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Ask The Betrayed

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by Sharon & Rae

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The Ask The Betrayed podcast provides tangible hope to those in crisis and a safe place for Betrayed Partners to find healing and insight into the behaviors of the Unfaithful (who can also to learn how to help their Betrayed partners heal). We hope to fulfill a great need for betrayed partners to hear professionals who have personally experienced the deep traumatic pain of betrayal: Ask the Betrayed not only provides expert insight, it is hosted by two Betrayed Partners in long-term recovery from Betrayal Trauma, Sharon and Rae, who both specialize in helping Betrayed Partners, the Unfaithful and Couples recover from betrayal: - Sharon is a Licensed Therapist and Certified Professional Coach who is certified in betrayal trauma and, along with her husband, James Annear (@AskTheUnfaithful) - Rae is a Master Certified Life, Relationship and Divorce coach Ask the Betrayed airs every other week, alternating with it's companion channel, Ask the Unfaithful (@asktheunfaithful)

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July 8, 2026

WHAT IF YOUR UNFAITHFUL DOESN'T WANT TO DO THE BETRAYAL RECOVERY WORK?

<p>What if your unfaithful partner doesn't want to do the recovery work?</p> <p>One of the hardest realities after infidelity is realizing that you can't force someone to heal, grow, or fight for the relationship. So what do you do when you're the only one showing up?</p> <p>In this episode of Ask the Betrayed, Sharon and Rae explore one of the most painful questions betrayed partners face:</p> <p>How do you move forward when your unfaithful partner won't?</p> <p>Together they discuss:<br /> • Why you have more power (choices) than you think <br /> • How to get clear about what you want—and what you will no longer accept <br /> • Why boundaries are an act of love, not punishment <br /> • How betrayal trauma can disconnect you from your own values <br /> • The antidote to confusion and ambiguity <br /> • How to recognize progress-blocking patterns instead of isolated incidents <br /> • Why your partner's refusal to change does not determine your worth <br /> • How to begin healing, even if reconciliation isn't happening </p> <p>If you're feeling stuck, waiting for your partner to change, or wondering whether you're asking too much, this episode offers practical guidance, hope, and validation grounded in betrayal trauma recovery.</p> <p>You deserve clarity.</p> <p>You deserve healing.</p> <p>And you deserve to know that your future is not determined by someone else's choices.</p> <p>If this episode resonated, please like, subscribe, and share — it helps others find support and hope after betrayal.</p> <p>💬 Please comment - We'd love to hear what you took away from this podcast. </p> <p>🔔 Please Subscribe (and Like) for More<br /> Join Sharon and Rae every two weeks for grounded, empathetic conversations about healing after betrayal, rebuilding your identity, strengthening your voice, and reclaiming your life.</p> <p>Please share this video with someone who needs encouragement in their healing journey.</p> <p>📬 If you have questions you'd like us to answer in an episode, or would like to inquire about coaching with Rae or therapy help, including intensives, with Sharon and James, please reach out to us at: AskTheBetrayed@gmail.com</p> <p>🎧 You can also find us on Apple, Spotify, and everywhere podcasts are found.</p> <p>🔗 Need help healing? Find James & Sharon at the CORE Relationship Recovery website: www.HopeForUs.com (Email: Info@HopeForUs.com ) or find Rae at www.HealingTalksBack.com (Email: Rae@HealingTalksBack.com )</p> <p>Our Website: <a href= "https://www.AskTheBetrayed.com">https://www.AskTheBetrayed.com</a></p> <p>Follow CORE Relationship Recovery (James & Sharon) Facebook: <a href= "https://www.facebook.com/CORERelationshipRecovery">https://www.facebook.com/CORERelationshipRecovery</a> </p>

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June 24, 2026

S3 - A Simple Tool for Measuring Progress

<p>Healing after betrayal doesn't always happen in big, obvious moments.<br /> Sometimes recovery looks like one calmer day. One difficult conversation handled differently. One moment where you feel a little more grounded than you did last week.</p> <p>In this Ask The Betrayed Short, Rae shares a simple but powerful tool for tracking your healing journey.</p> <p>Using this method, you can begin to see patterns in your emotional wellbeing, recovery progress, and relationship dynamics—without adding another overwhelming task to your to-do list.</p> <p>If you've ever wondered:<br /> • "Am I actually making progress?"<br /> • "Why do some days feel so much harder than others?"<br /> • "How can I track my healing without journaling for hours?"</p> <p>This simple practice will help you notice growth that would otherwise go unseen.</p> <p>Remember: Healing isn't linear, but progress leaves clues.</p> <p>If this episode resonated, please like, subscribe, and share — it helps others find support and hope after betrayal.</p> <p>💬 Please comment - We'd love to hear what you took away from this podcast. </p> <p>🔔 Please Subscribe (and Like) for More</p> <p>Join Sharon and Rae every two weeks for grounded, empathetic conversations about healing after betrayal, rebuilding your identity, strengthening your voice, and reclaiming your life.</p> <p>Please share this video with someone who needs encouragement in their healing journey.</p> <p>📬 If you have questions you'd like us to answer in an episode, or would like to inquire about coaching with Rae or therapy help, including intensives, with Sharon and James, please reach out to us at: AskTheBetrayed@gmail.com</p> <p>🎧 You can also find us on Apple, Spotify, and everywhere podcasts are found.</p> <p>🔗 Need help healing? Find James & Sharon at the CORE Relationship Recovery website: www.HopeForUs.com (Email: Info@HopeForUs.com ) or find Rae at www.HealingTalksBack.com (Email: Rae@HealingTalksBack.com )</p> <p data-pm-slice="0 0 []">Our Website: https://www.AskTheBetrayed.com</p> <p>Follow CORE Relationship Recovery (James & Sharon) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CORERelationshipRecovery</p>

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June 10, 2026

IMPACT STATEMENTS: THE HEALING POWER OF SHARING THE IMPACT OF BETRAYAL WITH THE UNFAITHFUL

<p>Have you ever wished your unfaithful partner could truly understand what betrayal has done to you?</p> <p>In this powerful episode of Ask The Betrayed, Sharon and Rae explore one of the most transformative tools in betrayal trauma recovery: the Impact Statement.</p> <p>An Impact Statement gives betrayed partners the opportunity to put words to the emotional, relational, sexual, spiritual, financial, vocational, and personal injuries caused by betrayal. It is a chance to tell the truth about what happened—not only to the relationship, but to you.</p> <p>In this episode, we discuss:<br /> ✔ What an Impact Statement is and why it matters<br /> ✔ How impact statements fit into the betrayal recovery process<br /> ✔ Different ways to write and structure an impact letter<br /> ✔ Why this process can be empowering and healing<br /> ✔ The role of professional support during impact statement work<br /> ✔ How impact statements help unfaithful partners understand the true impact of betrayal<br /> ✔ Real examples of powerful impact statement language<br /> ✔ Why being witnessed matters in healing from betrayal trauma</p> <p>Whether your relationship survives or not, your story deserves to be heard.<br /> One of the most painful realities of betrayal is carrying the impact alone. An Impact Statement creates the opportunity to reclaim your voice, organize your experience, and speak the truth about what happened to you.</p> <p>Because healing begins when your reality is no longer minimized, dismissed, or hidden.</p> <p>If this episode resonated, please like, subscribe, and share — it helps others find support and hope after betrayal.</p> <p>💬 Please comment - We'd love to hear what you took away from this podcast. </p> <p>🔔 Please Subscribe (and Like) for More<br /> Join Sharon and Rae every two weeks for grounded, empathetic conversations about healing after betrayal, rebuilding your identity, strengthening your voice, and reclaiming your life.</p> <p>Please share this video with someone who needs encouragement in their healing journey.</p> <p>📬 If you have questions you'd like us to answer in an episode, or would like to inquire about coaching with Rae or therapy help, including intensives, with Sharon and James, please reach out to us at: AskTheBetrayed@gmail.com</p> <p>🎧 You can also find us on Apple, Spotify, and everywhere podcasts are found.</p> <p>🔗 Need help healing? Find James & Sharon at the CORE Relationship Recovery website: www.HopeForUs.com (Email: Info@HopeForUs.com ) or find Rae at www.HealingTalksBack.com (Email: Rae@HealingTalksBack.com )</p> <p data-pm-slice="0 0 []"> </p> <p data-pm-slice="0 0 []">Our Website: https://www.AskTheBetrayed.com</p> <p>Follow CORE Relationship Recovery (James & Sharon) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CORERelationshipRecovery</p> <p> </p>

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What is Ask The Betrayed?

The Ask The Betrayed podcast provides tangible hope to those in crisis and a safe place for Betrayed Partners to find healing and insight into the behaviors of the Unfaithful (who can also to learn how to help their Betrayed partners heal). We hope to fulfill a great need for betrayed partners to hear professionals who have personally experienced the deep traumatic pain of betrayal: Ask the Betrayed not only provides expert insight, it is hosted by two Betrayed Partners in long-term recovery from Betrayal Trauma, Sharon and Rae, who both specialize in helping Betrayed Partners, the Unfaithful and Couples recover from betrayal:

  • Sharon is a Licensed Therapist and Certified Professional Coach who is certified in betrayal trauma and, along with her husband, James Annear (@AskTheUnfaithful)
  • Rae is a Master Certified Life, Relationship and Divorce coach

Ask the Betrayed airs every other week, alternating with it's companion channel, Ask the Unfaithful (@asktheunfaithful)

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