want their parents and siblings involved in every decision; others will want to plan almost everything themselves. Neither approach is wrong – it simply needs to work for you. Key Moments "Every family wants to be involved and does get involved, but to what extent can vary." "It's nice to give people roles sometimes and make them feel special because it's a special time for them." "It's all about boundaries and expectations." "Manage expectations from the get-go." "You only want people there who've got your best interest at heart and genuinely love you." About Coton House Farm Set in the stunning Staffordshire countryside, Coton House Farm is an exclusive, luxury wedding barn venue designed for couples seeking a magical and unforgettable celebration. With beautifully restored barns, scenic outdoor spaces, and flexible layouts, it offers a seamless experience from morning preparations in The Stables to a breathtaking ceremony and lively reception. Whether you choose an elegant indoor setting or a picturesque outdoor backdrop, Coton House Farm provides the perfect setting for your dream wedding, filled with romance and charm. Connect with Coton House Farm Website: https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/ (https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/ (https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/) TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm (https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/ (https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/) Pinterest: https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/ (https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/) X: https://x.com/cotonhousefarm (https://x.com/cotonhousefarm) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

2. 

   24 Sept 2026

   Spend, Save or Skip: The Brutally Honest Wedding Edition

   In this episode of Yes to I Do, the team tackles one of the biggest challenges in wedding planning: deciding where your budget is actually worth spending. In a brutally honest game of Spend, Save or Skip, they work through everything from flowers and favours to hair and make-up, videographers, evening food, wedding cakes and entertainment. The message is simple: spending wisely isn't about being cheap, it's about being intentional and choosing the things that will genuinely make a difference to your day. Key Takeaways Spend on What Matters to You: Rather than adding something simply because it's fashionable or because you think your guests expect it, prioritise the things you'll genuinely enjoy. Whether that's a magician, amazing food, flowers or something completely different, your budget should reflect what's important to you as a couple. Save on Styling Without Sacrificing the Look: Venue styling can be a mixture of spending and saving. Statement florals may be worth investing in, while items such as table runners, place settings and smaller decorative details can potentially be sourced inexpensively or created yourself. Sometimes less really is more. Think Carefully About Wedding Favours: Traditional favours often get left behind at the end of the night, so consider something guests will actually use or consume. Sweets, biscuits, scratch cards or drinks tokens could offer better value than keepsakes that end up forgotten on the table. Don't Underestimate Evening Food: Food gets a definite spend. Guests who've been celebrating and drinking throughout the day will appreciate something to eat later in the evening, and the team has seen how a lack of evening food can result in guests leaving earlier and affect the atmosphere of the party. You Don't Necessarily Need a Huge Wedding Cake: Larger cakes can result in plenty of leftovers. A smaller cake supplemented with cupcakes, brownies or other easy-to-grab treats can work brilliantly – or you could swap the traditional option altogether for something like a wedding cake made from cheese. Choose Entertainment That Adds to the Atmosphere: From sax players and live bands to photo booths and Polaroid guest books, entertainment can add another dimension to the celebration. The key is choosing something that works with the flow of your day rather than adding extras simply for the sake of having them. Key Moments "Spend, Save, Skip is not about being cheap, it's about being intentional with what you spend your money on." "Don't be a people pleaser. Do what you want to do." "Always spend on food. Always, always spend on food." "If you don't cater evening food wise, people do leave early. It ruins the vibe of the evening." "Every wedding we see is so different... whatever you feel comfortable spending on, skipping on, saving on – do whatever you want." About Coton House Farm Set in the stunning Staffordshire countryside, Coton House Farm is an exclusive, luxury wedding barn venue designed for couples seeking a magical and unforgettable celebration. With beautifully restored barns, scenic outdoor spaces, and flexible layouts, it offers a seamless experience from morning preparations in The Stables to a breathtaking ceremony and lively reception. Whether you choose an elegant indoor setting or a picturesque outdoor backdrop, Coton House Farm provides the perfect setting for your dream wedding, filled with romance and charm. Connect with Coton House Farm Website: https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/ (https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/ (https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/) TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm (https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/ (https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/) Pinterest: https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/ (https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/) X: https://x.com/cotonhousefarm (https://x.com/cotonhousefarm) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

3. 

   10 Sept 2026

   Making Wedding Magic with Owen Strickland

   In this episode of Yes to I Do, the team is joined by professional magician Owen Strickland to explore how magic can add entertainment, energy and some genuinely unforgettable moments to a wedding day. Owen explains why weddings provide the perfect audience for close-up magic, how he uses it to break the ice between guests and why a magician can be particularly valuable during quieter moments such as the drinks reception or the turnaround between the wedding breakfast and evening celebrations. Owen also shares his unusual journey from spending 22 years in the police to becoming a full-time magician, performing at around 70–80 weddings a year as well as corporate events and Aston Villa matches. Along the way, he demonstrates some of his favourite tricks – leaving the hosts stunned, laughing and, at one point, in tears! Key Takeaways Magic is a Brilliant Icebreaker: During the drinks reception, guests from different sides of the family may be meeting for the first time. Owen explains how bringing groups together for a trick immediately gives them something to talk about and helps break down barriers. It Can Fill the Natural Lulls: Magic works particularly well while photographs are being taken, during room turnarounds and between the wedding breakfast and evening reception, keeping guests entertained when they might otherwise be waiting around. Entertainment Can Change the Atmosphere: Owen has performed at weddings where difficult circumstances have affected the mood, as well as celebrations that were already full of energy. In both situations, magic can provide a welcome distraction or take an already brilliant atmosphere to another level. Make Time to Enjoy Your Own Wedding: Owen reminds couples that the day belongs to them. He creates special tricks specifically for the newlyweds, often leaving them with a physical memento they can keep after the wedding. Book Popular Suppliers Early: With Owen performing at dozens of weddings each year alongside corporate events and football hospitality, peak dates can disappear quickly. His recommendation is simple: if there's a supplier you really want, don't leave it too late to secure them. Key Moments "For that couple, it's the only day in their life where all their friends and family and loved ones will be in one room at one time." "The drinks reception... it's a really good icebreaker." "I always say to couples, you've got to remember to enjoy your day." "I was a policeman for 22 years... and this is way more fun than being a policeman." "I just want people to have the best experience." About Coton House Farm Set in the stunning Staffordshire countryside, Coton House Farm is an exclusive, luxury wedding barn venue designed for couples seeking a magical and unforgettable celebration. With beautifully restored barns, scenic outdoor spaces, and flexible layouts, it offers a seamless experience from morning preparations in The Stables to a breathtaking ceremony and lively reception. Whether you choose an elegant indoor setting or a picturesque outdoor backdrop, Coton House Farm provides the perfect setting for your dream wedding, filled with romance and charm. Connect with Coton House Farm Website: https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/ (https://www.cotonhousefarm.com/) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/ (https://www.instagram.com/cotonhousefarm/) TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm (https://www.tiktok.com/@cotonhousefarm) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/ (https://www.facebook.com/Cotonhousefarmweddingvenue/) Pinterest: https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/ (https://uk.pinterest.com/cotonhousefarm/) X: https://x.com/cotonhousefarm (https://x.com/cotonhousefarm) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

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