Ep 21: Hometown Hangovers & Situationship Confessions
Grace and Vikki reunite in Blacksburg, which naturally turns into four days of drinking, feral energy and questionable decisions. From jumbo margaritas, tailgate mimosas and a tent flooding Grace, to visiting Adrian’s gravesite and introducing Sandy to her first “haircut shot,” the weekend was unhinged in all the best ways.
Vikki gives a full update on Moroccan Man, exclusivity confusion, cultural clashes and a situationship spiral. At the same time, Grace recaps her New York-level drinking weekend, ring-pressure drama and a fight with Mr. W over podcast semantics. Plus, listeners sent in their wildest relationship stories… including one that deserves its own docuseries.
It’s emotional, chaotic and accidentally wholesome, exactly how hometown weekends with your best friend should be.
⭐ Rate us 5 stars, or we’re joining the Divorced Dads Club.
14 Nov 2025
Episode 20: Exclusive... But Not Official?
This week, Grace and Vikki get brutally honest about the gray area between being exclusive and being official and why the line gets blurry, messy and low-key emotionally dangerous.
Vikki kicks things off with a full recap of her one-week exclusive era: commitment panic, self-sabotage, a drunken breakup and a dinner-date “are we okay?” pending. Meanwhile, Grace returns from a chaotic New York weekend, 6 a.m. nights, new best friends, music industry people and a heated argument with Mr. W that ended in apology flowers… just not the flowers either of them ordered.
With listener submissions on exclusivity, boyfriend/girlfriend titles and why everyone defines the “gray zone” differently, this episode breaks down the real difference between talking, dating, exclusive and official, and why modern dating makes all of it 10x harder than it needs to be.
It’s unhinged, relatable and accidentally therapeutic.
⭐ Rate us 5 stars or we’ll publicly call you our boyfriend.
1 Nov 2025
Ep 19: Trick, Treat & Terrible Dates
It’s spooky season, and Grace and Vikki are dressed up, delirious and oversharing as always. From wild listener date stories to gas station disasters and actual good-date miracles, this Halloween episode has it all: chaos, laughter and maybe a little trauma bonding. 🎃
⭐ Rate us 5 stars or we’ll haunt your Hinge profile.
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