
You Have the Power - The Road to Recovery from Trauma and Narcissistic Abuse
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<p>This podcast is for women who are done asking the same question:</p><p><br></p><p>Why do emotionally unavailable men keep showing up in my life?</p><p><br></p><p>Hosted by Darla Ridilla, somatic and trauma-informed Relationship and Self-Leadership Coach, this podcast breaks down the pattern most women can feel but struggle to explain.</p><p><br></p><p>The chemistry is there.<br>The connection feels real.<br>And yet the consistency, depth, and emotional presence never fully arrive.</p><p><br></p><p>Each episode exposes the difference between emotionally unavailable men and emotionally willing men — and the subtle moments where women override themselves trying to make the connection work.</p><p><br></p><p>Not through fixing yourself.<br>Through changing how you relate.</p><p><br></p><p>Here we talk about the moments most women minimize:</p><p><br></p><p>The tightening in your jaw when he doesn’t follow through.<br>The instinct to soften your needs so you don’t seem “too much.”<br>The quiet decision to stay patient when your body already knows something is off.</p><p><br></p><p>These moments aren’t small.</p><p><br></p><p>They are the exact places where women disconnect from themselves and unintentionally keep the pattern alive.</p><p><br></p><p>Through the Magnetic Connections Pathway — Presence, Agency, and Empowerment — Darla shows how women shift out of managing connection and start responding to reality instead of potential.</p><p><br></p><p>Because the woman who magnetizes emotionally willing men isn’t performing for love.</p><p><br></p><p>She’s choosing from clarity.</p><p><br></p><p>You’re not asking for too much.</p><p><br></p><p>You’ve just been accepting too little.</p>
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Recent Episodes

May 18, 2026
93: Chemistry is Not Commitment - Why Emotionally Unavailable Men Keep You Hooked
You keep telling yourself the chemistry means something. Because he CAN communicate. He CAN be emotionally present. He CAN show depth. He CAN create connection. But one good conversation does not erase a repeated pattern of inconsistency. In Part 1 of the Standards With a Backbone series, Darla Ridilla breaks down why emotionally unavailable men stay emotionally relevant to women for far too long: intermittent connection, false hope, emotional intensity, and confusing chemistry with commitmen...

May 11, 2026
92: Stop Giving Access to Men Who Haven’t Earned It
Women keep giving girlfriend access to men who have not shown boyfriend-level consistency. And emotionally unavailable men count on that. In this episode, Darla breaks down why emotionally unavailable men push for access before they’ve earned trust, commitment, consistency, or emotional safety. Because access is not intimacy. And just because a man asks for something… does NOT make the request reasonable. You’ll learn: why emotionally unavailable men push boundaries early how...

May 4, 2026
91: How Emotionally Unavailable Men Train You to Stop Asking (The Pattern Most Women Miss)
You didn’t wake up one day and decide to stop asking for what you need. You learned it. Slowly. In the moments where every time you spoke up… you were labeled the problem. In this episode, Darla breaks down the pattern most women miss: How emotionally unavailable men don’t just ignore your needs… they train you to stop having them. Through personal stories - from a marriage where nothing she asked for was ever “right”… to real-life examples of boundary violations, entitlement, and being...
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- What is You Have the Power - The Road to Recovery from Trauma and Narcissistic Abuse?
<p>This podcast is for women who are done asking the same question:</p><p><br></p><p>Why do emotionally unavailable men keep showing up in my life?</p><p><br></p><p>Hosted by Darla Ridilla, somatic and trauma-informed Relationship and Self-Leadership Coach, this podcast breaks down the pattern most women can feel but struggle to explain.</p><p><br></p><p>The chemistry is there.<br>The connection feels real.<br>And yet the consistency, depth, and emotional presence never fully arrive.</p><p><br></p><p>Each episode exposes the difference between emotionally unavailable men and emotionally willing men — and the subtle moments where women override themselves trying to make the connection work.</p><p><br></p><p>Not through fixing yourself.<br>Through changing how you relate.</p><p><br></p><p>Here we talk about the moments most women minimize:</p><p><br></p><p>The tightening in your jaw when he doesn’t follow through.<br>The instinct to soften your needs so you don’t seem “too much.”<br>The quiet decision to stay patient when your body already knows something is off.</p><p><br></p><p>These moments aren’t small.</p><p><br></p><p>They are the exact places where women disconnect from themselves and unintentionally keep the pattern alive.</p><p><br></p><p>Through the Magnetic Connections Pathway — Presence, Agency, and Empowerment — Darla shows how women shift out of managing connection and start responding to reality instead of potential.</p><p><br></p><p>Because the woman who magnetizes emotionally willing men isn’t performing for love.</p><p><br></p><p>She’s choosing from clarity.</p><p><br></p><p>You’re not asking for too much.</p><p><br></p><p>You’ve just been accepting too little.</p> - How often does this podcast release new episodes?
This podcast updates daily.
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This podcast is available on 8 platforms including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and more. You can also use the RSS feed directly.
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