The Tooth Fairy Owes Me Money: Losing Teeth as an Adult | Give It Three Months
What happens when you lose teeth as a kid? Everybody celebrates. You’re growing! You’re changing! The Tooth Fairy is coming!But lose teeth as a grown woman and suddenly there’s shame, embarrassment, a treatment plan...and a whole lot of money involved.After spending nine months dreading the moment someone would ask about my missing teeth, the person who finally did was my little grandniece. And instead of making me feel embarrassed, she immediately started bonding with me over losing teeth. Except there was one very important difference:SHE was getting paid. 😂So naturally, I started investigating the Tooth Fairy.In this episode of Give It Three Months, we’re talking about adult tooth loss, the strange economics of dentistry, why childhood gets rituals for becoming, Tooth Fairy folklore, egregores, and why I have officially decided that the Tooth Fairy owes me money.And somehow Cardi B got involved.Because if anybody understands “got a bag and fixed my teeth,” she is clearly qualified for the position. 🦷🧚🏾♀️✨ Underneath all the foolishness, though, there’s something I keep coming back to:I’m not going into hiding while I’m becoming.I’m 58. I’m missing teeth. I hate my dentures. I’m figuring out what comes next.And I’m still becoming. Next Yap: I’ll show you how I made my Cardi B Tooth Fairy candle, where this ridiculous idea came from, and how I turned it into an actual piece of magick. ✨ GIVE IT THREE MONTHS / THE GREAT WITCH LOCK-INWant to give something that matters to you one season of focused attention?🍂 Join the FREE Great Witch Lock-In:redsoulflower.com/lock🌑 Go deeper with GWLI VIP + Future You New Moon rituals:redsoulflower.com/vipYour magick. Your rules.Because you are magick!#GiveItThreeMonths (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/giveitthreemonths) #GreatWitchLockIn (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/greatwitchlockin) #AdultToothLoss (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/adulttoothloss) #ToothFairy (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/toothfairy) #Manifestation (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/manifestation) #CandleMagick (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/candlemagick) #ChaosMagick (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/chaosmagick) #MidlifeMagic (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/midlifemagic)
6 Oct 2026
I’ve Been Doing Balance Wrong | What to Focus on This Season | Great Witch Lock In
What if balance doesn’t mean giving everything equal time, energy, and attention?I’ve been thinking about that a lot during my Great Witch Lock-In—especially because the thing I originally planned to focus on this season has changed.I started this Lock-In wanting to learn how to draw faces. I still do. But when I looked honestly at what was happening in my actual life, I realized that my dental journey and getting my new smile needed to become the main quest.Drawing didn’t stop mattering. It became a Sacred Side Quest.And maybe that’s part of balance, too: not pretending everything has equal urgency, but deciding what needs to be front and center for this season—and what can stay alive in a smaller, gentler way. With the Libra New Moon approaching, I’m also preparing for our Balance Reset Future You ritual—a guided meditation where we connect with a future version of ourselves who has already made some of the choices we’re wrestling with now.Whether you join us for the ritual or not, here’s the question I’m sitting with:✨ What deserves more of you in this season?✨ And what could become a Sacred Side Quest?Because maybe balance isn’t something we achieve once and for all.Maybe we notice.We adjust.We live a little.Something changes.And we adjust again. And apparently, somewhere in all of this...the Tooth Fairy has entered my Great Witch Lock-In. 🦷🧚🏾♀️I have questions for that woman.We’ll talk about that next time. 😂
CHAPTERS00:00 I Think I’ve Been Doing Balance Wrong01:21 Balance Isn’t a Pie Chart02:10 When My Original Lock-In Plan Changed03:02 Main Quest vs. Sacred Side Quest04:17 Giving What Matters More Room05:13 The Energy We Forget to Count06:35 Libra, Balance & a Better Question08:08 What Is a Future You Ritual?10:25 The Balance Reset11:58 What Deserves More of You This Season?12:41 Sometimes the Season Changes the Plan13:03 The Tooth Fairy Enters the Chat 🦷✨ JOIN THE GREAT WITCH LOCK-IN🍂 Join the FREE Great Witch Lock-In + get the Quick Start Guide:https://redsoulflower.com/lock🌙 Join the VIP Tier — live Future You rituals, replays, resources + the Notion Hub:https://redsoulflower.com/vip
6 Oct 2026
How 3 Months of Focus Can Change Your Life | Give It Three Months #1
What could change if you gave something that matters three months of real attention?Not three months to reinvent your entire life. Not three months to produce some perfect before-and-after transformation. Just one season to focus, take the next step, gather information, adjust when necessary—and keep coming back.This is Episode 1 of Give It Three Months, a new series about what happens when we stay in relationship with something that matters long enough to see where it takes us.The idea grew out of The Great Witch Lock In, my seasonal practice of choosing what deserves more of my time, energy and attention instead of waiting until January to start changing my life.In this episode, I’m talking about:✨ Why three months can change your trajectory without completing the transformation✨ Why baby steps create momentum—and spaciousness makes it sustainable✨ Why changing your mind isn’t failure; it’s information✨ Why consistency means returning, not never stopping✨ How the Phoenix Protocol helps you come back after Life Happened™✨ Why this year’s Lock In has become less about achievement and more about devotion✨ Why my own new-smile journey is getting more of my attention this season✨ And the question I’m already wrestling with next: Have I been doing balance wrong?So here’s the question:What deserves three months of your attention?Not because you have to finish it.Because three months from now, your life might be headed somewhere it wasn’t headed before.
✨ JOIN THE GREAT WITCH LOCK-INThe Great Witch Lock-In is an invitation to give something that matters to you a season of your devotion.Baby steps create momentum. Spaciousness makes momentum sustainable. No perfection. Just devotion.🍂 Join the FREE Great Witch Lock-In + get the Quick Start Guide:https://redsoulflower.com/lock🔮 Join the VIP Tier for live Future You rituals, replays, resources + the Notion Hub:https://redsoulflower.com/vip
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