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Episode 32 - Breaking Filipino Cycles & Rewiring The Root ft. Alma Lozynska
Born and raised in the Philippines, Alma spent much of her life repeating patterns she couldn’t fully understand, patterns shaped by childhood experiences, cultural conditioning, relationships, and subconscious beliefs formed early in life.
For years, she searched for change through external circumstances, believing a new environment, relationship, or achievement might finally bring the freedom she was looking for. Yet the same emotional struggles and recurring patterns continued to surface.
In this episode of Back At It, Alma shares her journey from growing up in the Philippines, to building a life abroad in Dubai and later Poland, and how those experiences ultimately led her toward deeper trauma-informed healing and Root Cause Therapy.
Tune in on the latest episode of Back At It as Alma and David explore how childhood environments shape adult relationships, the hidden impact of subconscious beliefs, the patterns many Filipinos silently carry through generations, and what becomes possible when we begin addressing challenges at their roots rather than only managing the symptoms.
Today, Alma is a trauma-informed coach and Root Cause Therapy practitioner who helps people uncover the subconscious beliefs, emotional conditioning, and survival patterns shaping how they show up in life, from self-abandonment and people-pleasing to emotional suppression and difficulty trusting themselves, so they can break recurring patterns and create meaningful change in their relationships, decisions, and lives.
TIMESTAMPS:
(00:00): Intro
(01:30): In-depth to her conditioning growing up in the Philippines
(08:08): How childhood memories would lead to limiting beliefs played out in adulthood
(16:31): Mother & Father Wound
(22:44): Moving to Dubai and trying to seek validation
(30:43): Moving to Poland and confronting her trauma
(36:27): Discovery of Root Cause Therapy
(47:37): The changes in her life as a result of root cause therapy: digging into the root of her emotions and behavior
(56:09): First steps to apply root cause therapy into your own life
(59:39): Her goal using root cause therapy as a means to help Filipinos break multi-generational behavior and be themselves
(1:07:10): The habits to build to be proud of who you are
(1:12:11): Where does Alma see herself in the next 5 years?
(1:16:29): Not regretting learning root cause therapy later rather than sooner
(1:18:58): The main lesson she wants her children to learn as they grow up
(1:21:39): Closing Remarks
9 Jan 2026
Episode 31 - Things I Wish Someone Had Told Me ft. Hannah Fan
Almost everyone grew up believing that if you made good grades, get into a good school, and get a good job, then you'd finally be considered successful. Then why are so many "successful" people anxious and depressed?
What happens when "success" becomes your identity and your worth is tied to constant performance?
In this episode of Back At It, David sits down with Hannah Fan, author of "Things I Wish Someone Had Told Me", to have a conversation on identity, subconscious beliefs, and the emotional toll of constantly trying to be “enough.”
What is the emotional cost of high achievement, immigrant parental pressure, and identity built on productivity?
Hannah shares the pivotal moments that led her to examine her subconscious beliefs around fear, self-worth, and emotional survival and how years of suppressing her inner world shaped her anxiety, burnout, and sense of disconnection.
This episode is for anyone feeling stuck in survival mode and looking for a healthier, more sustainable way to live and succeed.
You can order her book Things I Wish Someone Had Told Me through this link: https://a.co/d/dasnwgr
TIMESTAMPS:
(00:00): Intro
(00:41): Hannah's upbringing
(03:56): Being raised in a gender-based household, having alot of responsibilities as a woman
(06:48): Being ingrained with the mindset to always do more
(09:08): Self confidence vs. Self worth
(12:18): Realizations in therapy that she's been bottling up her feelings her entire life
(15:43): Realizing her toxicity through dating, leading to her resolve to find out who she is
(18:13): Emphasizing the load women have to carry from the past to present
(22:12): Using her book 'Things I Wish Someone Had Told Me' as a platform for others to process their emotions
(24:19): How many people build their identities on what they do, not who they are
(28:24): How to start conversations with your parents about having a healthy relationship with them
(31:31): Leading by example
(32:44): Meeting her husband at the perfect time
(34:34): Practicing boundaries while being in community with people
(39:05): Advice for avoidant people to be a good communicator
(42:42): A step one for people to get in a restful mindset amidst a heightened state
(46:29): The importance of nature in our physical bodies
(48:37): How movement helps us get out in a mental and physical rut
(52:58): Her high school friends being a big foundation in her life
(58:46): The main takeaway Hannah hopes everyone would receive from her hook
(1:02:30): How she views her release of 'Things I Wish Someone Had Told Me' as a new beginning for her
(1:04:29): Reassuring herself she is enough
19 Dec 2025
Episode 30 - Unlock Your Rainbow ft. Toni Liu, MD
When asked what is one word to describe who she is at the end of our discussion, Toni Liu eventually settled with the word rainbow.
Born into an overly strict parental upbringing, Toni grew up feeling suppressed; that all of her identity and self-worth was tied into how obedient she is to her parents. As a result, she did everything her parents commanded her to: from school, to lifestyle, eventually becoming a physician as a career; specifically a gynecologist fighting for women's rights and social justice. On the outside, it seemed that she succeeded and made her parents happy. However, even though she was working for a cause she deeply cared about, she couldn't bear to live that type of life anymore.
As a result, she packed her belongings and traveled all over the world, eventually becoming a nomad in Asia. It was in her travels where she learned who she really is, and eventually grew the capacity to love herself and those around her, while still advocating for women's rights and social justice for marginalized groups.
Tune in on the latest episode of Back At It as David and Toni discuss her past, and how she channeled all of the trauma she encountered into love through her newfound experiences and the techniques she learned along the way.
Now helping others who also felt like they didn’t belong nor fit any boxes, she provides a safe space for those who may never felt safe before to be themselves for the first time, providing love and support along the way; unlocking their rainbow after a tumultuous beginning, just as she unlocked hers.
Resource Recommendations:
Running on Empty: Overcome Your Childhood Emotional Neglect - Christine Musello and Jonice Webb
Man's Search For Meaning - Viktor Frankl
Why You No Doctor Anymore?! Honoring Your Family AND Yourself Too - Toni Liu MD
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