After the Affair
Hosted by Luke · Luke Shillings
4.7from 93 ratings
- 213
- Episodes
- 21
- Transcribed
- 93
- Ratings
- Daily
- Cadence
- 2022
- First episode
About After the Affair
The ‘After the affair’ podcast with Luke Shillings is here to help you process, decide, and move forward on purpose following infidelity. Let’s explore what’s required to rebuild trust not only in yourself, but also with others. Whether you stay or leave, I can help! and no matter what your story, there will be something here for you.
- Publisher
- Luke Shillings
- Category
- society & culture
- Language
- en
- Explicit
- No
- First episode
- 2 Oct 2022
- Latest episode
- 7 Oct 2026
Latest episodes
21 of 213 episodes have a transcript.
7 Oct 2026TRANSCRIPT
211. Why Does a Good Day Feel So Dangerous?
30 Sept 2026TRANSCRIPT
210. I'm Not Ready To Choose
23 Sept 2026TRANSCRIPT
209. The Halo Effect After Betrayal
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211. Why Does a Good Day Feel So Dangerous?
Published 7 Oct 2026 · Transcript excerpt
[…] But you laughed, you talked, and for a few hours perhaps you haven't even thought about the affair that much at all. Maybe you've even felt quite close to them again. And then later, sometimes almost as soon as you notice that you've had a good time, something changes. There's this little, hang on a minute, what am i doing why am i enjoying myself with this person have i forgotten what they did am i letting them off a little bit too easily and suddenly something that felt really good whilst it was happening becomes something that you actually now need to analyze i think this is really interesting because we spend so much time talking about how difficult the painful moments are after betrayal the triggers the anger the intrusive thoughts the checking the anxiety but sometimes feeling good doesn't feel particularly safe either And I think there's a few reasons for that. […]
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- Apple Podcasts (US)
- 4.8 / 5
- 32 ratings
- Spotify
- 4.6 / 5
- 61 ratings
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- 86
- Social presence
- 0
- YouTube
- 0
- Engagement
- 85
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