
Ask the Unfaithful
Hosted by James and Sam and James Annear and Sharon · James & Sam
5.0from 69 ratings
- 81
- Episodes
- 7
- Transcribed
- 69
- Ratings
- Daily
- Cadence
- 2024
- First episode
- 655K
- YouTube views
About Ask the Unfaithful
The Ask The Unfaithful Podcast, is a safe place for both Unfaithful and Betrayed Partners to find hope and healing. This podcast draws on both our personal and professional experience to provide expert insight into the mind of the Unfaithful, and how their behaviors traumatically affect the life, heart and even brain plasticity of Betrayed Partners. Ask the Unfaithful is hosted by two Unfaithfuls in long-term recovery, James and Sam: Therapist and coach James Annear who co-owns CORE Relationship Recovery with his wife, Sharon Rinearson. They have been helping couples recover from the traumatic impacts of infidelity, sexually compulsive behaviors and addiction for over a decade. Formerly with Affair Recovery and now host of Sam's Healing Podcast, Sam has been producing videos for almost 10 years and helping to care for those in crisis due to infidelity and addiction for almost 15 years.
- Publisher
- James & Sam
- Category
- education
- Language
- en
- Explicit
- No
- First episode
- 20 Sept 2024
- Latest episode
- 10 Sept 2026
Latest episodes
7 of 81 episodes have a transcript.

10 Sept 2026TRANSCRIPT
4 MISTAKES THAT PREVENT COUPLES FROM HEALING FROM INFIDELITY

26 Aug 2026TRANSCRIPT
THE VICTIM MINDSET: WHY THE UNFAITHFUL WHINES, BLAMES, AND ISN'T EMPATHETIC

12 Aug 2026
4 WAYS THE UNFAITHFUL MINIMIZE AND DEFLECT
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4 MISTAKES THAT PREVENT COUPLES FROM HEALING FROM INFIDELITY
Published 10 Sept 2026 · Transcript excerpt
[…] Great. Some of you might say, I've got some stuff that's percolating underneath this that I probably need to talk to an expert about. So now let's move on to mistake number two, which is a very common mistake and a lot of helpers. we'll make this mistake. And we've come across this before. And that's when we focus on the relationship too soon. So what does this look like? This can look like date nights, talking about love languages, relationship books. And all of that is happening before safety has been rebuilt. And that's the key piece. Safety has to be rebuilt before any of that stuff can be visited. […]
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- YouTube views
- 655,382
- Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025
- Apple Podcasts (US)
- 5.0 / 5
- 43 ratings
- Spotify
- 5.0 / 5
- 26 ratings
Podcast Authority Score: 75 / 100
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- Quality
- 95
- Social presence
- 0
- YouTube
- 86
- Engagement
- 51
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James and Sam and James Annear and Sharon host the show. Published by James & Sam.
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