After dating for over a year, these cheese loving, queer, ENFJs, decided to upgrade their never-ending deep dive conversations with pink fluffy mics, and a recording button.
Join Venus and Eclipse as they share stories that celebrate life’s messiness and explore the full spectrum of human experience. From the highs of self-discovery to struggles with mental and physical health. Here, queerness is not just accepted; it’s celebrated.
This is a podcast for anyone who has ever felt different, craved a deeper understanding of themselves and the world around them, or simply wanted more. So, whether you are seeking advice, humor, or just the comfort of knowing that you are not alone, we are here to journey alongside you.
Get ready to laugh, cry, and feel deeply. And of course… Don’t forget to BYO cheese!
Publisher
Venus & Eclipse
Category
health & fitness · health & fitness · society & culture
Luna’s Experience as a Late Bloomer (The One With The Sugar Mama)
Luna shares her experience as a late bloomer, exploring how culture and religion shaped her decision to delay sexual exploration until her 30s in this interview.
23 Nov 2025
Venus's Journey With Sex Toy (The One With The Rocketship)
Venus explores her evolving relationship with sex toys, detailing initial experiences, experimentation, successes, and their impact on gender euphoria in this episode.
9 Nov 2025
Porn (The One With The BYO Porn)
The hosts of "You Had Me At Cheese" explore their evolving relationships with pornography, discussing initial experiences, current preferences, and changing perspectives in this episode.
26 Oct 2025
Luna’s Journey with Boundaries (The One With The Slap on The Bottom)
Luna shares her personal journey of discovering the need for boundaries, drawing inspiration from her background and overcoming challenges to implement them effectively in this interview episode.
12 Oct 2025
Hat Roulette - Foodie Questions (The One With The Deep Fried Brioche Buns)
The hosts of "You Had Me At Cheese" discuss their evolving tastes, dream cuisines, and kitchen mishaps, offering listeners a humorous look into the world of food.
28 Sept 2025
Privilege (The One With The Cleaning Ladies)
The hosts of "You Had Me At Cheese" explore the multifaceted nature of privilege, examining its various forms and how it shapes individual experiences in different contexts.
14 Sept 2025
Venus's Journey With Weed (The One With The Double-Edged Sword)
Venus shares her personal journey with weed, exploring its allure and profound impact on her life.
31 Aug 2025
Hat Roulette ENFJ Clichés (The One With The Whipped Cream)
Hosts [Host Name] and [Host Name] explore ENFJ clichés like emotionality and leadership, revealing how these traits truly manifest in their lives in this interview.
17 Aug 2025
Acceptance - Part 2 (The One With The Circus Act)
Host Venus and guest Eclipse explore self-acceptance and holding space for others, offering insights into showing up with compassion in this interview.
3 Aug 2025
Acceptance - Part 1 (The One With Pineapple on Pizza)
Hosts Venus and Eclipse examine acceptance through feeling seen and validated, sharing personal stories of invisibility and the impact of being welcomed as they are in this interview episode.
20 Jul 2025
Eclipse's Journey with Pain - Part 2 (The One With The Blankie)
Eclipse shares her ongoing journey with chronic pain, detailing how pressures and emotional labor intensified her condition and forced her body to shut down in an interview with Venus.
6 Jul 2025
Eclipse's Journey With Pain - Part 1 (The One With Tuesdays From Hell)
Eclipse recounts her initial experiences with chronic pain, discussing unexplained symptoms and interactions with medical professionals as Venus listens in this interview.
22 Jun 2025
Hat Roulette - Queer Clichés (The One With The Ick)
Hosts Venus and Eclipse explore queer clichés, discussing labels, love, struggles, activism, and the intersection of queerness and politics in this episode.
8 Jun 2025
Breaking the Isolation Spiral (The One With The Leap of Faith)
Hosts Venus and Eclipse explore the experience of loneliness, discuss the challenges of isolation, and reveal strategies that helped them rediscover connection in this interview episode.
25 May 2025
Venus' Transition - Part 2 (The One With Tinder And The Colleague)
Venus shares her experiences of navigating the complexities of coming out as transgender at work, including unexpected Tinder encounters and interviewing as a trans woman, in this interview.
11 May 2025
Venus' Transition - Part 1 (The One With The Magical Toilet)
The journey to self-discovery isn’t always clear… until it is.
In this episode, we dive into what led Venus to transition, the telltale signs, and the pivotal egg-cracking moment that you simply cannot return from.
We also explore the struggles of isolation, the search for connection, and what it means to finally see yourself.
27 Apr 2025
Hat Roulette - Immigrant Questions (The One With The Seashells)
What is it really like to leave everything behind and start over?
In this episode, Venus and Eclipse share their personal experiences with immigration, before diving into a game of Hat Roulette.
From culture shock to identity, belonging, and whether we would ever return to our countries of origin - no question is off-limits!
13 Apr 2025
Blood Tribe vs Chosen Tribe (The One With The Homemade Ice Cream)
Is the tribe we are born into more important than the one we choose?
In this episode, we explore how our upbringing shaped us, what chosen tribe means in our lives, and the qualities we seek in the people that surround us.
Does our blood tribe get a seat at the table, simply by being related to us, or do they need to earn their place?
13 Mar 2025
Introducing Venus and Eclipse (Podcast Premieres Sunday, April 13th 2025)
Enjoy a preview of what's to come on You Had Me At Cheese!
After dating for over a year, these cheese loving, queer, ENFJs, decided to upgrade their never-ending deep dive conversations with pink fluffy mics, and a recording button.
Join Venus and Eclipse as they share stories that celebrate life’s messiness and explore the full spectrum of human experience. From the highs of self-discovery to struggles with mental and physical health. Here, queerness is not just accepted; it is celebrated.
This is a podcast for anyone who has ever felt different, craved a deeper understanding of themselves and the world around them, or simply wanted more. So, whether you are seeking advice, humor, or just the comfort of knowing that you are not alone, we are here to journey alongside you.
Get ready to laugh, cry, and feel deeply. And of course… Don’t forget to BYO cheese!
Reach and audience
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YouTube views
86
Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025
Spotify
5.0 / 5
3 ratings
Podcast Authority Score: 44 / 100
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50
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YouTube
63
Engagement
32
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