Welcome to You, Me and Them with Jasmine and Vivian. We are excited to welcome you as we dive into the world of healthy relationships, where communication, safety, and support are the foundations.
We hope to provide valuable insights, tips and advice meant to help build and maintain a strong and fulfilling relationship between you and your partner/s through our own vulnerability and storytelling. No matter what stage your relationship is in, you will find a strong community here as we discuss effective communication, creating a safe environment, navigating conflict, supporting one another and
Grief doesn’t always come with closure. In this episode of You, Me and Them, we return to our Supporting Your Partner series to explore what it really looks like to show up for someone who is grieving—and how it feels to be the one grieving when the loss is complicated.
Jasmine opens up about losing her father shortly after being laid off, while still navigating the emotional weight of a broken father-daughter relationship. Vivian shares what it means to support her through it—both as a partner and as someone affected by the grief herself.
We also talk about another kind of grief: the loss of a close friendship. Vivian reflects on the pain of watching a long-term friendship dissolve, and the hard decision to let it go when it stopped feeling mutual.
In this episode we dive into topics like:
Grieving people who hurt us
Setting boundaries with partners during grief
Why it’s hard to lean on community
Navigating complicated family dynamics
Honoring memory while creating space in shared life
Friendships that fade and the mourning that follows
Whether you’re supporting someone through loss or carrying your own, this episode holds space for both of grief and love.
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Song: We Can Just Vibe – Talaya
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13 Apr 2025
Episode 3: The Engagement
We’re engaged!!! In this episode, we press pause on our Supporting Your Partner series to share the full story behind our queer proposal. The fake black tie event, the emotional sabotage, the mansion, the violinist, and the champagne-fueled afterparty at our favorite local bar.Jasmine had no idea. Vivian was sweating. And now we’re deep into wedding planning, balancing spreadsheets and negotiating whether or not the chicken dance makes the cut.We’re keeping it real about what it’s like to plan a wedding, how we’re honoring our story while skipping the traditions that don't resonate with us and why guest experience is top priority.Want to help us out? Drop a comment:- What’s the best thing you’ve ever seen at a wedding?- What’s the worst thing you’ve witnessed as a guest?Listen now to hear the full story, watch our engagement video and a hear few wedding confessions we probably shouldn’t be making publicly.Instagram: @youmeandthempodcastTikTok: @thefriesonsSong: We Can Just VibePerformed by: TalayaWritten, produced, recorded, mixed, and mastered at Ruby Room RecordingsSubscribe to our YouTube channel for full episodes, behind-the-scenes, and more!
14 Mar 2025
Episode 2: Love & Ambition
Supporting Your Partner Series: Aspiring TogetherIn this episode of You, Me & Them, we dive into how to truly support your partner’s aspirations and dreams—whether in business, creativity, or personal growth. From celebrating wins (champagne included 🥂) to balancing individual and shared goals, we get real about what it takes to uplift each other while still staying true to ourselves.We also talk about:✨ The fine line between encouragement and control in relationships✨ Knowing when to push vs. step back when supporting your partner’s goals✨ How shared spaces can help maintain connection while chasing dreams✨ The struggle of balancing your own ambitions while being your partner’s biggest fan✨ And yes… Jasmine’s Olympic dreams and the truth about the Olympic Village 👀🏅🎙️ Join us for laughs, deep convos, and a little champagne-fueled wisdom.👉 Subscribe to our YouTube channel so you never miss an episode!📲 Follow us on Instagram (@youmeandthempodcast) & TikTok (@thefriesons) for more behind-the-scenes content!🎶 Song Credit:Song: We Can Just VibePerformed by: TalayaWritten, produced, recorded, mixed & mastered at Ruby Room Recordings💬 Question for you: What’s the best (or worst) way someone has supported your dreams? Drop your thoughts in the comments! ⬇️
28 Feb 2025
Episode 1: Can You Pay My Bills?
In this first episode of our series, Supporting Your Partner, we dive into one of the most challenging and often awkward topics in relationships: finances. From splitting the bills to supporting your partner during tough times, we explore how to navigate the tricky waters of financial support.We ask three big questions: Who pays the bills? How do you support your partner when they get laid off or need a break? And when do you draw the line when it comes to giving financial support? We also incorporate feedback from our amazing listeners, bringing in real-life perspectives that add depth to our discussion.We talk about the challenges of doing for others who might not do the same for you, the importance of setting boundaries, and how planning and setting clear timelines can help ensure both partners are on the same page.Join us as we share our own stories, reflect on your feedback, and offer practical insights on managing finances while maintaining a healthy, balanced relationship.Don't forget to subscribe to our channel, leave your feedback in the comments and share this episode with your friends! It really does mean so much to us!Follow us on Instagram and TikTok:IG: @youmeandthempodcastTT: @thefriesonsSong: we can just vibe Performed by Talaya.Written, Produced, Recorded, Mixed and Mastered by Talaya Logan at Ruby Room Recordings
15 Feb 2025
Pilot: Let's Get Real
Welcome to the very first episode of You, Me, and Them!
In this pilot episode, your hosts, Jasmine and Vivian, introduce themselves and share the story behind the podcast. We’ll give you a peek into our relationship, what makes us tick, and why this podcast is all about real, relatable conversations from the perspective of being in love and navigating life together.
We dive into some fun (and funny) relationship icks but also share the things we love most about each other. Whether it's the big moments or the small, we’re opening up about our connection and what makes us work as a couple.
This episode is the perfect introduction to the vibe of You, Me, and Them, setting the stage for the deeper conversations and stories to come.
So join us, laugh with us, and get to know us as we kick off this exciting journey together!
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