一场曳尾于涂的人生实录，浮世中的小小树洞，记录附近，也记录人。感谢光临。 公众号：曳尾于涂(yeweiyutu525)
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一场曳尾于涂的人生实录，浮世中的小小树洞，记录附近，也记录人。感谢光临。 公众号：曳尾于涂(yeweiyutu525)
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May 25, 2026
34.出走之后
<p>远方的朋友，</p><p>展信安。</p><p>这一期，我们和高中同学、也是老朋友的小 V，聊了聊彼此在“远方”的生活。</p><p>十几年前的盛夏，我们蜷缩在一间小小的教室里，望着窗外快要落下去的夕阳，反复幻想未来。那时候的“远方”，是自由，是新鲜，是更辽阔的人生。我们以为只要离开，就能抵达某种更理想的生活。</p><p>后来，我们真的走了很远。</p><p>有人离开故乡迁徙到另一座城市，有人漂洋过海，在陌生语言和陌生秩序里重新长大。<br>而那些曾经闪闪发亮的“远方”，也慢慢变成了现实的一地鸡毛：签证、租房、税单、时差、身份焦虑……</p><p>是适应性抑郁，是不断重建生活秩序；是曾经外向的人，慢慢变安静；是曾经随性的人，开始被迫精确地规划一切。</p><p>原来出走不是一蹴而就。真正的迁徙，是日复一日地意识到，自己已经回不去，也未必会有可以属于的地方了。</p><p>我们怀念那个对远方充满幻想的自己。但也会发现，原来所谓“出走”，并不会自动获得一个更好的人生。它只是把你放置于另一种环境里，让你重新面对自己。</p><p>那么出走之后的我们，与现在的城市处在什么阶段呢？是适应期、蜜月期，还是倦怠期？</p><p>依然没有答案。依然没有某个完美彼岸。</p><p>唯有活在当下。</p><p>也只能活在当下。</p><p>【本期主播】</p><p>Tina;小V（依照出场顺序）</p><p>【BGM】</p><p>片头/片尾：</p><p>飘向北方-黄明志&王力宏</p><br><a href="https://oia.xiaoyuzhoufm.com/player/6a14cb70e59ebca936475109?openTranscript=true&utm_source=rss&as=cHQ9MTIyNjE5MjQ3JmN0PXJzcyZtdD04&autoOpen=false">在小宇宙查看该单集文稿</a>
May 3, 2026
33.生育这道门
<p>远方的朋友，</p><p>展信安。</p><p>最近生育这个话题再次在我的生活里无处不在。我见证着朋友们或手忙脚乱或井井有条的迎接这份生命的礼物，不由地重新审视生育这道门。</p><p>生育是一道门，还是一面镜子？它既冰冷现实，又温情无比；既关乎身体，也关乎关系。当然最重要的是，它关于我们如何理解自己。</p><p>所以这一期，我邀请了老朋友 Joyce 一起聊聊“生育选择”。两个未育的女性，站在门外，诚实谈论这道门。</p><p>我们聊到那些说不出口的犹豫：对身体失控的恐惧、对养育责任的敬畏、对亲密关系分工的不安、对社会竞争环境的疲惫，也聊到那些让人动摇的瞬间——朋友成为母亲后的光亮、代际之间爱的流动，以及“如果有一个孩子，会不会比我更清醒”的好奇。</p><p>我们并不想给出答案。只是想承认：在生育这件事上，每个人都在自己的处境里做选择，而选择本身，已经足够复杂。</p><p>也许生育不是女性人生的必选项。但它也许是一面镜子，照见我们如何看待自由、责任、关系与自己。</p><p>希望未来，我们也可以和真正经历过这一切的朋友聊聊她们的感受。</p><p>【本期主播】</p><p>Tina;Joyce（依照出场顺序）</p><p>【BGM】</p><p>片头/片尾：</p><p>Midnight Walk (밤 산책) — IU</p><p>【提及的作品】</p><p>Joyce关于生育的思考：<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" class="normal_text_link mp_article_text_link" href="https://mp.weixin.qq.com/s/qwNtzIexA9ozqr_5PROQmQ">孕育、针，以及某种身体隔膜</a></p><p>书籍：</p><p>《事件》-安妮·埃尔诺</p><p>《那些少女没有抵达》-吴晓乐</p><p>影视剧：</p><p>《苦尽柑来遇见你》</p><p></p><p></p>
January 1, 2026
Bye 2025 Hi 2026
<p>远方的朋友，</p><p>展信安。</p><p>久违的更新向大家道一声新年快乐。这期我们聊了聊那些2025留给我们的改变，也许是新的身份，也许是新的经验，在那些摇摆不定的时间里的思考，还有一些真实的彷徨。我们依然没有答案，只是将这些困惑与你分享。</p><p>以及，畅想2026，你会写下怎样的新年愿望呢？</p><p>【本期主播】</p><p>Tina;美琳；三金（依照出场顺序）</p><p>【BGM】</p><p>片头/片尾：</p><p>Oscar Dunbar-Spring Rain</p>
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