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You are where You Need to Be

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by Viktória and Nikolett

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You Are Where You Need To Be is a podcast about becoming someone who can face their past honestly, feel it fully, and learn from it without getting trapped in it. We explore relationships, attachment, boundaries, triggers, and the psychology behind our patterns with curiosity and clarity. Through real experiences and reflection, we focus on emotional regulation, self-expression, and responding differently when old dynamics return. This is about becoming secure, aware, and intentional — together.

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5/29/2025

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May 18, 2026

Nobody Talks About What Moving Abroad Does To You

<p>In this episode, we talk about the emotional and psychological reality of moving abroad — the part people rarely show online.The excitement. The freedom. The loneliness. The identity crisis. The relationships that fall apart. The homesickness that suddenly hits years later. The realization that maybe you never actually knew yourself before.We explore:– why moving abroad feels magical at first– why so many people suddenly feel lost after the excitement fades– loneliness, codependency, and learning to survive without your old support system– building friendships from zero as an adult– emotional burnout, unhealthy relationships, and identity collapse abroad– why pain can quietly become your “normal”– how discomfort forces personal growth– the difference between distraction and genuine happiness– and how living alone and rebuilding your life can completely change who you becomeThis episode is deeply personal for both of us.Not because moving abroad was “easy” or “perfect” — but because it forced us to confront parts of ourselves we would have never seen otherwise.Sometimes moving abroad is not really about escaping your country.It’s about finally meeting yourself without the noise of everything familiar around you.</p>

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April 8, 2026

Fearful Avoidant Attachment: Why You Want Love But Push It Away

<p>In this episode, Nikolett and Viktoria explore the complexities of fearful avoidant attachment styles, sharing their personal experiences and insights. They discuss how attachment styles develop, the impact of relationships on these styles, and the importance of self-awareness and communication in fostering healthier connections. The conversation delves into navigating emotional triggers, the significance of trust, and the journey of self-discovery and growth in relationships. The hosts emphasize the need for understanding and awareness of attachment styles to break free from unhealthy patterns and cultivate fulfilling relationships.</p>

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March 25, 2026

Everything You Believed Was Conditioned

<p>Most people don’t actually choose what they want in life — they inherit it.</p><p>From family, from culture, from what they saw growing up. And then they spend years chasing relationships, identities, and fantasies that were never truly theirs.</p><p>In this episode, we explore why we are conditioned to want certain types of relationships, why fantasy can feel more attractive than reality, and how constantly chasing “something better” creates distance in the relationships we already have.</p><p>We also talk about how people from your past remember completely different versions of you — and how much of your identity is shaped not by truth, but by perception.</p><p>This is not a comfortable conversation, but it’s an honest one.</p><p>If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Do I actually want this… or was I taught to want it?” — this episode is for you.</p><p>—</p><p>🎙 You Are Where You Need To Be<br>🎧 New episodes every week</p><p>Follow us for more conversations on self-awareness, relationships, emotional patterns, and identity.</p><p></p>

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What is You are where You Need to Be?

You Are Where You Need To Be is a podcast about becoming someone who can face their past honestly, feel it fully, and learn from it without getting trapped in it.

We explore relationships, attachment, boundaries, triggers, and the psychology behind our patterns with curiosity and clarity. Through real experiences and reflection, we focus on emotional regulation, self-expression, and responding differently when old dynamics return. This is about becoming secure, aware, and intentional — together.

How often does this podcast release new episodes?

This podcast updates daily.

Where can I listen to this podcast?

This podcast is available on 4 platforms including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and more. You can also use the RSS feed directly.

Does this podcast accept guests?

No, this podcast does not typically feature guests.

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