You, Me, Empathy

About You, Me, Empathy

On You, Me, Empathy, we explore the struggles, the triumphs, the brights and the darks we face as humans trying to be human on this wondrous and overwhelming pale blue dot. You, Me, Empathy was created so that we can be witness to our collective humanity through the lens of empathy, vulnerability, and emotional curiosity. We aim to destigmatize mental health, lead fiercely with our hearts, feel our feelings without shame and judgment, and share our courageous stories so that others may feel less alone and more connected as feely humans. You, Me, Empathy is a brave place designed to inspire the beauty in each of us, because each of us, in all of our kaleidoscopic parts, makes up a magical whole that deserves to be seen. Created and hosted by Nōn Wels (he/they), writer, doggo lover, and co-creator of The Feely Cards (https://feelyhuman.co/feely-cards). The You, Me, Empathy podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

Publisher

Non Wels

Category

health & fitness · society & culture · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

1 Jan 2018

Latest episode

3 Jan 2026

Latest episodes

287 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   3 Jan 2026

   Body, Heart, Screams (with Sinead Farrelly)

   On this episode of We Can't Do It Alone, Nōn sits down with Sinead Farrelly (https://www.instagram.com/sinloux/), National Women's Soccer League (NWSL) champion, World Cup footballer for Ireland, scream enthusiast, and most importantly, a human, to explore the feeling of being cut off from yourself inside the competitive, intense world of professional sports, the weird way in which grief entangles itself in you, connecting your body with your heart, how a safe relationship can help you feel safer within yourself, and the importance of anger rituals. Helpful things mentioned during this episode: Sinead on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/sinloux/) Scream Club Chicago (https://www.thescreamclub.com/) Enjoy the podcast? Here are some ways to support to Nōn: Leave a 5-star rating (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/we-cant-do-it-alone/id1756931576) and a wildly glowing review for We Can't Do It Alone on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your pods. Order The Feely Cards on Bookshop.org (https://bookshop.org/a/88195/9781955905732), Amazon (https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1955905738?tag=simonsayscom), Barnes & Noble (https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-feely-cards-non-wels/1145803495?ean=9781955905732&st=AFF&2sid=Simon%20&%20Schuster_7567305_NA&sourceId=AFFSimon%20&%20Schuster), or your local indie bookseller for yourself and literally everyone you know. Listen to You, Me, Empathy (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-me-empathy/id1331023613), Nōn's previous podcast about mental health, empathy, and big feelings. Need some help with your podcast, or thinking about starting a podcast? Get in touch! (https://nonwels.com/#consulting) Connect with Nōn at nonwels.com (https://nonwels.com/#) and on Instagram @youmeempathy (https://www.instagram.com/youmeempathy/). Thank you for listening to We Can't Do It Alone! Don't forget about the helpers. We all need help. Even you. xoxo nōn

2. 

   3 Jan 2026

   Deep Listening Magic (with Emely Rumble)

   On this episode of We Can't Do It Alone, Nōn sits down with biblio, poetry and hip hop therapist, creator of the Readers Who Run with the Wolves book club, and author of Bibliotherapy In the Bronx, Emely Rumble LCISW, to explore Emely's childhood being raised by her grandmother and the books that helped her to escape and to understand, foster care and the safety within being present, the life-changing power of public libraries, how hip hop therapy helped one of her client's open up his heart, and the connective, healing magic of deep listening. Helpful things mentioned during this episode: Bibliotherapy In the Bronx (https://bookshop.org/a/88195/9781955905879) (Emely's book!) Emely on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/literapy_nyc/) Emely's website (https://literapynyc.podia.com/) Readers Who Run with the Wolves (https://fable.co/club/women-who-run-with-the-wolves-with-literapynyc-134726459871) (free book club!) Bibliophobia (https://bookshop.org/a/88195/9780593594728) by Sarah Chihaya We Alive, Beloved (https://bookshop.org/a/88195/9781955905640) by Frederick Joseph Enjoy the podcast? Here are some ways to support to Nōn: Leave a 5-star rating (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/we-cant-do-it-alone/id1756931576) and a wildly glowing review for We Can't Do It Alone on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your pods. Order The Feely Cards on Bookshop.org (https://bookshop.org/a/88195/9781955905732), Amazon (https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1955905738?tag=simonsayscom), Barnes & Noble (https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-feely-cards-non-wels/1145803495?ean=9781955905732&st=AFF&2sid=Simon%20&%20Schuster_7567305_NA&sourceId=AFFSimon%20&%20Schuster), or your local indie bookseller for yourself and literally everyone you know. Listen to You, Me, Empathy (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-me-empathy/id1331023613), Nōn's previous podcast about mental health, empathy, and big feelings. Need some help with your podcast, or thinking about starting a podcast? Get in touch! (https://nonwels.com/#consulting) Connect with Nōn at nonwels.com (https://nonwels.com/#) and on Instagram @youmeempathy (https://www.instagram.com/youmeempathy/). Thank you for listening to We Can't Do It Alone! Don't forget about the helpers. We all need help. Even you. xoxo nōn

3. 

   3 Jan 2026

   To See and Be Seen In Friendship (with Lane Moore)

   On this episode of We Can't Do It Alone, Nōn sits down with podcaster (I Thought It Was Just Me), creator of Tinder Live, musician (Final Girl out now!), and You Will Find Your People author Lane Moore to explore the feeling of not wanting to talk about our mental health because we're tired of drowning in it, why dogs are helpers too and how Lane's dog Lights gifted Lane their first truly safe relationship, how to communicate what you need in relationships, and what it's like to see and be seen in our friendships. Helpful things mentioned during this episode: You Will Find Your People (https://bookshop.org/a/88195/9781419775529) (book) I Thought It Was Just Me (https://www.patreon.com/cw/lanemoore) (Lane's podcast) Lane's Substack (https://lanemoore.substack.com/) Final Girl (https://geo.music.apple.com/us/album/_/1815001577?app=music&at=1000lHKX&ct=linktree_http&itscg=30200&itsct=lt_m&ls=1&mt=1) (album) Tinder Live (https://www.lanemoore.org/tinder-live/) Lane on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/hellolanemoore/) Enjoy the podcast? Here are some ways to support to Nōn: Leave a 5-star rating (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/we-cant-do-it-alone/id1756931576) and a wildly glowing review for We Can't Do It Alone on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your pods. Order The Feely Cards on Bookshop.org (https://bookshop.org/a/88195/9781955905732), Amazon (https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1955905738?tag=simonsayscom), Barnes & Noble (https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-feely-cards-non-wels/1145803495?ean=9781955905732&st=AFF&2sid=Simon%20&%20Schuster_7567305_NA&sourceId=AFFSimon%20&%20Schuster), or your local indie bookseller for yourself and literally everyone you know. Listen to You, Me, Empathy (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-me-empathy/id1331023613), Nōn's previous podcast about mental health, empathy, and big feelings. Need some help with your podcast, or thinking about starting a podcast? Get in touch! (https://nonwels.com/#consulting) Connect with Nōn at nonwels.com (https://nonwels.com/#) and on Instagram @youmeempathy (https://www.instagram.com/youmeempathy/). Thank you for listening to We Can't Do It Alone! Don't forget about the helpers. We all need help. Even you. xoxo nōn

Who has been a guest on You, Me, Empathy

Names identified in recent episode analyses. Showing up to five guests.

• Sophie Ansari
• Daniel Van Kirk
• Ess Crossley
• Eric Dorsa
• Sam Robertson

Reach and audience

Public platform figures. Ratings count people who left a rating, not total listeners.

Apple Podcasts (US)

4.9 / 5

185 ratings

Spotify

4.7 / 5

20 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 65 / 100

A composite of feed quality, social presence, YouTube performance and engagement. Read the methodology.

Quality

85

Social presence

90

YouTube

0

Engagement

67

Contact You, Me, Empathy

Guest appearances

Books guests

Based on episode analysis; this does not confirm that the show is currently accepting guests.