Nicholas Tanek (Author) and our kinky friends worldwide discuss BDSM, fetishes, music, comedy, lifestyles, romance, and more.
Nicholas Tanek is an author, speaker, and podcaster. He is best known for his memoir, The Coolest Way to Kill Yourself, which chronicles his experiences as a young man in the 90's rave scene and BDSM subcultures. He is the author of the book and podcast, Your Kinky Friends, interviewing people involved in BDSM, kink, and other alternative lifestyles.
LIVE interactive Lo-fi Punk Rock Style - No editing.... It's RAW. It is what it is.
Rebecca Blanton (aka Auntie Vice)
is a writer and kink educator. Their work focuses on gender, power, and kink//BDSM. She runs the award-winning blog LoveLettersToAUnicorn.com and has published several books, including The Big Workbook for Submissives, a finalist for the 2018 Golden Flogger Award. In 2026, Jennifer Kingsley Publishing will release their fourth book, Kinky Minds: Navigating BDSM Relationships with Mental Illness or Neurodivergence. She holds a Ph.D. in Political Psychology. Prior to turning her attention to kink education and writing, she served as the Executive Director for the California Commission on the Status of Women and Girls and worked as a Senior Policy Analyst for the California Research Bureau (CRB). While at the CRB, her work on the needs of women veterans gained national attention and is the basis for more than two dozen state and federal laws.
They identify as a queer, gender nonconforming, disabled kinkster.
Instagram, Fetlife, Facebook, Bluesky, Redditt, TikTok all under @AuntieVice
Instagram @AuntieViceNSFW
Podcast under @FatChicksOnTop on Instagram and Tiktok
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5 Oct 2026
YKF WEEKENDS - 9.2026 - "The Importance of Checking In" w/ Anna Valentina and Mistress Sophie
"The whisper network depends on us."
Anna Valentina and Mistress Sophie reunite on YKF WEEKENDS to discuss the importance of kinksters checking in on each other. Kinky friends should check in on each other. We've lost too many this year. Don't you wish you kept the connection with some people? While catching up, we talk about Isla Moon, pegging, and also how R.C. Horsch is a scumbag who does not represent the BDSM/kink community.
"Connections live in the doing."
"Just because you chop up people and turn them into food, that does not make you part of the chef industry."
"Their eyes are bigger than their holes."
ANNA VALENTINA
Website: https://annavalentina.com (https://annavalentina.com)
Instagram: / msannavalentina
Cashapp: $AnnaValentina
MISTRESS SOPHIE:
https://www.mistresssophieofhertfordshire.co.uk/ (https://www.mistresssophieofhertfordshire.co.uk/)
NICHOLAS TANEK
http://www.yourkinkyfriends.com (http://www.yourkinkyfriends.com)
https://x.com/NicholasTanek (https://x.com/NicholasTanek)
https://www.instagram.com/nicktanek/ (https://www.instagram.com/nicktanek/)
Your Kinky Friends by Nicholas Tanek (the book that started it all)
https://a.co/d/eyW5oYY (https://a.co/d/eyW5oYY)
Forbidden Frostland https://forbiddenfrostland.com/ (https://forbiddenfrostland.com/)
12 Sept 2026
Vintage YKF: KATE WEST - June 2, 2022
Rest in Power Kate West.
June 2, 2022
"I’m an equal opportunity sadist.”
The glorious Mistress Kate West is a professional Dominatrix from Phoenix, AZ. We discuss feminization, feet, chastity, BDSM culture, gender fluidity, CBT, bastinado, knives, her love of GORE, needles, and blood. She also shows us her dirty feet.
“I love blood”
Twitter and Insta - @JezabelQueen
To book and bio - MistressKateWest.com
http://www.yourkinkyfriends.com (http://www.yourkinkyfriends.com )
http://www.youtube.com/ykfcinema (http://www.youtube.com/ykfcinema)
https://x.com/NicholasTanek (https://x.com/NicholasTanek)
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