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The Ask The Unfaithful Podcast, is a safe place for both Unfaithful and Betrayed Partners to find hope and healing. This podcast draws on both our personal and professional experience to provide expert insight into the mind of the Unfaithful, and how their behaviors traumatically affect the life, heart and even brain plasticity of Betrayed Partners. Ask the Unfaithful is hosted by two Unfaithfuls in long-term recovery, James and Sam: Therapist and coach James Annear who co-owns CORE Relationship Recovery with his wife, Sharon Rinearson. They have been helping couples recover from the traumatic impacts of infidelity, sexually compulsive behaviors and addiction for over a decade. Formerly with Affair Recovery and now host of Sam's Healing Podcast, Sam has been producing videos for almost 10 years and helping to care for those in crisis due to infidelity and addiction for almost 15 years.

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July 17, 2026

5 PATTERNS THAT CAN CAUSE THE UNFAITHFUL TO CHEAT (AND TO FAIL IN BETRAYAL RECOVERY)

James Annear, LMHC, and Sam explore five psychological patterns driving infidelity and hindering recovery, offering insights for lasting change.

July 2, 2026

THE ONE ACTION THAT UNLOCKS THE UNFAITHFUL'S RECOVERY WORK

What is the ONE action that unlocks real recovery for the unfaithful? In this powerful episode of Ask The Unfaithful, James Annear and Sam reveal the single most important shift that determines whether recovery actually works—or quietly fails. After betrayal, most unfaithful partners focus on external behaviors—apologies, transparency, doing "the right things." But without internal credibility, none of it sticks. Because here's the truth: If you don't trust yourself, no one else will be able to trust you either. This episode breaks down how self-trust becomes the foundation of integrity, empathy, and relational safety - and how learning to rebuild it unlocks everything else in recovery. You'll learn practical tools you can start using TODAY. 🔹 In This Episode, You'll Learn: • Why self-trust is the foundation of all recovery work • How betrayal damages your internal sense of reliability • The hidden ways shame, projection, and mistrust sabotage healing • Why recovery is about becoming believable to yourself again • How keeping small promises daily rewires your brain for safety • The role of consistency, transparency, and accountability • How somatic (body-based) work restores trust from the inside out • Why self-compassion is not weakness - but emotional regulation • How rebuilding self-trust directly impacts your partner's ability to heal 🔹 The Core Truth From This Episode: Recovery doesn't begin when you stop failing. It begins when your actions consistently align with your values. Or as James puts it: 👉 "Rebuilding self-trust isn't just about doing better - it's about becoming believable to yourself again." 🔹 This Episode Is For You If: • You're an unfaithful partner struggling to stay consistent in recovery • You feel like you're "doing the work" but nothing is changing • You want to rebuild trust, integrity, and emotional safety • You're ready to move from shame → accountability → growth 🔹 Key Topics Infidelity recovery Self-trust and accountability Betrayal trauma healing Rebuilding integrity after cheating Transparency and consistency Emotional regulation and nervous system healing Relationship repair after betrayal 💬 Please Comment below: How does this episode resonate with you? 📬 Connect With Us: Have a question or a topic you want us to address? Email: AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com Need help healing? Visit HopeForUs.com Work with James & Sharon: Info@HopeForUs.com Work with Sam: SamsHealingPodcast@gmail.com 👉 If this episode resonates with you, please like, share, and subscribe for more conversations on betrayal trauma, affair recovery, and building trust again. ------ Our Website: www.AskTheUnfaithful.com Contact us: AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com 🔗 Need help healing? Visit HopeForUs.com (Email: Info@HopeForUs.com ) or email Sam at SamsHealingPodcast@gmail.com 📬 Reach out: asktheunfaithful@gmail.com 🎧 Find us on Apple, Spotify, and everywhere podcasts are found. Find James & Sharon at the CORE Relationship Recovery website: www.HopeForUs.com Find more from Sam at Sam's Healing Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@samshealingpodcast Follow James at LinkedIn: <a href= "https://www.linkedin.com/in/james-annear-lmhc-704551157">www.linkedin.com/in/james-annear-lmhc-704551157</a> Follow CORE Relationship Recovery (James & Sharon) on Facebook: <a href= "https://www.facebook.com/CORERelationshipRecovery">www.facebook.com/CORERelationshipRecovery</a> ⚠️ Note: This episode is educational, not therapy. Please reach out for professional guidance at AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com to learn more about coaching or intensive options.

June 17, 2026

Episode 71: IS THE UNFAITHFUL SLEEPWALKING THROUGH BETRAYAL RECOVERY?

James Annear and Sam explore how unfaithful partners often "sleepwalk" through recovery, driven by unconscious behaviors and defense mechanisms, offering insights to foster genuine healing.

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What is Ask the Unfaithful?: The Ask The Unfaithful Podcast, is a safe place for both Unfaithful and Betrayed Partners to find hope and healing. This podcast draws on both our personal and professional experience to provide expert insight into the mind of the Unfaithful, and how their behaviors traumatically affect the life, heart and even brain plasticity of Betrayed Partners.

Ask the Unfaithful is hosted by two Unfaithfuls in long-term recovery, James and Sam:

Therapist and coach James Annear who co-owns CORE Relationship Recovery with his wife, Sharon Rinearson. They have been helping couples recover from the traumatic impacts of infidelity, sexually compulsive behaviors and addiction for over a decade.

Formerly with Affair Recovery and now host of Sam's Healing Podcast, Sam has been producing videos for almost 10 years and helping to care for those in crisis due to infidelity and addiction for almost 15 years.
How often does this podcast release new episodes?: This podcast updates daily.
Where can I listen to this podcast?: This podcast is available on 6 platforms including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and more. You can also use the RSS feed directly.
Does this podcast accept guests?: Yes, this podcast regularly features guests.

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