by Mia Davis
Introducing Asking for Myself—a podcast unmasking the secrets of intimacy, connection, and relationships. Join host Mia Davis as she breaks down topics like pleasure, desire, and the art of meaningful communication with leading experts in relational wellness. These conversations help you understand your desires, communicate authentically, heal shame, and build relational intelligence. Ready to explore what no one else dares to discuss? Good, because we’re going there. Let's get into it!
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June 1, 2024
<p><em>Self-pleasure, Shame, and Double Standards</em></p> <p><br></p> <p>If you grew up with a lot of shame and fears around masturbation (shame which you very well still may carry), this episode is for you. </p> <p>Join me as I dive into an eye-opening discussion with the Creator, Executive Producer, and Host of <a href="https://www.sexedwithdb.com/"><strong>Sex Ed with DB</strong></a>, <a href="https://sexedwithdb.tabuwellness.com/"><strong>Danielle Bezalel</strong></a>.<a href="https://www.instagram.com/theboundarytherapist/"> </a></p> <p><br></p> <p><strong>Today’s Questions</strong></p> <ul> <li><p>What has your own personal journey with self-pleasure looked like?</p> </li> <li><p>How can parents talk to their kids about masturbation?</p> </li> <li><p>How does self-esteem play a role in self-pleasure?</p> </li> <li><p>What were the results of your <a href="https://www.sexedwithdb.com/magicwandexperiment"><strong>Magic Wand masturbation experiment</strong></a>?</p> </li> <li><p>What masturbation tips do you have for beginners?</p> </li> <li><p>How can you incorporate self-pleasure in the context of a relationship?</p> </li> <li><p>How do you take the pressure off of orgasming when it comes to self-pleasure?</p> </li> <li><p>How can you navigate conversations or boundaries with your partner if they are uncomfortable with masturbation (and/or don’t want you to masturbate)?</p> </li> </ul> <p>Get your hands on the <a href="http://affiliate.thepleasurechest.com/98614/7783/url_6507"><strong>Magic Wand</strong></a>! Happy experimenting… 🪄</p> <p><br></p> <p><strong>Sponsor</strong></p> <p>Today’s episode is brought to you by <a href="https://bit.ly/tabu_afterglow"><strong>afterglow</strong></a>. afterglow combines high-quality ethical porn with sexual wellness exercises and education. Use code <strong>TALKTABU</strong> for your free 7-day trial!</p> <p><br></p> <p><strong>Resources</strong></p> <p><a href="http://sexpositivefamilies.com"><strong>Sex Positive Families</strong></a></p> <p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/c/amazeorg"><strong>AMAZE Org</strong></a></p> <p><a href="https://tiktok.com/@sexedfiles"><strong>Sex Ed Files</strong></a></p> <p><a href="https://www.sexedwithdb.com/podcastlisten"><strong>Sex Ed With DB</strong></a></p> <p><a href="https://www.o.school/originals/vibrators"><strong>O.school — vibrators</strong></a></p> <p><a href="http://talktabu.com/sex-toys"><strong>tabú's Guide to Sex Toys!</strong></a><br></p> --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/askingformyself/message Support this podcast: <a href="https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/askingformyself/support" rel="payment">https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/askingformyself/support</a>
February 23, 2024
<p><em>Boundaries, Codependency, and People Pleasing</em></p> <p><br></p> <p>Do you find yourself constantly struggling with setting boundaries, feeling caught up in codependent patterns, or finding it challenging to break free from the cycle of people-pleasing? In this episode, we navigate the delicate terrain of personal boundaries, codependency, and the art of putting oneself first.</p> <p><br></p> <p>Join me as I embark on a thought-provoking discussion with experts in the field—THE boundary therapist, <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theboundarytherapist/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer"><strong>Lacy Simmons</strong></a> and codependency coach, <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fittingrightin/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer"><strong>Klara Kernig</strong></a>. Together, we unravel the complexities of establishing and maintaining healthy boundaries in various relationships.</p> <p><br></p> <p><strong>Today’s Questions</strong></p> <ul> <li>What factors contribute to the development of codependency and difficulties in setting boundaries? Are there early indicators, such as childhood experiences or attachment styles, that may lead someone down this path?</li> <li>Is indecisiveness a symptom of people pleasing? What about perfectionism?</li> <li>What is self-esteem? Where does self-esteem come from?</li> <li>Why do people pleasers <em>want</em> to give, but then experience resentment from giving “too much”? Is the desire to please genuine?</li> <li>How do individuals who have been entangled in codependent dynamics recognize and break free from these patterns? </li> <li>What are the common behavior patterns that manifest in people struggling with codependency?</li> <li>What does it look like to work with a therapist on your boundaries?</li> <li>How and when do you compromise while staying true to your needs?</li> <li>How can you start setting boundaries? Is it worth saying no just to practice saying no?</li> <li>What if the people in your life don’t respond well to your boundaries?</li> </ul> <p><br></p> <p>As we stress the importance of setting healthy boundaries and breaking free from people-pleasing, let's <em>un-stress</em> those hormones with <a href="https://bit.ly/semaine_tabu" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer"><strong>Semaine Health</strong></a>. Semaine's curated line of supplements is here to amplify your journey towards well-balanced hormonal harmony. Painful periods? UTIs? Not today! Use code <strong>TABU</strong> for 20% off your order!</p> --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/askingformyself/message Support this podcast: <a href="https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/askingformyself/support" rel="payment">https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/askingformyself/support</a>
July 28, 2023
<p>Do you have that one friend that’s always in a toxic relationship? Is that friend you? This episode is all about red flags, unhealthy dynamics, and some serious introspection. I dive into murky waters with therapists <a href="https://www.instagram.com/sexdoccarli/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer"><strong>Dr. Carli Blau</strong></a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/drelizabethfedrick/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer"><strong>Dr. Elizabeth Fedrick</strong></a> (aka Dr. Liz). </p> <p><br></p> <p>Here’s what we get into:</p> <p><br></p> <ul> <li>Are there predictors for ending up in an unhealthy relationship, such as childhood trauma/certain types of attachment wounds, or can anyone end up in an unhealthy relationship?</li> <li>What are common behavior patterns that show up for people who have been in emotionally abusive relationships?</li> <li>How do you identify and distinguish between a genuine red flag vs. a personal preference?</li> </ul> <ul> <li>How do you talk about previous relationships and/or insecurities with a new partner?</li> <li>How do you empathize with your partner while still honoring your needs?</li> <li>How can you work through and heal from your own red flags? </li> </ul> <p><br></p> <p>Trust me, you’re gonna want to tune in. </p> <p><br></p> <p>Ready to get toxic relationships <em>and </em>toxic products out of your life? A big thank you and shout out to today’s sponsors:</p> <p><br></p> <p><a href="https://bit.ly/AFM_UBERLUBE" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer"><strong>Uberlube</strong></a> (non-toxic, premium, silicone lube) — use code <strong>TABU</strong> for 10% off your order!</p> <p><a href="https://bit.ly/revol_cares" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer"><strong>Revol Cares</strong></a> (non-toxic, comfy, highly absorbent period undies) — use code <strong>AFM15</strong> for 15% off.</p> <p><br></p> <p>Enjoy!</p> --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/askingformyself/message Support this podcast: <a href="https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/askingformyself/support" rel="payment">https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/askingformyself/support</a>
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Introducing Asking for Myself—a podcast unmasking the secrets of intimacy, connection, and relationships. Join host Mia Davis as she breaks down topics like pleasure, desire, and the art of meaningful communication with leading experts in relational wellness. These conversations help you understand your desires, communicate authentically, heal shame, and build relational intelligence.
Ready to explore what no one else dares to discuss? Good, because we’re going there. Let's get into it!
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