Your Relationshift

About Your Relationshift

Welcome to Your Relationshift, hosted by Hindi Kalmenson and Chayale Tzukernik. Together, they bring their wealth of experience and passion for relationships, self-development, and Chassidic teachings to provide listeners with practical wisdom and inspiration about a healthy Jewish marriage. Hindi, a marriage and relationship coach from LA, and Chayale, a celebrated high school teacher and speaker from Crown Heights, delve into the principles of Relationshift, sharing stories and insights that have transformed the lives of many women. In each episode, you'll hear heartfelt discussions and personal anecdotes that illuminate the core concepts of Relationshift, offering a blend of deep Chassidic teachings and practical advice. Whether you're looking to strengthen your marriage, enhance personal growth, or simply enjoy thought-provoking conversations, Your Relationshift is your go-to source for profound, relatable, and uplifting content. Join Hindi and Chayale as they guide you on a journey toward greater clarity, connection, and empowerment in your relationships and beyond.

Publisher

Relationshift

Category

religion & spirituality · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

13 Jun 2024

Latest episode

20 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

66 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   20 Oct 2026

   Replay: Taking Ownership

   We're bringing back another foundational conversation from Your Relationshift! Taking ownership is one of the most powerful shifts we can make in our relationships, and this episode is worth revisiting. Whether you're hearing it for the first time or coming back for a refresher, it's an opportunity to reconnect with a principle that can truly transform the way we show up in our relationships. In this episode, Hindi and Chayale explore the principle of taking full ownership of ourselves and the impact we have on our relationships. They discuss how relationships are a lifestyle rooted in radical trust and deep connection, and how real change begins when we turn our attention inward. From regulating our emotions and examining the stories we tell ourselves to caring for our physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being, they unpack what it means to take responsibility for our own experience rather than looking to others to create it for us. Through relatable examples and practical insights, Hindi and Chayale show how greater awareness and intentionality can transform everyday interactions. They remind us that taking ownership isn't just a concept to understand intellectually—it's something we learn to live and experience. This conversation offers a powerful invitation to approach our relationships with greater clarity, confidence, and personal responsibility.

2. 

   14 Oct 2026

   Replay: Interview with Hadasa Rosenblum

   We're bringing back one of our favorite conversations! This episode is filled with timeless insights and powerful perspective shifts that are worth hearing again (or for the first time!). Whether you're navigating marriage, motherhood, or your own personal growth, Hadasa's wisdom is a beautiful reminder of how much can change when we shift the way we see ourselves and our relationships. In this rich and insightful episode of Your Relationshift, Chayale Tzukernik sits down with coach Hadasa Rosenblum for a powerful conversation about the core mindset shifts that transform marriage, motherhood, and selfhood. Hadasa shares the foundational truths she wishes every woman knew before marriage—how to understand the essential differences between men and women, how to catch the stories we subconsciously tell ourselves, and how to view our relationship challenges not as mistakes, but as Divinely orchestrated growth opportunities. Through vivid examples from both marriage and parenting, she illustrates how shifting our perspective allows us to receive the love and support that's already present—and to respond to challenges with confidence instead of fear. As the conversation deepens, Hadasa explores the importance of nurturing our identity beyond the roles we fill—reminding listeners that we are also individuals with a mind, heart, body, and soul that need care and attention. Whether it’s through learning, meaningful friendships, or soul-nourishing rituals, she encourages women to reclaim their wholeness not in spite of their responsibilities, but as a vital part of them. With warmth, clarity, and humility, this episode offers empowering guidance for women at every stage of life who want to live and love with more joy, purpose, and inner alignment.

3. 

   23 Sept 2026

   Summer Replay: Mashpia / Mekabel Part 3

   Summer Replay: We’re bringing back some of Your RelationShift’s most-loved episodes! Whether you’re hearing this conversation for the first time or returning to it with fresh ears, this episode takes the Mashpia-Mekabel dynamic from theory into the realities of everyday marriage. Hindi Kalmenson and Chayale Tzukernik explore the subtle ways women can unintentionally disrupt the natural flow of giving and receiving in a relationship. Through relatable, real-life scenarios, they unpack how well-intentioned behaviors—nurturing, correcting, taking over, or expressing disapproval—can sometimes leave little room for a husband to step into his role as Mashpia. They also look beneath these patterns to the fears and insecurities that may be driving them. With practical guidance rooted in Torah and Chassidic wisdom, Hindi and Chayale discuss what it looks like to loosen our grip, make space, and cultivate greater trust and respect in marriage. Revisit this RelationShift favorite for a powerful reminder that sometimes creating more connection isn’t about doing more—it’s about recognizing what we can let go of and allowing a healthier dynamic to emerge.

Reach and audience

Public platform figures. Ratings count people who left a rating, not total listeners.

Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

9 ratings

Spotify

5.0 / 5

22 ratings

Contact Your Relationshift

Guest appearances

Books guests

Based on episode analysis; this does not confirm that the show is currently accepting guests.

Shows with a similar audience

• 

  All Classes

• 

  Stories Of Hope With Tzipora Grodko

• 

  Meaningful People

• 

  Inspiration for the Nation with Yaakov Langer

• 

  Human & Holy

• 

  Kosher Money