You’re Too Picky is the dating podcast for high-standard women who are done settling and over the bare minimum. Hosted by burnout coach and serially single millennial Ellyn Schinke, we’re talking dating apps, red flags, emotional labor, and the wild world of intentional dating. Come for the rants, stay for the solidarity. This isn’t a fixer podcast—it’s a f*ck it, let’s talk about it podcast.
You're Too Picky | Dating, Relationships, Millennial Women
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You’re Too Picky is the dating podcast for high-standard women who are done settling and over the bare minimum. Hosted by burnout coach and serially single millennial Ellyn Schinke, we’re talking dating apps, red flags, emotional labor, and the wild world of intentional dating. Come for the rants, stay for the solidarity. This isn’t a fixer podcast—it’s a f*ck it, let’s talk about it podcast.
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Recent Episodes
September 2, 2025
014 | PLOT TWIST - This isn't Good-bye!
<p>Hey friends—real talk? I haven’t dropped a You’re Too Picky episode in over a month. Between summer slowdown and my own capacity hitting a wall, something had to give.</p><p>This little chaotic dating podcast has been such a fun ride... but I’ve realized I can’t keep running two separate shows. So we’re evolving.</p><p><br></p><p>Starting now, You’re Too Picky will live on as a <strong>bonus dating series inside my other show, </strong><strong>Burnout-Proof</strong>. Same vibe, same voice, just one home that’s easier to maintain—and honestly? Makes way more sense for my life right now.</p><p><br></p><p>Don’t worry: the archives are staying up, and I’ll keep dropping new “Too Picky” episodes when I’ve got dating chaos worth ranting about. But for now? Follow me over on <a href="https://www.coachellyn.com/burnout-podcast" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Burnout-Proof </a>and keep an eye out for episodes labeled You're Too Picky.</p><p><br></p><p>We’re still dating while ambitious. Still burnout-prone. Still hot messes. We’re just doing it smarter.</p><p><br></p><p>👉 Follow me on Instagram: <a href="https://instagram.com/coachellyn?utm_source=chatgpt.com" target="_new" rel="noopener">@coachellyn</a><br>🎧 Listen + subscribe to Burnout-Proof: <a href="https://www.coachellyn.com/burnout-podcast" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">https://www.coachellyn.com/burnout-podcast<br></a>📬 Submit your dating fails, red flag debates, or stories: <a href="https://www.coachellyn.com/picky/submissions?utm_source=chatgpt.com" target="_new" rel="noopener">coachellyn.com/picky/submissions</a></p><p>Stay picky, babes. I’ll see you over there. 💅</p>
August 1, 2025
013 - Teasing is Earned. It isn't a First Date Free-For-All
<p>Ever had someone start teasing you on a first date—and it didn’t land? </p><p>Yeah, me too.</p><p>This week, I’m diving into the weird little world of early relationship ribbing. Because I don’t care how many dating podcasts say "banter is flirting"—if I just met you, and you're already poking fun at my tattoos or my career? We're not flirting. You're being disrespectful.</p><p>Follow me on IG <a href="https://www.instagram.com/youretoopicky">@youretoopicky</a> and share your own stories: <a href="https://www.coachellyn.com/picky/submissions">Submit anonymously here</a>.</p><p><br></p><p>In this episode, I talk about:</p><ul><li><p>The "8 Mile effect" and why we call ourselves out before others can</p></li><li><p>The difference between playful teasing and crossing a boundary</p></li><li><p>Why I actually think early ribbing is a red flag</p></li></ul><p>And if being "too picky" means you don’t give strangers permission to make fun of you? Then yeah. I’ll own that.</p><p><br></p>
July 25, 2025
012 - Not Overwhelmed. Not Underwhelmed. Just WHELMED - My 10 Things I Hate About Date.
<p>What do you do when a date isn’t bad… but isn’t great either? In this week’s episode of the You’re Too Picky podcast, I break down a date that was the definition of “meh.” No sparks, no drama—just two hours of pizza, coffee, and a guy who could only talk about food.</p><p>Follow me on IG <a href="https://www.instagram.com/youretoopicky" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@youretoopicky</a> and share your own stories: <a href="https://www.coachellyn.com/picky/submissions" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Submit anonymously here</a>.</p><p>We're talking:</p><ul><li><p>The fine line between giving someone a chance and wasting your time</p></li><li><p>Why “not bad” isn’t the same as worth seeing again</p></li><li><p>How to handle dates where the vibe is just… flat</p></li><li><p>Why you don’t owe anyone a second shot just because they paid for lunch</p></li></ul><p><br /></p><p>If you’ve ever felt guilty for not giving someone a second chance just because they were nice, this one’s for you.</p><p><br /></p><p>🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your fix.</p><p><br /></p>
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