Welcome to the All of You Podcast with Dave and Shiv Martinell! A few years and one too many fights ago, our relationship led us on personal journeys toward self awareness, healing, and personal growth. We started to see that the more we healed, the better we started showing up not just in our relationship, but in the workplace, in our friendships, with our daughters, and most importantly for ourselves.
Our hope is that in sharing our own raw and vulnerable truths, others will be inspired, feel seen, and will want to pursue growth and healing in their own lives. We’re driven by the belief that as each person heals, the collective heals and that’s how we make this world a more beautiful and loving place.
Ready to do the work and go deeper in your own healing with a certified coach? Book a consultation call with us:
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We live in a world that rewards doing, and it can be hard to slow down long enough to simply be. Between the to-do lists, responsibilities, and constant distractions, being fully present can feel harder than ever. But what are we missing when we're always focused on what's next instead of what's right in front of us?
In this episode, we explore the hidden cost of living in a constant state of doing, how it impacts our relationships with our partners and kids, and what we can do to become more present in our everyday lives. Because the people we love don't just need our time. They need us to actually be there.
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If you’re ready to understand your own patterns, heal what’s underneath them, and create healthier relationships, we’d love to support you.
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5 Oct 2026
Ep.127 Becoming self aware is hard
We all have subconscious patterns that shape the way we think, feel, and show up in our relationships. The tricky part is that you can’t change what you’re not conscious of, and staying conscious of ourselves in every moment is nearly impossible.
In this episode, we talk about the messy, ongoing work of self-awareness and why becoming more conscious isn’t about getting it right all the time. It’s about noticing what’s happening, catching ourselves in old patterns, and choosing something different when we can. It takes work, but knowing yourself more deeply is worth it.
Ready to do the work and go deeper in your own healing? Book a consultation call with us or find Dave’s course here:
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28 Sept 2026
Ep.126 Why we get harsh with the ones we love
Inspired by Terry Real’s quote, “there is nothing that harshness does that loving firmness doesn’t do better,” in this episode we’re taking a closer look at why we can get so harsh with the people we love. Where does it come from, and why does it seem to come out most when we really want to be heard?
We talk about the difference between being direct, being firm, and being harsh, and how our old patterns can sneak into the way we communicate. Because even when you’ve asked a million times, getting harsher probably isn’t going to get you what you want. There’s another way to be heard without hurting the person you love.
Ready to do the work and go deeper in your own healing? Book a consultation call with us or find Dave’s course here:
Dave: https://stan.store/davemartinell
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